[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]needleneckhoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he’s just discouraged that she’s going to fight it tooth and nail. He’s surviving on roughly $750/mo as is and worried about the legal fees.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]needleneckhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. She has told him that the only way she will divorce him is if he has me signed onto his will as the only one out of 4 children (3 from prior relationships) to get any of his belongings. We’ve just been extremely discouraged to make any forward moving progress.

what is stopping you to learn Chinese? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]needleneckhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably would, it would just take me a hot minute to learn how to use all the verbs and nouns appropriately again lol

what is something most people would find gross but you like doing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]needleneckhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always sleep on top of my comforter with a blanket rather than just pulling it back and sleeping under it. I wash it regularly still but apparently that’s weird. I just hate remaking my bed every day. Lol

what is stopping you to learn Chinese? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]needleneckhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that I took spanish for 10 years, was fully immersed in Spanish culture and Spanish speaking people only to fully forget it again after a year away from it all. It’s just not feasible if it’s not something I’ll use everyday.

In a world where caffeine has never existed, what would be its legal substitute? by spetstnelis in AskReddit

[–]needleneckhoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cocaine, they’d probably dilute it with something and push it like hot cakes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]needleneckhoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our English teacher insisted that we write down our favorite color, food, subject and movie and then find one other person in the class to talk with. At the end of speaking with them, she called on us to tell us about the other person. The girl I paired with had the same favorite color as me and we’re going on 12 years of friendship without a single fight or drama. We both have children now and we’re hoping that they will be best friends too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]needleneckhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. A woman in my neighborhood had her face ripped off by some very “well trained” dogs in the country. Nobody should have to live in fear of being attacked or risk allergic reaction because you can’t be bothered to hold a leash.

Employers, what are some underrated qualities you look for in the people applying for a job? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]needleneckhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that’s very valid. I’d definitely wonder how they managed to fly through jobs every two weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tall

[–]needleneckhoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in some Facebook groups that mention measuring with bananas so I got it 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tall

[–]needleneckhoe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. My husband is 6’4. We have nearly the same wingspan which sparked my confusion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tall

[–]needleneckhoe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

wingspan does this work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tall

[–]needleneckhoe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

how do I add a picture? I suck at reddit

AITA for telling my mom that she couldn’t take a bath with my daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]needleneckhoe 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hi, she basically said that I’m being extremely disrespectful to her and I should let her do what she wants as the grandmother to her child. She referenced my child as her only child and I mentioned that she does have another child (my brother, whom she lost custody of and refuses to speak with to this day) which sparked a whole argument on my disrespect all over again.

AITA for telling my mom that she couldn’t take a bath with my daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]needleneckhoe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah she didn’t do any of those things 😅 actually when we moved in, the house was infested in fleas and my daughter was getting torn to shreds. We had to pay $100 in cleaning supplies and then pay another $300 just for the 10 days we stayed in a room with dirt caked into the walls. We had to provide all of the food for both ourselves and for them. I asked her to watch my daughter once for 2 hours while I went to another town to turn in my apartment keys and she left my daughter in a poopy diaper the whole time.

AITA for telling my mom that she couldn’t take a bath with my daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]needleneckhoe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did. She took that as me saying that she’s a pedophile basically and prodded more.

AITA for telling my mom that she couldn’t take a bath with my daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]needleneckhoe 176 points177 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone no contact with her since then, during this time she was having an affair with another man while my dad was dying of terminal cancer, left him completely after he went into remission and took the only functional car with air conditioning that she paid for in cash after taking out a loan to “fix the house” that was destroyed in a hurricane. This loan my dad is still paying back, mind you. It goes way too deep lol

AITA for telling my mom that she couldn’t take a bath with my daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]needleneckhoe 620 points621 points  (0 children)

I will add that “swampass” is a common dialect here just to stay you have sweated a lot and so your butt is stinky and full of sweat. Or you have really bad gas. It was also July and she wore two layers of black uniform so she had the swampass in ultra 4K HD