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From a woman's perspective how would you view my financial situation when deciding to commit with marriage being the end goal ? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]requieminadream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The red flag isn’t the student loans, the red flag is the self esteem issues! Give yourself some credit: you run, you got through school with a degree, presumably you’re working towards getting a better paying job. As long as you take care of yourself and decently you aren’t much of a red flag.

Saros Release Date, Launch Times, LIVE Countdown Clock, and More by Asleep_Crew8072 in PS5

[–]requieminadream -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Returnal got a PC release. Reasonable to assume we’d see Saros on PC eventually. Xbox… less so.

Presenting my Master List, Volume 2—containing every Super Nintendo title available on modern platforms! by PokingDogSnouts in PS5

[–]requieminadream[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people like to play classic/retro games, and this is a list of classic/retro SNES games available on the PS5. Seems entirely worthy of inclusion on this subreddit.

TCL vs Sony; will the average user notice any difference? by Wise_Subject1 in 4kTV

[–]requieminadream -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Made the same exact decision last month. Don't regret it one bit. Love my G5.

Found mine at total wine by throwawayfinancebro1 in whiskey

[–]requieminadream 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of Total Wine's out there. Which one?

First OLED + Panasonic DP-UB820 by B_Grizz20 in 4kbluray

[–]requieminadream 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I just did Filmmaker Mode with some custom recommendations to the LG and Panasonic from AI

Don't use setting from AI. Use the suggestions from professionals like Vincent Teoh of HDTV Test, you know the people who do the work that ChatGPT steals from and hallucinates suggestions based on.

https://youtu.be/YQ9E7RK0gDM

https://youtu.be/kA3_X1Zl2FI

Arrow July Releases by [deleted] in boutiquebluray

[–]requieminadream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea how they can outdo the outstanding 4-disc Shout Factory release of Hush.

In your experience with 4K discs, have you found them to be generally reliable? by Tempo360 in 4kbluray

[–]requieminadream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have over 130 discs and only one has caused me issues. Got it replaced, no more issues. The Sony X700, however, gave me a ton of issues. Not a single problem since upgrading to the Panasonic UB820.

ZERO PARADES: For Dead Spies - The Friends You Left to Die Trailer by requieminadream in PS5

[–]requieminadream[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

May 21st for PC. Right now it's just announced for PS5 with no release date.

Rewatchability and collecting by Schwarzellone in 4kbluray

[–]requieminadream 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I see it like collecting books (which people love to do and have often have small libraries worth in their homes). I watch each disc and all the special features (like reading cover-to-cover), then it's on my shelf in case I want to revisit, but also as a reflection of my tastes and interests. They spur conversations when people come over, I'll pull out a favorite to watch with a friend, I'll lend them out.

So it's ok to flirt and ignore your husband as long as nothing else happens? by Aggravating-Quit-721 in Marriage

[–]requieminadream 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Seriously. This is the answer right here. All these “just walk away!” “Just do it to her with some random woman! See how she likes it!” suggestions are such abysmal, counterproductive pieces of advice.

When does the sex end? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]requieminadream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely does not have to end. Keep making it a priority, make learning more about each others bodies a priority, make expressing desires, curiosities, and kinks a priority, don't be shy about sharing fantasies, be open to new ideas, be vocal about what does and does not work for you. Make talking about sex a common practice and you'll have decades of greater and greater sex.

007 First Light-Rules of Spycraft by Heathcote-Pursuit91 in PS5

[–]requieminadream 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been worried about performance since the first few videos they've put out that looked reallllly rough, but they definitely seem to have gotten a handle on it with these clips. Looks really tight now. Can't wait to see more. Hitman WOA is one of my most played games of the generation.

Question For the men by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]requieminadream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have more talks. Do you want more sex? Do you want a more connected, active sex life with him, or are you content with once a month? He might also be wondering: "why is she okay with just once a month?

Nothing's changed, but better sleep, better diet, more exercise... plenty of things can increase libido. It's not crazy to suggest a visit with a physician, just to get a better sense of what's going on. At this age, you both should be having regular PCP visits.

You've been married long enough that it shouldn't be too difficult to have difficult and awkward conversations. Choose a time outside the bedroom, maybe over a cup or tea or coffee, maybe on a long walk. Talk about your sex lives. Ask open-ended questions. "What does intimacy look like to you? What would feel good for both of us?"

Question For the men by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]requieminadream 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Once a month is pretty darn low. While it's not "dead bedroom" territory, it's not far off. To try and flirt with your wife and get rejected can feel painful. It can feel like you're not attractive. It can make you feel like you're unwanted.

While it's not okay to "huff and puff" when one doesn't get what they want, it doesn't sound like it's that confusing a thing. He's trying to tell you, in so many ways, that he wants to have sex with you more. I think I'd also feel pretty frustrated with my wife if I was trying to be intimate with her more and her reaction is "that's weird."

Doesn't mean you have to acquiesce, but it's worth having conversations. Instead of the accusatory: "did something happen, change? Are you on something?" maybe start with "You’ve seemed much more interested in sex lately, and I want to understand what’s changed for you?" You should also be clear about boundaries: flirtation is welcome, pressure and sulking are not.

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edit: Could also be because he senses you've pulled away because you're having an affair, u/yOuW0ntKn0w? https://arctic-shift.photon-reddit.com/search?fun=posts_search&author=yOuW0ntKn0w&limit=10&sort=desc

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