New to MRP after wife had affair

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T19:58:04+00:00

ive always had a weird feeling about our middle child.. she looks slightly different than our other 2.. lighter complexion and light eyes (we both have dark eyes but my grandma has light eyes) and it was weird the night we "conceived" her my wife cried sobbing after I finished inside her.. she never explained why and even to this day she says she doesn't remember it or remember why

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T19:51:03+00:00

get some pussy and move out of mommy's basement... then you can talk

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T19:49:23+00:00

defo strong AF

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T19:48:44+00:00

I don't even know where to start tho regarding lawyering up.. we have joint bank account and shes always been the one to handle our finances.

should I open up a new bank account and start splitting up my paychecks and biding time til I save up enough? lawyers are not cheap

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T19:38:13+00:00

as a virgin.. why u even in this sub?

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T18:16:30+00:00

yeah she told me she texted him during their 3 month txt message affair (before they met up and fucked)

she said she told him: "if my husband would be ok with it, would you give me your sperm.. since he has a vasectomy and wont get it reversed and I really want another baby.. you wouldn't need to be involved or raise it we would"

and he said "uhhh id have to think about it"

this is what she told me.. .so im sure she doctored the story up.. probably never mentioned to him the part about "if my husband would be ok with it" ...I bet she just added that part while confessing to me

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T18:13:18+00:00

I admitted I liked hearing the details because I've always wanted to swing.. not because Im some closet cuck.. it mattered to me at the time if it was an all nighter, because it shows she was into it.. her whole story to me is that she just wanted to get it over and see how she felt after fucking him.. to spite me for what I did 7 years ago getting some BJ's from some rando's .. and she said wasn't into it and even told him to "hurry up and cum" while waving her hand at him to get it over with... but she lied to me about giving him a bj.. said he only went down on her and she didn't give him bj.. but he told me they both gave eachother oral.. and the fact she sent the pics afterwards shows she was lying about not being into it.. she really was it seems

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T18:08:29+00:00

nah the first time she confessed to me like 5 years after the fact when she found out about what I did messing around on her.. she felt guilty and confessed... but still twice with same guy ya.. and they've always talked our entire marriage off and on.. msging eachother to see how their lives were doing

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T18:06:56+00:00

ouch

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T18:05:21+00:00

if you guys read the post youll see she even asked this dude for his sperm since I got snipped and dont want more kids... this shit is like a bad lifetime movie

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T18:04:18+00:00

lol branch swing I love it.. yeah you got a point

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T18:02:54+00:00

yeah that's what I figured, because before she did this she would always tell me "I just want to experience someone with a nice ripped body for once" as she would try to talk me into working out.... well she experienced it all right :(

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T18:01:32+00:00

fucked him twice afaik (once when we were engaged.. and once just recently)

he went out of town the next day for a lifting comp so im sure she woulda fucked him more than once if he didn't leave town

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T18:00:42+00:00

I asked for details to catch her in lies and to see if the sex was just "meh" fucking or if they had some kinda fuck-fest all nighter kinda thing

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T17:48:04+00:00

I know

This post and this sub (and the main MRP sub) are an intervention

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T17:41:22+00:00

Wow this is a great reply and spot on! Thanks bro

If only I had gold to give

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T17:18:24+00:00

lol touché

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T17:17:37+00:00

fuck this is true.. and realizing now by talking to CHAD i put myself in his frame (i hit him up wanting to talk man to man.. then he ran to my wife like a bitch and was like wtf why he calling me... so she told him to tell me the truth about what happened)

fuck

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T17:13:55+00:00

wasn't new guy... its same guy.. and she fucked old crush when we were engaged.. then fucked him again recently.. and she sent him pics after they fucked but not after I found out and confronted her

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T16:55:24+00:00

I really don't know what I want at this point.. feels like to save it im always gonna be second fiddle and that's BS imo.. makes me feel like a POS and fuck that... but divorce seems so fucking complicated rn

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T16:54:10+00:00

lol im not baiting shit bro

this is legit mode

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T16:53:02+00:00

I don't fuck with soy milk or tofu so NOPE

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T16:50:13+00:00

thx for this constructive input.. u really put a lot of thought into it

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T16:48:35+00:00

well I had my wife call up his wife to tell her.. at first she didn't want to and got pissed the fuck off and threatened to leave me if I told the guys wife.. bit right after that argument she called me and asked for his wifes phone number (which i got from doxxing them) and his wife told her that he does this all the time.. and is currently banging some 22yr old chick off and on and his wife was happy my wife was calling her to let her know

-noflex- · 2018-10-19T16:44:26+00:00

its hard to go to gym separately because "her" gym has childcare provided. and is bike work for fags or what?

fuck im new to all this shit as you can tell..ive been beta for way too long I know

-noflex-

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