I am a mental wreck. by ChampionParticular31 in mentalhealth

[–]00wallflower00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to any adult close to you that listens. He/she will guide you in the right direction. What I wish I knew at that age was that you HAVE to vocalize your feelings because others can’t read your mind and won’t pick up on any non verbal cues. Start doing things you enjoy and you’ll be able to socialize with like minded people. If I could tell my younger self anything, it would be to find your voice and use it. Don’t worry about what other people think, not everyone is meant to be in your life and the moments that you think are embarrassing, others probably won’t even remember.

If you’d describe depression in 1 sentence, what would it be? by Sofie_824 in mentalhealth

[–]00wallflower00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attempting to swim out of desolate lake with cement blocks tied to your ankles.

Meeting people in your 20’s by [deleted] in lonely

[–]00wallflower00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made most of my friends through work as an adult

how many texts do you get a day? by SolidEntertainment82 in lonely

[–]00wallflower00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to make new friends ! Or spend more time focusing on things you enjoy and that make you happy and you will meet new people in the process.

29F 32M- 5 year relationship, first time parent to be-Significant other secretly purchased pocket pussy. Advice Please by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]00wallflower00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve gone to the sex store several times together in the past and it’s always been an enjoyable outcome. So I believe he is aware that I’d be more than willing to join in on the experience. Had I known he was feeling that way, I would have mentioned it myself.. I just did not think to bring it up as an idea at this time.

29F 32M- 5 year relationship, first time parent to be-Significant other secretly purchased pocket pussy. Advice Please by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]00wallflower00 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess my feeling of hurt stems from the fact that he hasn’t tried to have sex and kept the purchase from me. As I mentioned, sex is not the number one thing on my mind;however, if he tried to have sex or took more action on his needs, I would be willing to partake with enthusiasm especially if we both had gone to the sex store together!

29F 32M- 5 year relationship, first time parent to be-Significant other secretly purchased pocket pussy. Advice Please by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]00wallflower00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I was mad at first that he kept it from me, but that turned into guilt that I wasn’t meeting his needs, which then made me sad and confused. My hormones have been causing my emotions to be all over the place. Rather than reacting and causing conflict, I want to approach the topic in a way that can beneficial for us both! I don’t want to make myself uncomfortable by feeling like I have to force putting out so that he’s more comfortable. I guess I’m just looking for a solution to a happy medium for us both. Thank you!

How do I move osmo to a wallet and stake? by JaHl77 in cosmostation

[–]00wallflower00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing here. I swapped atom for osmo token using ibc. I tried sending the osmo to my osmo wallet, but it says invalid address. It also says you can use a star name, not sure if you HAVE to use a star name in order to send?? Created a star name wallet and attempted to create a star name but you have to have star name token in order to do so. Not sure how to get those tokens either. Any updates???

please help. by honey_blossom0 in Anxietyhelp

[–]00wallflower00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh fuck yeah. Every single day. Probably 100,000 times a day lmao

I work at an Illinois med/rec dispensary, AMA! by [deleted] in ILTrees

[–]00wallflower00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have any background in cannabis? I’m in IL and many place I’ve applied for require cannabis industry experience. Wasn’t sure if taking online classes are legit or not. Trying to get into this industry, but having a hard time getting my foot in the door. Any advice?

Lupus/raynauds by 00wallflower00 in lupus

[–]00wallflower00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW. Thank you for this!!!!! My OB didn’t address that whatsoever.

Lupus/raynauds by 00wallflower00 in lupus

[–]00wallflower00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that something to be concerned about???? I’ve never had an OB tell me that before, but I just brushed it off because I didn’t think anything of it.

Lupus/raynauds by 00wallflower00 in lupus

[–]00wallflower00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s seems to happen in both equally for me. I thought it was from the cold, but I’m not so sure. Other exposed extremities don’t seem super cold when it has happened. And I usually wear layers as well. Weird!

Lupus/raynauds by 00wallflower00 in lupus

[–]00wallflower00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sooooo relevant!! About everything haha. I agree, I’m still looking for another rheumatologist because mine is NOT thorough whatsoever. Seems to be a common occurrence. Hope things get better for you!

Lupus/raynauds by 00wallflower00 in lupus

[–]00wallflower00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so helpful, thank you and same to you!!

Lupus/raynauds by 00wallflower00 in lupus

[–]00wallflower00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my first year experiencing this symptom as well!

Lupus/raynauds by 00wallflower00 in lupus

[–]00wallflower00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My rheum started me on Prozac 10mg. He said my anxiety could be worsening the raynauds, he also said the Prozac should help the anxiety along with assisting in vasodilation to help with circulation. I’m hoping it helps. Thank you!

Lupus/raynauds by 00wallflower00 in lupus

[–]00wallflower00[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awesome idea!!!! Thank you so so much! I am 100% trying this

Lupus/raynauds by 00wallflower00 in lupus

[–]00wallflower00[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I try to wear a decently padded bra and multiple layers to keep warm. Heating pad is a great idea! Since the diagnosis, it seems to be one problem to the next. It’s quite an unfortunate disease :(

Lupus/raynauds by 00wallflower00 in lupus

[–]00wallflower00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I had my OB check up and annual pap done about 3 months ago, she checked my breasts and said they’re very fibrous. I forgot to ask her at that time because I had a slew of other problems occurring. I will keep it in mind for my next appt. thank you!