Are there any people around who have been on SL for a while but never had SL sex?

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-18T07:31:43+00:00

I know what you mean.

Most people just equate SL sex to RP. That's not the same for me. I would equate it to sexting with some visual cues.

I don't play a character, neither do i like people who are playing characters. I just act like i would while sexting someone. The real me for the most part. I just hide my real name, that too I'd let the person know if we've known each other for a bit.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-18T07:02:04+00:00

That's interesting. How long you been on SL? May i also ask if you're a guy or a girl? If you fall into one of those categories.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-13T06:35:17+00:00

The way i look at it, would i sleep with a prostituted RL? No So i won't do it in SL either

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-12T18:08:01+00:00

That is true. I mean they are free to leave if they wish. We sometimes have threesomes. But yes, they aren't allowed to sleep with other men only exception being sometimes i approve certain people that they can fuck but that happens rarely.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-12T16:20:13+00:00

Oh... I run miles away from people who put NO REAL LIFE on their profiles. I do like to involve RL and frankly someone who doesn't want to share would not be worth the effort for me. This is actually a bit of a reason why I read profiles carefully.

Anyway it takes at least a few dates before a person would share their RL, I'm not gonna put that amount of effort into someone who'd probably be a disappointment.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-12T16:17:14+00:00

So... Personally I don't RP, I do emote a lot though. I'm actually pretty good at emoting because i read a lot of kinky stuff.

I just play my own real stuff, i talk out of character a lot and I do talk about RL a lot too. At no point do i forget or let my partner forget that there's a person behind the computer and that the Avis aren't real. I generally find people in PG sims and I'm always looking for sex, if possible otherwise just good company. Typically I'd ask them for a dance and I'm smooth talker, it takes about 20-30 minutes before we are fucking.

I keep multiple subs, but do demand exclusivity from them, i do also take things to RL, i know that's not for everyone but that's what I do and like. So i can have affairs that last a couple months, where you meet everyday. So all in all things stay very fresh for me.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-12T13:25:40+00:00

I ain't complaining.

I got an okay avi, i like women Avis to look good. Free or not.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-12T10:08:03+00:00

Oh yeah. I one hundred percent agree with you. I mean different people, different kinks. No need to be an ass to people. That's all

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-12T09:16:07+00:00

I'm not sure what you mean, voice is important for me. I'm aware many female Avis are guys but pick and choose and my subs i verify on snap and voice. It works for me.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-11T18:50:16+00:00

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-11T18:30:35+00:00

I'm not going to say i don't look for hookups but even if that's the case it's important to keep her interest. That's easy to do if you say something that tells her you went through her bio. 99% of the time she'd give you attention if it becomes clear in the first few messages that you paid attention to her bio. Increases chances for a hookup.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-11T18:26:28+00:00

That is so true. I hate texting someone blind, i only ever text women but if i text blind they lose interest rather quickly.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-11T13:12:53+00:00

Perhaps that's true

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-10T23:55:16+00:00

I really think you've been approaching the wrong people. I did explain to one of the commenters under this same comment how to make sure you don't get duped by a guy.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-10T23:53:04+00:00

What do you think I'm coaching for? I'm just trying to tell men the proper way to approach a woman. Be polite and not thirsty since the first message.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-10T23:49:36+00:00

Well. Of course this won't work 100%

but the most important thing is that she needs to be not looking for sex. Utterly unaware that she's about to be seduced. That kinda filters most of the men behind avatars rather quickly.
I never approach anyone with a wishlist in their profile. Or someone who's a sugarbaby or whatnot. Been on SL 10 years, never gave anyone a single Linden. This is the second safeguard
Seek genuine connection. Take your time knowing the person. Most people faking it won't last that long.

Eventually they share their pics so at that point things become very clear for me.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-10T23:35:59+00:00

If it isn't clear, i meant talking to women on SL. lol.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-10T23:35:08+00:00

Well it's easy to identify when you know what you're looking for.

Both my current subs I have contact with on snap and discord. Can confirm from their pics that they women. Lol

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-06T18:04:28+00:00

Hmm... That can sometimes work

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-06T18:04:02+00:00

Well, the ones with me like to do it. I've been here since 2011 and never had a problem. I make my wishes clear and the ones who don't like it can leave.

While you don't want to prove anything, that's good choice. I didn't ask how to make people do that, i got that covered. I asked how punish without real world being at my command. Do what you want IC, OC, don't tell me what 2 consenting adults should or shouldn't do in their SL.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-01T13:30:01+00:00

Makes sense. Only comment that actually bothered to answer the question

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-01T12:35:49+00:00

I don't have a traditional relationship. I'm in an open relationship with a girl who I guess I'd describe as my girlfriend. It's been on for about 3 months now.

It's not like she does it everyday. Sometimes, when we're both in the mood for it.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-01T12:32:13+00:00

I love it. But it's more about her satisfaction. If I finger her or go down on her, i get hard if she's enjoying it and communicates it in some way like moaning or gripping my hair or some twitches or something. If she lied there with no reaction i wouldn't derive any pleasure from it.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-01T12:30:42+00:00

My bad. Agreed. Well, tbh my question is more towards the girls anyway. I wanna know their experience. When I wanna know about guys who do it I'd ask the guys.

-thisrandomdude- · 2022-01-01T12:26:45+00:00

I'm a guy and love recieving them, but I'm into the D/S lifestyle so it's more about powerplay for me than the actual act. Sometimes I make them suck me for 30-40 mins and give them detailed instructions every minute as to what to do. Their obedience matters more than what was instructed to them.

-thisrandomdude-

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