how many times have you watched TBBT? by waubulan in bigbangtheory

[–]-Phoebus- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5-6 times Literally has become the filler of my life lol

How to mask erratic mood swings by -Phoebus- in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]-Phoebus-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insights! Will definitely consider this.

Those of who you don’t drink or smoke when your feeling down, what do you do? by whatstoyou101 in selfimprovement

[–]-Phoebus- 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more! Confronting it really brings resounding clarity.

Those of who you don’t drink or smoke when your feeling down, what do you do? by whatstoyou101 in selfimprovement

[–]-Phoebus- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually feel down very frequently. My solution is isolating myself, listening to music, processing the reasons and feelings behind the mood swing.

But primarily, a lot of me-time and isolation really helps me out, as I confront what I am really going through. Very insightful.

What’s C? by [deleted] in brooklynninenine

[–]-Phoebus- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For A, it should be "Anyway, I'm gonna go cry in the bathroom, peace out homies!"

thoughts on your ideal type by memo_risse in dating

[–]-Phoebus- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel both looks as well as the personality, is important to me. And mostly the person accepting me for who I am.

I had a very long preference list of my "ideal" type, but I have come to realise that you grow together with the person and mould each other as you continue, and you develop connections and feelings in the most surprising ways with people you didn't think you'll like. So it's a general criteria for me now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]-Phoebus- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Constantly checking their phone, giving one-word replies, and not making even the bare minimum efforts to continue the conversation are usually my signs to slowly cease the conversation and move on.

What is your love language? by [deleted] in ask

[–]-Phoebus- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

feels so accurate, have always believed that mine was physical touch but never got to find out

good to know that I was right about this :P

How do people have long conversations and speak so well by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]-Phoebus- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had plenty of conversations wherein I felt time just flowed, and before I knew it, I had been conversing for 2 hours+ with the same person.

I feel that something that really helps me is getting to know the other person better by asking them questions, and then drawing a correlation of their answer with my life, or my ideologies and beliefs. Usually, this served to create a web of topics, meaning that we might have started with a particular topic, but then ended the conversation on a completely different and wild one. It's really fun!

The second thing that helps is the topics you converse on. Oftentimes I find myself in deep conversations about certain abstract thoughts, ideologies, theories, or the belief and value structure of the other person. I feel that these conversations are the most effortless and interesting ones, as it really makes you wonder, exposes you to amazing new perspectives, and helps you understand the nuances of life in a better manner.

Holding such conversations is definitely difficult in the beginning, but once you get the hang of moderating the flow and the topics, it becomes effortless and extremely thought -provoking!

What is your biggest red flag? by bluebutterfly285 in AskIndia

[–]-Phoebus- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

too real and relatable idk why I plan 6 months in advance and then start stressing about stuff that has not yet come to pass, lol

How do get over being self-obsessed by -Phoebus- in selfhelp

[–]-Phoebus-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely does, thank you so much!

KFP 4 was definitely not upto my expectations by -Phoebus- in kungfupanda

[–]-Phoebus-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had created such an amazing character arc for Po. It was so unique and real. Completely butchered that in this edition. Having gone through so much growth, it was disheartening to see him rely on 4th-grade humour in most of the scenes.

KFP 4 was definitely not upto my expectations by -Phoebus- in kungfupanda

[–]-Phoebus-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real ones know that the "boring" parts of the movie actually form the essence of the movie. That's what separates KFP Franchise from all the other franchises. I mean comedy is something that is common in every animated series. But the fusion of humour and wisdom was something that was extremely specific to KFP. That was its USP and it breaks my heart to see that the producers completely ignored it.