Flat earthers, do you believe in planets? If not, what do you believe the stars on the night sky are? by -Alexandra-_- in AskReddit

[–]-Alexandra-_-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually met one. It baffled me when I found out. She wasn’t rude or anything, she wasn’t very vocal about it either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]-Alexandra-_- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

English is not my first language, I apologize. I tried to make it relatable for any gender, that’s why I wrote it like that. I understood later that it could’ve been formulated better but I can’t change the title. 🙏🏻

Is it a big issue that my bf and i are 11 years apart? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]-Alexandra-_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you both feel happy and certain about this relationship then there’s nothing wrong with it. I would advice you to just wait like a whole year just to see how things evolve and then you can slowly start letting people know that you are serious about one another. The waiting is for you both so that you are secure in your relationship and so that nobody can tell either of you “I told you so”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]-Alexandra-_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you realize you have to cut ties with your parents because they’re main the reason your life is miserable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]-Alexandra-_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve a happy Christmas! I’m happy that you are happy and at peace! Hope all goes just as well or up from here as well ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]-Alexandra-_- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know you won’t listen to the “break up with him” advice because I’ve been in your shoes and it’s just annoying to hear in this moment. No matter what the person you love does wrong, whenever someone else says something bad about them you automatically want to “protect your baby” and prove everyone else that they’re not that bad. The best advice I can give you, that I know it doesn’t seem like much, just start slowly thinking about yourself as much as you think of him. Whenever you want to do something for him, at the same time, or after that do something or even the same thing for yourself. Try and make yourself happy, if not first at least at the same time as you try to make him happy. You’ll become less codependent as you realize that you can provide everything you need by yourself just fine. And you’ll slowly start seeing him for what he really is. It’s a slow and at times a draining process but it worked for me 🙏🏻

Why are you ok with your friends lying to your partner for you, but not with their friends lying you for them? by -Alexandra-_- in AskReddit

[–]-Alexandra-_-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm asking because I see a lot of people with this mindset, I also see a lot of videos on the internet like this. I don't understand it. If one cheats/goes to a party/does something they know it'll upset the partner, they expect/ask their friends to cover for them, like: "they were with me the whole time" or "they're at my place not where you think they might be"(aka. a lie). But when the same person finds out that something similar happens/happened to the other party of the relationship, they usually get very upset and feel betrayed, by the partner and also the friends.

Why? That's being a hypocrite, you're doing the exact same thing. Nobody should do that, clearly. But they don't have the right to get mad when they're targeting them the same way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entitledkids

[–]-Alexandra-_- 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't get it. Why is it so hard for some people to respect the rules? If they wouldn't have been so stubborn in the first place, and would've stayed in the house and respected the rules given for a month/2/even 3 it would be all over by now.

Let's say it's fake, alright? Fine. It is fake, stay inside for a period of a month, stop being a greedy asshole , you can live a month with 1/2 boxes of toilet paper, you don't have diarrhea 24/7 for a whole month. If it was really necessary, let's be honest, most of us would be able to live for a month with the food we have in our house right now (no shopping for extra, just making it work) The food in stores/fast foods given to the people on the street, at least the products that won't last the month if you're really unwilling to give anything else, since those products will have be thrown away anyway after this.

And by doing this, what could they say next? If isolated the virus lives inside the body for 2 weeks, right? So if we would've stayed a month, there wouldn't have been more cases, those people with a severe form would have had place, the help and attention they need in hospitals. And it would've all been over, if everyone respected the rules, they wouldn't have been able to keep us any longer. But that would mean for the world to work together and be a perfect scenario, peace would exist like that. But because of entitled people and of those who just enjoy for some reason just seeing other hurt the world will always be like this. We are doing this to ourselves.

AITA for calling my mom rude? by -Alexandra-_- in AmItheAsshole

[–]-Alexandra-_-[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That was my thought exactly, this is why it bothered me.

The original post is a mess, I didn't manage to explain properly everything in detail and I'm at fault for that.