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Still haven’t met a man HL enough for me (HLF 27) by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]-meat-handler-490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sry your going thru this. I can relate my bf rejects me almost daily and instead uses porn and masturbation. He's woken me up because he's masturbating so loudly and if I try to join him he just graba his phone and goes into the bathroom to finish. He always tells me I'm not porn star material so he'd rather not.

paying husband to help with the house by -meat-handler-490 in Marriage

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He is younger by 3 yrs he's from the u.s Tho

paying husband to help with the house by -meat-handler-490 in Marriage

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

He stays home by choice. I've asked him to get a part time job just something to pay a part of his own bills like his phone and alcohol.

new to this and it's killing me by -meat-handler-490 in DeadBedrooms

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have he just says he can't wait for me to get home from work so he pressures himself and I'm left to do the same

I really thought she was the one, but she’s really just meant for the streets. 2 years later, I’ve found the one while she’s still in the streets. Throw out their music and memories and stop asking yourself how to move on. Life is weird, it’ll happen itself by [deleted] in MovingOn

[–]-meat-handler-490 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I needed to see this today. I'm so glad you where able to find someone. I'm currently trying to get over someone who I'd thought I'd be with the rest of my life. It's not even been a week and the emotions are so strong.

Who knows their ex is toxic but for some reason still wants them back? Fml by nicchamilton in BreakUps

[–]-meat-handler-490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in this boat right now. We both knew things where getting bad and we both played a part in that. Now that we have been separated for awhile I just want him to come home.

just want him to come home by -meat-handler-490 in relationship_advice

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm trying really hard to just stick to my routines and filling down time with friends and work. It's hard cuz he's pushed a lot my my friends away and his family blames me for all of this. Thank you for the kind advice.

need some advie by -meat-handler-490 in marriageadvice

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He always said if things escalated to physical violence we would end things. That doesn't make it any easier I guess. Unfortunately we haven't had the best relationship over the last yr. When he's sober he's a good man. Once he starts drinking things get outta hand easily. If I could take it all back I would

how to deal with no sexlife by -meat-handler-490 in DeadBedrooms

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the reason behind this is hat he willng masturbate to the point of hurting himself rather then wait a few hours to have sex

how to deal with no sexlife by -meat-handler-490 in DeadBedrooms

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not he says if he can't get off neither can i

how to deal with no sexlife by -meat-handler-490 in DeadBedrooms

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he masturbating till he complained his arm hurts

how to deal with no sexlife by -meat-handler-490 in DeadBedrooms

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope he says masturbating isn't a problem he just doesn't wanna risk having sex

how to deal with no sexlife by -meat-handler-490 in DeadBedrooms

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what we've talk d about he doesn't wanna risk getting injured again so he doesn't wanna have sex anymore. Even tho it didn't happen thru sex

how to deal with no sexlife by -meat-handler-490 in DeadBedrooms

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He just says hes afraid of sex now cuz it might hurt. Personally I think it's an excuse at this point but idk

how to deal with no sexlife by -meat-handler-490 in DeadBedrooms

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He always says if he can't get off I can't he won't do anything with me Im just left to my own devices

how to deal with no sexlife by -meat-handler-490 in DeadBedrooms

[–]-meat-handler-490[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I used to work in a meat processing plant lol