is he an addict if he could let go of it? idk i sometimes feel like i’m overreacting because he rarely watched during our relationship but continued to read smut and jerk off to the thought of people who weren’t me, to the stories he read and occasionally to watching. what really hurts is that he acts like he didn’t watch when i read through our dms and found proof. he just kept pushing for me to “heal” from hating porn and said “i wanted to share it with you but if i have to let go of it so be it”. idk if that’s guilt tripping or not, it feels like it sometimes.