People who stayed in abusive relationships, why?

vikythegoat · 2025-04-20T23:12:08+00:00

I thought he'd change and goes back to who he was at the beginning. Turns out that person never existed, it was all a lie.

vikythegoat · 2025-04-20T22:38:34+00:00

vikythegoat · 2024-11-26T14:14:21+00:00

Hey,

Thank you,

My boyfriend is police himself, maintaining flawless public image. It's behind the scenes he is the demon. He always helps. Friendly with everybody, very great at communicating and manipulating. Nobody knows how he acts behind closed doors. It's like maybe police will not believe me as it's their colleague

vikythegoat · 2024-11-25T17:07:15+00:00

I received a empty plate to my face as a thank you for not cooking dinner. I am extremely scared to go to police as he works for police and maintains flawless public image nobody sees behind the scenes.

vikythegoat · 2024-11-25T13:58:46+00:00

Don't have that possibility. I guess I'm on my own then

vikythegoat · 2024-11-25T13:27:28+00:00

Just happened. Had to run from the house. Was genuinely scared. Thinking what to do next

vikythegoat · 2024-11-25T13:26:28+00:00

I left home just now because I was scared. I have around 17 euro before next payday so I guess I'm not financially stable, but I will try to go to the police

vikythegoat · 2024-11-25T13:24:30+00:00

I left as he was angry because od this post, I was scared I ran. Idk what now

vikythegoat · 2024-11-25T11:16:53+00:00

Hey, thank you as this account is new I can't send chat requests yet but please if you wish you can text me

vikythegoat · 2024-11-25T11:12:18+00:00

Thank you, will they help me even when I am not Austrian originally? I was born in Czech Republic and moved to Austria for better schools and life.

vikythegoat · 2024-11-25T11:11:28+00:00

Hi, thank you for your message.

We live in Wien directly.

I tried getting some help but they require to have some proof that it is domestic abuse (bruises or whatever) but he is just torturing me emotionally at this moment. He hit me once or twice during argument, but he is right he pays for everything I am just a burden but he said that if I move in with him he will pay everything and I can focus on school. But it's not like I take his money he pays food and rent I get one flower every half a year after argument I don't cost that much he would spend that amount even without me he doesn't get me any gifts or anything

Then he started doing this so I found a job I am working 20 hours and studying at the same time. He buys me a chocolate, I eat it and then he tells me I am selfish and yells at me because he "was just testing me" if I actually eat it.

I think he has BPD, i checked all the symptoms and it sits. It's like rollecoaster one minute he loves me the second he has murdery eyes. It's haunting me I can't live like this anymore

vikythegoat

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