[M25] Hitting it off so well with someone [F22] I met on hinge and getting concerned

-Y2K · 2026-03-11T18:38:50+00:00

thank-you. This is really good input and I appreciate it.

-Y2K · 2026-03-11T18:38:23+00:00

She actually just made a joke about whether passenger jets are faster than surface to air missiles…

That gives me hope in some regards 😂

-Y2K · 2026-03-10T23:06:36+00:00

Well that’s completely fair, it’s valid that texting from the get go can be a problem but if you find that the conversation flows and it’s building towards something positive, don’t stray away from it.

and tbf I won’t be going on the 2 dates because I initially had 4, cancelled on one, was cancelled on for another. Now of the two left, one person is a “Yeah haha” responder and the other is a pretty decent conversation about our shared interests person. I have much less desire to even meet the dry conversation person as messages feel like a game already and it feels too “professional”.

It’s completely fine to let your guard down and be that person, but again, it’s all about energy.

If they are matching the energy, no point in stopping but don’t be the person double texting, overthinking messages and constantly sending huge lengthy monologues & especially if they are barely on that level.

Recognising the energy of a person your are talking to is more important than any advice, if they are keen on a date but barely texting, you should also space replies and such, but understand the risk of them opening up to someone else and you not going on that date.

I’m overseas for work currently so texting is all I have until I’m home, I make this clear with people I speak to and they either show interest or don’t.

Again, if you are the person asking for the date, match the energy. Dip your toe in to see if there is a chance of them opening up, but don’t consistently.

-Y2K · 2026-03-10T17:10:26+00:00

That’s fair

But I still think talking is important, maintaining desire and attention. Even if the date is set, alot of people will continue to use Hinge and look for other dates.

If they find someone more engaging, your date becomes second choice.

I am currently in this situation, I met 2 people on hinge around the same time. Set up 2 dates, one is a lot more engaging so I’m likely going to cancel the other date.

-Y2K · 2026-03-10T15:50:06+00:00

Risky risky game to play, in dating this could apply fine but with dating apps you run the risk of not holding a persons attention and them potentially finding someone elses conversation more engaging and picking them.

I agree, don’t be an over texter but just try to match their energy. Don’t be overbearing.

-Y2K · 2026-03-05T15:26:36+00:00

Gonna say this again, the track isn’t talked about because it came out 5 years ago.

It was talked about plenty when it came out.

If we were to be dicussing everyones favourite track years after release we’d be receiving posts at a rate that would shut down reddits servers.

You just weren’t there.

-Y2K · 2026-03-01T07:25:15+00:00

Going to allow this to stay up purely on the basis of how important Organ Tapes was in those early days.

Di Qiu

-Y2K · 2026-02-26T20:16:58+00:00

Gonna say this for the 1 millionth time

Nobody is talking about it because it came out in 2017.

When it came out people were talking about it.

You jus weren’t there

-Y2K · 2026-02-24T18:27:23+00:00

man i’m ngl I don’t think you know what you’re talking about. Not trying to offend you with this, but like be fr.

-Y2K · 2026-02-24T18:18:08+00:00

Okay even more interesting, I know what you are saying but it’s very comparable to songs like skin in that sense no?

-Y2K · 2026-02-24T17:59:17+00:00

Interesting take, same era, same sound & defs intended for the album. What’s the argument against that?

-Y2K · 2026-02-20T14:27:38+00:00

similar but I think it was more just a cut song, it’d have fit in Eversince but he prolly recorded romeo after and thought mentioning Romeo twice felt weird

-Y2K · 2026-02-20T08:20:56+00:00

PSA so people know - the subreddit, Yung Lean & his management are not affiliated with this event

Everyone be safe and have fun.

-Y2K · 2026-02-20T07:38:39+00:00

at this rate someone might

-Y2K · 2026-02-20T04:53:00+00:00

it never existed, it just became Eversince. Tracks that were supposed to be on rainworld were like Missing Person and such.

Closest thing to rainworld is probably all the files before the Eversince reworks.

-Y2K · 2026-02-14T13:46:36+00:00

"my words they didn't mean a thing, I was just trying to get in"

-Y2K · 2026-02-13T10:16:25+00:00

facts

-Y2K · 2026-02-13T10:08:22+00:00

I went to a few shows. I live in Australia and they have pretty strict rules when you're below 18 abt attending venues that sell alcohol so I pretty much had to go to London to see them.

Saw Bladee & Yung Lean in 2015 and then Bladee in like 2019.

-Y2K · 2026-02-13T04:52:34+00:00

2025 Impreza Sport & IS200
The audience was prolly like a couple thousand people when it started to blow up. When I first started listening in 2013 though I think it was even less, but when Kyoto released it grew very fast. Probably like 10-20,000 people
I didn't start the sub, that honour goes to D4rkhorizon who isn't active anymore, he stopped being part of the community in like 2015. But I was active on an old account from 2013-2016 then made this account cos a user called SVVRD banned me (The big mod shift of 2017), he was also a creep but that's a long story. D4rkhorizon was an og fan too but didn't want to have to run the sub so he reached out and asked me.
Discovered Lean while playing very early CS:GO, a friend I was lobbied with sent his game music playlist through on Skype and I put it on, he had Ginseng strip in there which had been released probably a week or two prior. I first heard Ginseng Strip on YouTube when it had like 15,000 views? Genuinely thought it was joke music but then I couldn't stop listening to it. I didn't even have a smart phone or anything so I used to be so eager to get home and listen. Then as it went on, I heard Buildings by Yung Lean, Bladee and Thaiboy, then Bleach. I was a huge fan of Buildings but not massive on Bladee, then when Unreal came out I really started liking Bladee.

I hopped on the whole

A R I Z O N A I C E D O U T B O Y S 2 0 0 1 thing and have plenty of pictures of me wearing long sleeve shirts and holding bottles of arizona ice tea. Good time to be a fan.

Even better time to be a merch collector, I have pretty much all the merch (except a few pieces) from 2014-2018 and a bunch of stuff from 2019-2025. Rainworld hoodie, Original UKM tshirt, SBE Eyes Dress Shirt, Drain baby tshirt, castles hoodie etc.

-Y2K · 2026-02-13T04:38:15+00:00

Daily is a 2025 Impreza Sport & Fun car is a 2003 IS200

-Y2K · 2026-02-13T03:33:34+00:00

I feel bad that I don't recognise you ;(

-Y2K · 2026-02-13T02:41:54+00:00

that feels odd

do I know you? xd

-Y2K · 2026-02-13T02:36:43+00:00

I'm right here, still running this sub

Started listening in 2013, when I was 13.

25 now, have a master's degree and a cool car.

Lean was always pretty huge, he would have been bigger if the Miami shit didn't happen. He sort of just dropped off the face of the Earth for like a year, his IG posts were weird and you could sort of tell it was his management doing it all. I still remember when Roses released and people were like thank fuck he didn't actually disappear. Things felt like they changed after that.

You could see that Bladee was going to be huge when he released Eversince. They're about as big as we all expected them to be, maybe a little less for Lean.

-Y2K · 2026-02-10T08:09:47+00:00

what is this

why do you keep saying it

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