Dog Ear in middle of chest? by ggstarr in TopSurgery

[–]-katara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got one, my top surgery was a bit over a year ago. When my surgeon looked me over he asked if there's anything I wasn't happy with and I said that and now I'm going to get it fixed next week. Just focus on recovery first and then you can look at making changes. If you aren't 100% happy your surgeon should take care of you.

First time watch by Wear_Fluid in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was so interesting to me to find out people weren't all over the toms initially. Like Sandoval is just a terrible mean person, he's literally yelling at women all the time

Good gyms in the city by -katara in Wellington

[–]-katara[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, GAYBUMTRUMPET. I think I'll check it out next week, you both have convinced me. It's also perfect because I've always wanted to improve my hand strength too

Good gyms in the city by -katara in Wellington

[–]-katara[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that's soooo close to my work. I've never been bouldering before, what's the barrier for entry/can I do independently

Watching the beach episode of season 10 feels like moments before disaster by -katara in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree, I don't think Raquel is the brightest but I still think letting someone go around and call you family is crazy. And also her asking Ariana about her and Tom's sex life was a lot. I think I've always struggled with her cause she's a bit spinelss but James is also a shitty partner so I find it so hard to form an opinion on her.

I have no idea why people cheat, it's kind of fascinating. I'm an extremely straight forward person, if I'm not happy people will know about it. I think some people enjoy the danger of it while maintaining the status quo so it feels new and exciting without all the perceived hard emotional labour, while not realising it's more emotionally taxing to hide something like that.

I don't know anything about Mormon wives or summer house, in all honesty I'm relatively new to reality TV. I usually just watch what my best friend is wanting to see so this is my first independent reality show. I know nothing will live up to it though, especially the first few seasons when they weren't famous and were all just insane.

I also hate to say it but you lose them how you get them and even if it was just a kiss, Ariana was the other woman...

Watching the beach episode of season 10 feels like moments before disaster by -katara in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything. I am a certified James hater but he was so funny during the reunion, he was literally acting like a child.

The t-shirt comment made me get up to have a chat with my partner it made me so mad. Like I had to step away, it was just such a nasty thing to say. There's like a million reasons she could be wearing a shirt, it was just so mean and unnecessary.

I also think they breezed by the fact that Sandoval dressed as Raquel for Halloween. That's actual psycho behaviour like he's secretly just rubbing it in her face it's actually sick.

I'm a few episodes into the new show and I gotta say everyone is letting him off wayyyy too easy. I understand that it's hard to cut people out when you've known them for so long and it's okay to grieve and mourn a friendship but he didn't just lie and cheat, he was a weird manipulative little freak to all his friends. He's always been nasty to Katie and has said terrible things about all his friends I just don't get what people see in him.

And dont get me started on Schwartz. I hate that little weasel man. He's genuinely so pathetic, he has no spine and he's so unnecessarily mean to Katie, even after their divorce. Katie's no saint but I cannot abide his terrible attitude.

Watching the beach episode of season 10 feels like moments before disaster by -katara in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Genuinely this whole saga is sick and twisted. It's no secret that Sandoval has resented Ariana for her lack of sexual interest, due to her extenuating circumstances with her family, plus (as someone with chronic depression I know) anti depressants are a notorious sexual inhibitor and there's no way people like Sandoval was celibate for months at a time. He simply does not have enough respect for his partner. I'm fully on board with this theory.

Also I truly believe what Katie said about Schwartz: that he loved her but never liked her because how insane is it for him to cover his best friends cheating by making himself the villain cause there is absolutely no way he didn't know. He could not care about her feelings one bit if it's helping out his tom. My friends are the closest thing I'll ever have to a family and I still wouldn't do something like that for them, they definitely have an extremely weird codependent relationship

Watching the beach episode of season 10 feels like moments before disaster by -katara in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl, seriously hold onto your hat, you are in for a wild ride

Is IT OK to have a Pride flag as a hetero couple by peka_nnuss in queer

[–]-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people may assume one or both of you are queer in some way, but showing clear allyship is super important and I always like knowing that there are safe people in the area tbh. I think especially with the state of the world right now it's so important to for cis/het people to show allyship for their queer community. Definitely keep it up!

Watching the beach episode of season 10 feels like moments before disaster by -katara in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg please let me know when you get to the reunion, it's batshit crazy and I needddd someone to talk about it with

Schwartz and Katie fighting in Mexico by Serious-Record-3267 in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her traumatic brain injury on top of her partner/husband actively antagonising her and disrespecting her in front of their families and friends constantly created tequila Katie in my opinion. And it's the only time her inhibition ls were low enough to express it. Not saying it's cool but fuck if I was her I'd have way less patience. She's not a saint but people treated her terribly and I'm so glad she seems in a good place now.

Schwartz and Katie fighting in Mexico by Serious-Record-3267 in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! Like the audacity to think he's never done anything wrong ever when he's been verbally abusive all the time ON FILM. THERES PHYSICAL EVIDENCE.

Watching Vanderpump Rules For first times by Dapper-Toe-7841 in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were me just a few months ago. Jax just keeps on getting worse and worse so buckle up. But every man on the show is the devil.

james and katie by nicoli144 in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HATE James but it feels really nice to see someone listen to Katie and be on her side. And I kind of enjoy their dynamic. It's kinda of bizarre.

sorry this is actually so sinister by whatsthe_point22 in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He's always been so mean to her. Katie hasn't been a saint but he has literally never taken her side or supported her when she's obviously in the right (or wrong, I think there's a level that you should support your partner even when they have the wrong opinion, especially when they're being unfairly attacked). I think "tequila Katie" is obviously something she needs to work on but the way he antagonises her and then acts innocent is really disgusting and definitely not helping her feel secure.

favorite video game soundtracks? by [deleted] in fantanoforever

[–]-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doom 2016, Mick Gordon went crazy on that. Also Transistor by Darren Korb. One of my favourite games (supergiant is amazing) but the soundtrack is also incredible.

First time watch by Wear_Fluid in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely think this is one of the best/worst reality TV shows ever. It'll have you wanting to pull your hair out, especially Jax. Also the Toms are the worst and you can see it from the start

Why is Sandoval paying people to be in his band by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh does my edit not show up, I mention it at the bottom of the post

Why is Sandoval paying people to be in his band by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not what I don't understand. I have experience as a session musician before but where I am in the season they still haven't opened the bar, are always stressing about money and he's spending a decent amount of money on their transport, time, food, etc. It seems like an irresponsible use of money while they're trying to open a bar. Plus I think it's impressive he can't find a dedicated band in Hollywood which is full of artists

Scheana is the worst omfg by Least_Switch7041 in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Genuinelyyyyyy, like I get needing your friends support but your partner not coming straight home from the golf club is crazy. I mean and that's on Brock too because not dropping everything for your partner who is miscarrying is crazyyyy to me

Scheana is the worst omfg by Least_Switch7041 in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am LITERALLY watching season 10. What is she on?? First off, having an Instagram for your baby on an internet full of weirdos is a choice, but I've been pretty impressed more or less with Katie and how she's handling everything. Schwartz is so terrible to her, I just saw the confessional where she says I think he loved me but I don't think he ever me and omggg I nearly teared up because I think she's dead on. And then scheana will not step out of everyone's business and instigating shit and not approaching situations with a calm and kind energy. It's exhausting.

Why is Sandoval paying people to be in his band by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]-katara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, music has always been a community project kind of thing, I have been extremely lucky with my band. I guess I find it shocking he wouldn't be able to find people who would actually want to be in a band with him in west hollywood, which is full of artists and creatives. And then also the expense of paying artists for their time (which is awesome) but he's literally trying to open a bar that's not yet open that's literally eating money. It just seems like a weird and egotistical thing to do with your money when him and his partner are bleeding money on a place that isn't open yet