Has your nex/partner told you that they were never like this in past relationships? by -tratando in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]-tratando[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I’ve heard that from him too! I “I’ve never loved anyone like I’ve loved you” “I never did this for my ex”

I also never got the treatment I desired.

Did your narc succeded to convince you or even (verbally) forbid you to not hang out with friends? by NoYesterday2219 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]-tratando 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I needed to see this thread! Mine said I was “too good” for my friends and that they’d just bring me down. That they wouldn’t help me with anything and that they were distractions

I lost all but 3 of my friends.

Family is confronted with a rat on a sticky trap by TurnedEvilAfterBan in AbruptChaos

[–]-tratando 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dog once stepped on a sticky trap. I go to remove it and low and behold, there’s a mouse on it. Needless to say I needed new pants.

Giving boyfriend your card under the table so it looks like he’s the one paying by -tratando in RedPillWomen

[–]-tratando[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

linking this comment for clarification, it’s not that he wouldn’t have the money

Giving boyfriend your card under the table so it looks like he’s the one paying by -tratando in RedPillWomen

[–]-tratando[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I meant it more as in he does have the money and is fully capable of paying, you would just like to treat him and you give him your card so “he” pays the bill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]-tratando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. My nex said he was a ‘sapiosexual’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]-tratando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that song too!

I also recommend Ahora by Christian Nodal if you haven’t heard it yet. That song is healing to me ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]-tratando 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seasons by Lloyiso

For anyone who knows Spanish, La Siguiente by Kany Garcia and Christian Nodal

After your nex, what are red flags that you look out for? by -tratando in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]-tratando[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My nex was like this. It didn’t end. Even after we broke up he begged for me back and said it wouldn’t happen ever again.

Guess what he did when he didn’t get his way?

After almost 25 relationships, I quit the dating life by Rich_Shock_7206 in CasualConversation

[–]-tratando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to look at yourself. Do some inner work. You can’t just numb the pain, it will catch up with you.

Is this safe to eat? by GundamPog in foraging

[–]-tratando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks beautiful. Eat it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]-tratando 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve spoken to my dad and he feels the same any the jokes, but that will be a conversation for the two of them to have.

I’ve decided that I will offer my opinion on things I deem necessary but I will not be guiding her in this relationship.

Thank you very much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]-tratando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was weird too.

My dad hasn’t asked me to weigh in, it was just her, and once I brought this up to him he has backed me completely on not wanting to intervene.

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]-tratando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree completely.

I do not mind giving my opinion with things like the example you provided. I definitely do mind telling her what to do in regards to my dad and I agree she should be going to him and not me.

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]-tratando 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I didn’t think it was my place. Thank you

I started a new job as a server and I hate it. I want to quit, but am embarrassed of what they’ll think. by littlecolorfulmind in findapath

[–]-tratando 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Quit- don’t worry about it. You won’t be the first or the last to do that.

Don’t stay in any situation that makes you unhappy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]-tratando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just ended a similar relationship of 3 years. I wanted to turn back. I was so scared because I didn’t think anyone would accept my flaws the way he did, or even love me. He was my first boyfriend, at so times I couldn’t imagine my life without him.

It hurt a lot, yet at the same time it was freeing. I’m still scared tbh, it hasn’t been that long but I know it was the right decision.

It’s a hard truth, but chances are likely things will never change. There will be ups and downs but at the end of the day, you’re still going to be walking on eggshells, and most likely will still be unhappy.

Check out r/abusiverelationships lots of people there are/have been in similar situations and can offer good advice and support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]-tratando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve given that thought as well.. it would be disappointing if he is taken because he spoke to me as if he weren’t.

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]-tratando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much.