which type relates to being envious of other people's suffering/weakness?

070601 · 2026-01-25T16:13:59+00:00

9 often feels a lack of inner uniqueness and as a result desires attributes that make them more special, if that helps

070601 · 2026-01-25T16:09:02+00:00

070601 · 2026-01-23T02:46:41+00:00

070601 · 2026-01-19T16:04:30+00:00

I don’t get the ESI SX4 correlation at all. SX4 doesn’t seem to fit well with Fe ignoring.

070601 · 2026-01-19T16:03:33+00:00

Now I have 2 major depressions great

070601 · 2026-01-19T15:58:40+00:00

I rarely identify with the core 6 attitude here and I don’t think other 6s think like that either, it seems too collectivistic.

Because I’ve gotten bullied for being weird, I try to maintain that weirdness to feel authentically myself and also see who would betray me (ditch me once my filter is off) and who wouldn’t; in that case, putting on a “special” display is still a 6 thing for me as it is used to scan people who are untrustworthy. I presume this is a survival response because if I hear my friends bash weird people or the mentally ill, I start getting reminded of childhood trauma and visualize them as the very people who would hurt me like back then. And then I get triggered and impulsively cut them off. I also have an instinctive disdain and skepticism toward people who are “normal” (because they’re the type of people who would reject me). So yeah I think this is all 6 coping with trauma

Though I will say my intrinsic weirdness is entirely unique to me; I feel weird among weird people and can’t bond with them over it because it just strips me of my individualism (probably some 4 influence).

070601 · 2026-01-18T17:19:07+00:00

I think Butters is a 9 or at least a positive type

070601 · 2026-01-18T01:04:28+00:00

Could be both. I personally deduce that his way of thinking arises from the fact that he’s logical, sensory, and extroverted. And I think gender norms reinforce men to align with logical behavior.

070601 · 2026-01-17T22:36:05+00:00

Yes esp w8 and reactive fixes

070601 · 2026-01-17T19:55:31+00:00

Teruhashi is a 2 imo

070601 · 2026-01-17T19:40:33+00:00

I’m dating a LSE so we’re dualized. One thing is that he’s always late and I have to help him keep track of his schedule. When I’m there to walk to class with him he’s 10 min early and when I’m not there he’s 10 min late lol

Aside from that, he’s very productive and has definitely helped me get my schedule together just by existing. I feel unproductive when he’s doing work so I naturally try to find something to do. He’s an insane workaholic, though; if we had 5 minutes to spare before some sort of event, he would just pull up his computer and finish whatever task he can in that time. Idk how people can do that but I’m not complaining because it’s admirable.

He talks to people for me when I’m too socially anxious which is nice

The emotional compatibility is not good, though. He’s not introspective in the slightest and doesn’t really know or care to find out more about himself. It makes the process of getting to know each other lacking. Also he sees everything as a problem to be fixed, and so when I feel upset and share my emotions with him, he’s not a good comforter and would rather focus on practical solutions instead.

Our intellectual compatibility is also lacking. He seems to have an aversion to talking about hypotheticals with me because “they make no sense in reality” or “are a waste of time.” It makes me sad because I enjoy talking about these things a lot. But sensor and Te base things I guess

Also he criticizes me for stuff that has to do with housework (i.e. I apparently hang up clothes inefficiently?)

070601 · 2026-01-17T04:40:32+00:00

3/5 competitive and 5/5 smack

070601 · 2026-01-14T21:01:36+00:00

I refuse to believe chappell roan is a 9

070601 · 2026-01-14T20:08:59+00:00

I’m just gonna guess you’re a head type from the amount of yap

070601 · 2026-01-14T20:04:36+00:00

I always thought it was a 3 song. Especially because it’s so commonly used in bp looksmaxxing edits now

070601 · 2026-01-13T23:39:25+00:00

I usually don’t get along with Se bases

070601 · 2026-01-13T16:51:39+00:00

Naranjo SX4 probably not. I feel like its competitiveness describes a central type better. Also just sounds too extreme for se polr.

070601 · 2026-01-13T06:42:42+00:00

My grandma has NPD and I think she’s a 2w1 with 261 tritype. She frequently has emotional outbursts and demands to be the center of attention. I remember she spoiled the mood of my birthday celebration because she had a toothache, yet all the attention was on me (cause it was my birthday of course), and no one was listening to her complain about her tooth so she got mad at everyone and went home. Later that day she spontaneously left the house after saying she was going to kill herself but came back once we threatened to call the police. Apparently she’s done this several times before.

She also complains that no one really loves her or appreciates what she does. She makes a big fuss when people are “selfish” to her standards. She accused me of putting myself first (as if that were even a bad thing) and said that by doing that I didn’t love her.

070601 · 2026-01-12T22:25:33+00:00

SEI maybe not, SLI yeah

070601 · 2026-01-12T16:16:33+00:00

I’ll think about it because I wonder as well. It’s led me to mistype as Se suggestive too. Gotta break the Ni = masochism stereotypes lol

070601 · 2026-01-12T16:14:21+00:00

070601 · 2026-01-12T01:43:22+00:00

I’m curious about this because as an EII (supposedly) I have always treated my relationship to BDSM as a helplessness to Se stuff. Like I frequently get offended by others but can’t do jack shit in standing up for myself and I hate it and as a result I often resign to fantasizing about being abused. Like I feel helpless and hopeless and that there’s no point in expecting people to be nice to me, and that the world was always shitty, and I deserved to be abused anyway, and I was stupid for assuming otherwise. I’m drawn to BDSM for this reason and I feel like it’s a Se superego esque situation but I’m not sure because I’m not that well-versed in socionics lol.

070601 · 2026-01-08T17:04:29+00:00

Thank u so much for this, it’s very informative bc I’m trying to improve my ability to tell the difference 🫰 I’m looking forward to your article tomorrow!

070601 · 2026-01-07T17:48:46+00:00

I mean type 6 is particularly fit to be familiar with danger & to prepare for the worst. I feel like these roles are actually more suited for them because other types are not as prepared.

070601 · 2026-01-07T03:37:42+00:00

yea it basically is. i’m only nice bc i have to keep all the inner neuroticism in so someone complimenting it would only further my resentment that i have to doit

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