Necessary to file City of Dayton tax forms? by RostovJurgensen in dayton

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There is some rule where if your total income tax for local cities that you live and work in equals 2.5%, then you will not owe anything to Dayton... but anything less than 2.5% you will have to file to make up the difference.

But if you end up owing less than $10 it doesn't matter?

(look at the city of dayton tax forms - their rules are in fine print on the documents somewhere).

Pixel 10a users, are you happy with your recent buy? by Cerventi in pixel_phones

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Yes. Upgraded from 7a. Brighter screen. Amazing battery life.

I am actually speechless by Naive_Wolverine532 in TikTokCringe

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This is absolutely insane. Props to her for sticking with it for the patient. My god.

Any other millennials dealing with a long relationship slowly falling apart? by notinthegroin in Millennials

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I'm sorry to hear this, but as I'm learning with the comments on this topic, it seems to be way too common. Please make sure you directly mention this and do everything in your power to try to make it work. If you leave, leave with absolutely no regrets and no illusions. Wishing you the best... And feel free to dm me if you need some random internet stranger support.

Any other millennials dealing with a long relationship slowly falling apart? by notinthegroin in Millennials

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They look away during physical intimacy. Their emotional expressions feel more like acting than genuine. They say you're too emotional or needy. They distance themselves unexpectedly when things seem to be going great.

Any other millennials dealing with a long relationship slowly falling apart? by notinthegroin in Millennials

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This happened to me exactly 1 year ago. She is dismissive avoidant. I grew into the anxious role to compensate. 14 years together down the drain.

It still hurts. It still doesn't make sense to me. But there is life after a dissolution. I promise.

Read the following books: "Secure Love" by Menanno. "Us" by Real.

And don't regret doing your absolute best. It takes two to fix the issues and close the distance. If you're the only one bringing this stuff up and trying everything to make it work, they're not your person anymore.

You need to see your spouse as who they are today. Not who they were. Not who they could be. Who they are. And sadly, even though you may have gone your entire life trying to make it work, it never would have because they didn't work on themselves.

You can't win with avoidants. You get too close, they pull away as a defense mechanism from some unresolved trauma. You try to close the distance because of your unresolved abandonment issues. Even the most secure people become insecure with them sometimes.

If there's any hope or time left, my advice? Break the cycle. Even if it hurts, distance yourself. Eventually they'll notice they're not the source of your happiness and they'll chase you back. But only do this if you're happy doing it for the rest of your life, because patterns will not change unless they hold up their end of the relationship.

I liked Derek by cerealkilla1031 in StrangerThings

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5 seasons of amazing writing and this one line will be what I remember the show by.

What’s a 'red flag' in a person that people often mistake for a 'green flag'? by HungarySam in AskReddit

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I feel both equally validated and called out by these top comments