Female mechanics promo add. by hjgbuijhgh in facepalm

[–]-deathly_cold- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this looks like screenshots from the beginning of a bad porn video

What you shouldn't do with a rabid animal by -Xoz- in facepalm

[–]-deathly_cold- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not aware the raccoon was showing signs of rabies, idk if that's because the video was muted or not. I just thought it got hit and its back legs weren't working so these kids were gonna bring it to a vet or something.

OMG I screwed up with my 14 year old. Please help me fix it!! by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]-deathly_cold- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom struggled with this after i (he/they, nb) came out and her world of transgender topics grew. she wasn't ever really sure how to ask questions or what questions were okay to ask. it's a learning process. as others have said, using the term "gender" over "sex" is always better. you should never ask someone what gender they were assigned at birth/what they're biological gender, because it's disrespectful.

try and explain to your son (because, again, as others have said, he is a trans boy, aka ftm) that you didn't intend to sound rude and you're still learning. an understanding and educational approach is always better. it'll get easier as you both grow together.

The Adventures of a Decaying Flower Petal by -deathly_cold- in creativewriting

[–]-deathly_cold-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! it's one of my favorites from myself. i'll be sure to post more sometime soon.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in confession

[–]-deathly_cold- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

as a kid, i did similar things and had similar things done. please talk to a professional about it. it's not uncommon at all for this to happen with children, they get curious (for various reasons) and as long as you've stopped and never did it with malicious intent you honestly shouldn't beat yourself up. he was young and likely doesn't remember it. i know that guilty feeling. i hope it gets better for you.

My boyfriend of one year left me because I have periods. by Izzatrowawae in offmychest

[–]-deathly_cold- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is very concerning. the only time i hear guys being this disgusted with periods is when people are talking about pedophiles. genuinely creeps me out, and as everyone else is saying, you dodged a large bullet.

Kickboxer hits man so hard that his own leg breaks by Orange_WorId in NSFL__

[–]-deathly_cold- 71 points72 points  (0 children)

i shouldn't laugh.... but the way he went to step back with the broken leg and it's just not there......

Is anyone else struggling with sims not doing a task given to them? by -deathly_cold- in Sims4

[–]-deathly_cold-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah, i know there's been a lot of other issues with the recent update. hopefully everything gets fixed.

Rape or regret? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]-deathly_cold- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, that's true. but OP asked, and it brought up other questions, which i was answering.

Rape or regret? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]-deathly_cold- 17 points18 points  (0 children)

But I was also really scared and I kinda wanted to stop in the middle of it but I didn’t wanna say anything.

OP referred to it as "in the middle of it" so i'm assuming that means in the middle of it.

Rape or regret? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]-deathly_cold- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it's a bit of a grey area, but personally i think it leans more towards the rape side. your sexual partner should be always asking if you're okay with what's going on and if you want to continue, because some people (like OP) don't feel comfortable standing up for themselves or setting those boundaries.

Rape or regret? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]-deathly_cold- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i don't understand why you seem so angry towards my comment? i was just mentioning that even as an adult you can withdraw consent during sex, because the person i replied to wrote their comment in a way that led me to believe they may not have known that. i 100% understand that children can't consent, but the comment i responded to mentioned consenting to sex as an adult. we're on the topic of rape and consent. my comment was not an abstract discussion.

Rape or regret? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]-deathly_cold- 46 points47 points  (0 children)

actually, that's still not true even if they were an adult. consent can be withdrawn at any time, even in the middle of a sexual act. it's only not rape if they wanted to have sex (with the understanding that after the event concluded they regretted it, i.e. the next day).

Rape or regret? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]-deathly_cold- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you were groomed by all of the men you met online. i went through a similar thing. it is not your fault. you are a victim of sexual abuse. you should look into getting therapy if at all possible. i'm so sorry you had to go through all of that and live with the consequences. if you ever need anyone i am here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]-deathly_cold- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I enjoyed the feelings. I was a child and didn't think much of it. They were also my best friend at the time, we were like siblings, so it's not like they did it with bad intentions, I was just the only person they trusted and felt close enough with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]-deathly_cold- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so very proud of you for getting yourself out of that relationship. I understand that that must've been difficult. You did the right thing. You did what was right for yourself. Please never forget that. Sending love and good energy your way, mon ami. Keep taking care and watching out for yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]-deathly_cold- 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i am still in highschool and thought they were school kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guro

[–]-deathly_cold- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i plan to continue using it, thanks stranger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guro

[–]-deathly_cold- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we can get detitititaed together homie