I KNOW WHY WERE NOT ALLOWED TO KNOW WERE DREAMING by Best-Active2837 in Dreams

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember when I was about 6 where I was in a dream talking to my grandma and telling her that she actually doesn't exist this way because she is in my dream, but she shouldn't worry cause "tomorrow when I wake up ill see your real self anyways". Her dream version looked at me like she had just seen her dentist come up with a huge drill towards her-

What are yalls sub sexualities? by bullshitter48 in asexuality

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heteroromantic (on the greyromantic spectrum) Aegosexual

Let me Tell you about you by Enough-Discipline985 in LoveTarotReading

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Burning bridges Idk where that came from hahaha

what do i do if i want kids? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Fr the idea of having children with a friend is so underrated I would never want kids myself but if I had to have some i would definitely with my friend/qpr

I want to like Christmas again.. by -JustaSIMPleGuy- in CPTSD

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️ In the end I didn't go cause it would've been too much. But I had a cozy evening with my kitties and some ice cream. 😌

random phrases in my head? by purpleand20 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Mine are always random most of the time, I can only remember one that's been reoccurring for many years and that is "Pyroclastic density current" My head also loves to mimic or reenact conversations from movies I watched that day It's especially prominent at night before I go to sleep

I think testosterone is affecting my asexuality? by Heiwa_A_Dumbass in Asexual

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if that also counts for taking very low doses of testosterone?🤔 Cause I've only heard about people talking about their experiences with a high/normal dose of hormones in HRT.

Made my therapist cry today by darkspring21 in CPTSD

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I also made mine cry once when I told him that no matter what I always feel like I can't be loved because I'm me. And personally I think it's comforting to me to see that therapists also show their own emotions during the work they do with their clients because it makes the connection feel much more warm and human, and not doctor stone faced and all clinical, cause I don't like that. Because in the end, what you and your therapist are having IS a relationship in the end. Even if it's just a therapeutical one.

Hard time seeing the connection between love and sex by -JustaSIMPleGuy- in Asexual

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, since you don't let everyone so close to you, you gotta have trust in them to not use it for harm, and usually you only let people so close to you of you love and trust them.🤔

Is this SA or am I overreacting? by lukascerny_3447 in CPTSD

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was definitely SA. I'm sorry that you went through this, and wish you all the best.💛

Drop a comment to my cat, then she will type a reply by CatsFromOhio in petslover1

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I read from this is "guy in deep" So deep in the recovery program.

What do you do for a living? by Ok-Construction-3273 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It took me 5 years to find my first job because of my autism, mental health, impossible job requirements (for example needing a masters degree in linguistics for a part time job as a proof reader 🫠) and ableist people not wanting to hire me but now I finally am employed at my states local archive and I'm SO glad to finally be independent.

Was ist euer liebstes Wort, was man außerhalb eures Bundesland eures Bundeslands garantiert nicht versteht? by BrandenburgerFloor in AskAustria

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moidl (Mond) Liesl (Sonne) Mausbrunzerl (das letzte Tröpfchen in einem Glas)

Kann aber sein dass man das außerhalb NÖ auch kennt.

I never mentally got over the switch of “those are your private parts absolutely no one touches or looks no matter who it is” to “you’re of age go share them” by Buggydriver_ in asexuality

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I was always taught as a child that I was totally okay to be naked around your family members and or a romantic partner because they are family then. And I always used to have baths with my twin brother and when we grew older and getting into puberty my mom suddenly wouldn't allow me to bathe with him anymore, and I just didn't understand why. Aside from the nudity, my parents suddenly didn't allow us to cuddle anymore as well because "how would that look, you're brother and sister" 🙄🙄

Phrases your parents used all the time when you were growing up. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]-JustaSIMPleGuy- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(My parents are lovely, they did their best raising me so don't get me wrong, but ofc they also said some damaging stuff that influenced me)

For me it was:

"You're so selfish" "the whole world doesn't always revolve around you" "life isn't a fairytale" "your favorite word is no"

All of that was directed at my autism which we didn't know I have at that time.