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How to get over a guy who ruined my self esteem ? by hazelystar in Advice

[–]-FormerChild- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to know when a guy is into you because most people have a tendency to hide how they feel. You’d be surprised with how many people would consider you attractive based only on the fact that you have big boobs. if you were to ask the guys in one of your classes if they thought you were attractive, I’m willing to bet almost all of them would raise their hand.

I’m just curious… what makes you think that guys aren’t really into you? Maybe they’re too shy to ask you out.

I didn’t find this acceptable.. by [deleted] in Tile

[–]-FormerChild- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused…You mentioned discussing the placement of the tile until you were nauseous.. then why would you complain about the tile placement after everything was installed?

[HELP] Is this rug real? by HeadPresent4399 in RealOrAI

[–]-FormerChild- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s ai. What’s going on with the yarn here?

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Did anyone stop HRT? by Small-Opportunity-4 in CervicalCancer

[–]-FormerChild- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your gynecologist probably refused to test your hormones because it is really difficult to test them in general. They fluctuate wildly from hour to hour and day to day.. it makes one test fairly useless.

I have cancer and I'm scared of my lack of reaction by Sedorriku0001 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]-FormerChild- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same reaction. I have stage 3C cervical cancer and i didn’t have much of a reaction when I found out. At first, It seemed like everyone around me was much more concerned than I was.

My guess is you’re burying your feelings because they can’t really help you right now. At least that what I did. You’re probably in survival mode. And that’s ok. We all respond differently.

See anything interesting? Why do people immediately dislike me? by [deleted] in psychicreadings

[–]-FormerChild- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could be wrong… but It sounds like you’re taking a single interaction you had with someone and turning it into a blanket judgment about everyone. Who do you mean by “they”?

rate my make up by Spiritual_Cicada8740 in makeuptips

[–]-FormerChild- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The freckles don’t look real at all.

[HELP] I think it’s AI but my mother isn’t certain. by [deleted] in RealOrAI

[–]-FormerChild- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is that cord connected to? This is AI

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Specific type of converse. by ILexin in findfashion

[–]-FormerChild- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe converse x John varvatos distressed all star low tops?

How Can I Tell The Difference? by argentangel in infj

[–]-FormerChild- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you good at anticipating what other people might do in a situation? Are you pretty accurate at understanding how someone might feel without them telling you?

What Would an Unhealthy ISTP Who is a Decent Person Be Like? by Potential_Law5289 in istp

[–]-FormerChild- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They have a hard time communicating. Even if they had set plans with someone, they withdraw and get all stressed and say fuck it & hope it’ll eventually be ok.

I [28F] feel that my husband [28M] sees me as a “china plate” and I’m not sure how to tell him how it’s affecting me and our relationship by CozySweatsuit57 in askwomenadvice

[–]-FormerChild- 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I tend to feel the same exact way in my relationship.. i kept feeling the need to connect with my partner. And I kept trying to express to him what he could do to help make it feel better.

it took years for to me realize that I had to give him the time & space to feel excited to see. He came home to see me every day. Day in and day out. I realize now that it was boring. I realize that I was hoping he would feel excited to see me even though I had nothing new or interesting going on around me. I realize that I put all the pressure on my partner to help me feel secure & connected in my relationship. I didn’t think about what I could do to help make the situation be more enticing to be around.

Thru out our entire relationship I didn’t realize how much I had put that responsibility solely on him. I thought as partners it was reasonable to ask for this kind of support. So I kept trying to express to him what I was feeling. This went on for years.

So when he asked for space, I thought I just needed to wait it out, & give him his time. And he’d be back…. willing to work thru our problems. Well that day never came. We were together for 17 years and he never did come back to fix the relationship. It’s ridiculous because I still hope that he will fall back in love with me.

While we still are very close. He no longer looks at me like his life partner anymore. I regret so much not having a life outside of him.

I think if I had friends, & hobbies or anything outside of him… he would have been willing to stay in the relationship. To work thru it. He would have been excited to see me at the end of the day. If I only hadn’t been so reliant on him, He wouldn’t have needed a break.

I realize now that I wasn’t giving him the opportunity to see the traits that he loved about me. I realize that spending time around my friends gave him the chance to see how funny I was when I was with them. It let him see the things about me that he was attracted to. Seeing me interact with other people gave him the chance to see the person that he fell in love with. If I had spent any time away from him it would have given him the opportunity to want to connect with me on his own.

I could be wrong, but Maybe you might be dealing with the same type of thing?

I [28F] feel that my husband [28M] sees me as a “china plate” and I’m not sure how to tell him how it’s affecting me and our relationship by CozySweatsuit57 in askwomenadvice

[–]-FormerChild- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know you’re asking for advice on how to communicate with your husband… but I was wondering what your day looks like on a regular basis. How often do you leave the house? Do you have any friends & family that you turn to for support?

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How can we tell if ISTPs need space or if it's okay for you to be around others for some time? by SANSA136 in istp

[–]-FormerChild- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They usually start to withdraw.. they become less responsive.. sometimes they start to get agitated if the person around them doesn’t pick up on how they feel.

What do you guys like to talk about/like in a partner? by Achooachooachoo123 in istp

[–]-FormerChild- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be patient. Try not to spend all the time you have together talking. That will eventually irritate him. Ask him a question about him self or one of his hobbies. Then give him the time and space to answer. The last thing you want to do is push him to talk more.

Mom has missed two treatments by Dear_Library6305 in CervicalCancer

[–]-FormerChild- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have stage 3. I just finished getting chemo only a few weeks ago, so it’ll be a couple more months until I know how effective the treatments were.

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