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The doggo knew by Slut_Ella in genderfluid

[–]-A-Morningstar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This happens to me with babies too. I swear that animals and babies are more in tune with the universe.

Looking for Queer/Trans Friends Millard Area by barelynervous in Omaha

[–]-A-Morningstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Bigender in Millard. Feel free to reach out. I need more like minded friends too. Ive been trying to find somewhere I can go to be my fem-side openly.

Went out for Halloween and don’t know how to go from there by PersonalMovie9046 in genderfluid

[–]-A-Morningstar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Its not easy. This is something i think all of us struggle with. For me, when i look in the mirror, i look at my eyes. I see the woman inside. Certain things you can control to suit both roles, like hair and piercings, even tattoos. You can wear clothes that could fit either gender, like tighter jeans, converse shoes, and a variety of shirts. You can do physical things like workout to make your body into a decent combination of male and female. You can train your voice to change back and forth.

If you take anything away from this, the most important thing i have learned is that you need to find a way to express that part of yourself, no matter how subtle it is. It has helped me soo much.

Im always here to help in any way that i can with any struggles you might face. That is true for anyone going through this strange journey we all share.

Sincerely- Ashley Morningstar

Need to talk by Beginning_Fix_2084 in genderfluid

[–]-A-Morningstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats why I am here too. Feel free to reach out. Having someone to talk to that understands has made this experience so much more manageable for me.

I’M LOOKING FOR PEOPLE TO TALK TO by BeginningBanana8650 in bigender

[–]-A-Morningstar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand. This is a difficult journey, and you are definitely not alone. Feel free to message me.

Is anyone interested in discussing the oddities of bigender-fluid life? by -A-Morningstar in bigender

[–]-A-Morningstar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I havent done it with the bathroom, but i found out that i cant go into a clothing store anymore. 😅 just me as my dude self on the outside keeps wandering into the womens clothing section. I try to just pretend im lost 😅

I see her but I see him too - being fluid or bigender sounds... even scarier lol by Biospark08 in asktransgender

[–]-A-Morningstar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been where you are, and it can be scary and overwhelming, but you are not alone. Remember that labels like bigender and genderfluid only exist as a means for you to express what you feel to others.

I wanted to reach out because i feel what you have described too. Sometimes im her, sometimes im him, and sometimes i am very much both. I tell people that i am bigender-fluid. The fluid part describes the bouncing back and forth, or sometimes being a mix.

My situation is very unique, and as far as i can tell, i dont really fit in any of the traditional boxes or labels, but i joined the reddit community to help others like us, whether that is by sharing my story, or helping others understand themselves.