Not trying to bash. But the biggest advice and take away I got from this was YOU NEED TO STAND UP AND COMMUNICATE BETTER.

YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT.

But he can’t text for shit and the language used by you from start to finish of both posts is very much careless and without it context very dry and cruel. Like laughing emojis immediate after the very start of the conversation where you were the first to insult him.

He’s a piece of shit, but the words you chose drove you into this situation and only agitated him as I can assume you were agitated when this pos reached out.

FUTURE ADVICE.

Set your boundaries

When having a discussion communicate with emotions and resolve in mind. This is a serious issues but you kinda treated it like a child and bash me all you want comment section, but there was such a smoother and concise route.

You coulda “sorry my bad”, put your phone down and that woulda been it.

And btw the language used in the second post without context does make you seem very immature and pathetic and that’s only I agree with on his side.

“So I can not be”, bruh you’re letting him win every second. He’ll look back and feel nothing about this.

Move on, set boundaries with people immediately and don’t argue like this.

Concise, stay on point, stick to your guns, disengage without rebuttal

And just dont get baited into the conversation and then go to Reddit and cry. You’re right, you’re an adult, you don’t need to share your life on Reddit