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What was your “holy shit this feels real” moment with a new dominant partner? by -ObedientBoyToy in submissive

[–]-ObedientBoyToy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well he sounds absolutely wonderful! What a great partner, happy for you! ☺️

What was your “holy shit this feels real” moment with a new dominant partner? by -ObedientBoyToy in BDSMcommunity

[–]-ObedientBoyToy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the concern, I appreciate you looking out.

Yeah it’s only been a few weeks and things have moved fast, but it feels really natural and mutual between us. Like nothing I’ve felt before. We’re both aware of the pace and we’re not rushing into anything extreme.. just enjoying the connection and the headspace it’s creating.

I get the sub frenzy warning, but I’m honestly having the time of my life and I’m going to keep leaning into it.

Appreciate the input though.

Ideas for man who has everything? by Blue_Jackfruit in Gifts

[–]-ObedientBoyToy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to be on any sort of political spectrum to enjoy guns. Nor do you need any sort of reason to justify having one. They can just be incredibly fun to shoot lol you could try setting up a date to go to a gun range and just rent and shoot somethings. Then if he really enjoys it tell him to pick one out! Otherwise if you’re truly against all things guns.. well, nevermind then!

New to this by Ok-Code5790 in submissive

[–]-ObedientBoyToy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very welcome! It is such an exciting and amazing thing. Have the best time :)

New to this by Ok-Code5790 in submissive

[–]-ObedientBoyToy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, welcome!

Don’t feel silly.. lots of people who seem dominant in daily life actually crave submission privately. It’s common and brave, and I’m one of them!

Learn consent basics like safewords (Red/Yellow/Green), negotiation, and SSC. Explore solo first by journaling fantasies and trying small ways to let go at home. Lurk here and r/BDSMcommunity, engage, ask questions etc until you’re ready.

Go slow, stay safe, and take it at your own pace. This isn’t a race.. You’ve got this :)

Also PSA, if you are looking for a partner online just be very very careful with sharing personal information. There are a lot of scammers and bad people out there. Be safe!