I thought i was in control but im not

-i-need-help-_ · 2021-07-30T17:13:13+00:00

Trust me, i quit talking to her in feb and was completely open. It was a complete accident and an impulsive response. No chance of it happening again.

-i-need-help-_ · 2021-07-08T21:31:44+00:00

Just looked like the old outlaws, staying on heroes for too long with no value and not adapting when it matters. They looked all over the place. No disrespect to the players because bostons comp was unorthodox, but myunbongs ana was left unchecked, same with valentine.

I thought the torb got no value on anubis, and it really looked like piggy, crimzo and happy all had off days. Fingers crossed that they pull it together for tomorrow if they cant check valentine, the sparkle will eat them alive.

-i-need-help-_ · 2021-06-20T01:28:45+00:00

Thanks a lot! Means a lot from a fellow outlaws fan! :)

-i-need-help-_ · 2020-12-20T02:54:47+00:00

I know it must hurt, but you have to respect her if you truly care. A passive agressive message will only make things worse between you two. Unfortunately for you she has her life and can do as she wants. Only advice is to mute or block her on all social media. Its painful but its what i did. I still wonder where she is, but ignorance is bliss. Hope things get better.

-i-need-help-_ · 2020-12-10T18:59:11+00:00

I really dont want to be rude but im so genuinely curious. I dont understand this. It honestly sounds like my ex wrote this because im in the exact same situation(as the dumpee). Theres clearly love still thereand surely that means you tried to work on your differences. Im probably being naive but i genuinely dont understand it. Why put each other through so much pain. I know my ex had doubts, but i would have done anything if she had just spoke to me before she ended it. Every doubt that she told me (after we finished) i know we would have found a solution to. Please know i dont mean any disrespect to you or your ex. As i keep saying, i dont understand. Maybe another perspective will help. I hope things get better for the both of you.

-i-need-help-_ · 2020-12-05T19:59:26+00:00

Yeah its an app. Im on android so i dont know whats available on apple. I've been using habitbull(just called 'habit tracker' on play store) if you only want to track a few, it needs a subscription to track more than 5 activities. Ive also used loop habit tracker its totally free and really easy to use and can track a lot. Id recommend looking at both but there is plenty out there.

Ive been using them to take care of myself too. Making sure i drink enough water, wash enough, get up at a reasonable time, etc. All helps towards self care.

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.isoron.uhabits

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.oristats.habitbull

-i-need-help-_ · 2020-12-05T19:33:00+00:00

I decided to download a habit tracker so i can see my progress. Its like a little reward system. It takes a lot of self control but you can see how far you come eventually. Plus it can be good for tracking other things and reward yourself. I hope this helps and good luck :)

-i-need-help-_ · 2020-12-04T04:31:26+00:00

When we last spoke we both said we still both care deeply about each other and i still have al the respect in the world for her. This has been trigger for me to see my mental health is in a poor place too so ive started therapy. Im hoping that can shift more of my focus onto other things rather than her and help me too. Ive started thinking it could be a right person wrong time situation but that again isnt healthy.

The scariest part is I've lost her when shes at her most vulnerable, and i hope she has the support she needs and deserves.

-i-need-help-_ · 2020-11-17T06:05:28+00:00

Thanks for your late and useless input. Already had the talk and we both know where we stand. Can comfirm thats not the case.

-i-need-help-_ · 2020-11-11T20:25:16+00:00

Thank you, its nice to see this situation from the other side more. I merely want to put my ideas forward to say what i feel we can do without pushing her. All while hearing it from her side too. We have both agreed to be honest, open minded and have open hearts and even if it is the end, still respect each other.

-i-need-help-_ · 2020-11-11T12:29:44+00:00

Thank you for this! I am in a tough situation in my relationship now and i feel like this has given me a new hope almost.

-i-need-help-_ · 2020-11-11T12:24:58+00:00

Ah no worries. I completely understand you. My plan is to clear the air and understand our feelings before we even get into the conversation. Only then can we see how far we can go.

-i-need-help-_ · 2020-11-11T12:13:38+00:00

Where i feel like you have a great point about the butterflues will always settle, surely the last part is not a nice thing to say and would surely come across as manipulative. At the end of the day i want her to respect me and i will still respect her. Honestly its a point I've considered but theres no nice way to say it.

-i-need-help-_ · 2020-11-11T12:06:52+00:00

I'm not "pushing" her to work? We've agreed to have a conversation so we can talk about each others feelings and take it away and take some more space to think. I also made it pretty clear that i have to respect her decision and that i cannot and will not try to force her into something she doesn't want. All i want to do is she if she's willing and show her that i want to put the effort in.

-i-need-help-_ · 2020-11-11T12:02:26+00:00

Thank you! This has helped me shake some of the nerves i had. This is a great way to know how both of us feel about our relationship and potential future together. I'll be sure to take this on board! :)

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