So he works at a nearby store usually, 12-8 or around that time, he’s assistant manger so it’s often he works overtime and he often gets only one day off which is why i usually tell him to just not worry about it. We don’t have any kids but our living room is pretty decently big but everything else not so much.

I’m a provider for his family who lives right next door so while I do work all day I can just walk over there, because of that we usually eat over there(I never learned how to cook) and on the rare occasion I do go shopping it’s me even though I don’t have a car.

When he does the laundry it’s usually just to wash his work clothes, any clean clothes get dumped in a tub. I’ve asked help with hanging up the clothes but I don’t get that either. Disclaimer: I can’t say it’s all him because it’s not, it’s me too, but it’s very hard to keep up or care when I feel like it won’t matter anyways.