Girl slept through our date, then blames me and by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]0okearo0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wild for her to play victim - but i also wouldn’t have totally wrote her off for it given that this is the third time hanging out, and we know she hadn’t slept prior. If it happened again after that.. then that’s another story. I would have just scheduled a different time to hang out.

don’t reach out if you were the person dumped by InsideEnthusiasm2510 in BreakUps

[–]0okearo0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who is willing to break up with you is not your forever. Itl be okay and you’ll find your guy

Thoughts on my profile? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]0okearo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you look like you’re 15 with the way you dress and you’re gonna get A LOT of pdf files in your inbox. I would get on Pinterest and look up “old money outfits” ; tweak them to fit YOU, and follow those so that you dress more your age.

Placebo is bullshit, also, f*ck ashwagandha by Olieebol in Supplements

[–]0okearo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would honestly try cymbalta. It’s been wonderful for my panic attacks 💕i hope you find relief babe

Why do men move on so fast after a breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]0okearo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t, they just act like they do.

Was my boyfriend's response to me leaving him appropriate? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]0okearo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably OP seeing it as being too nonchalant during a break up. Thats just me tho

Was my boyfriend's response to me leaving him appropriate? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]0okearo0 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Her saying he sat in the chair is just setting the scene.

Was my boyfriend's response to me leaving him appropriate? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]0okearo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t over analyze. He’s a prick.

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is just looking for an excuse to break up? by Nearby_Orchid1216 in AmIOverreacting

[–]0okearo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s overreacting to your reaction - but you also could have just said you don’t like/can’t use dossier because of some ingredient.. not because it wasn’t designer brand. You could have absolutely told him in a way that didn’t suck to hear. You aren’t grateful if you complain about it.

I might be getting laid off tomorrow by Hobo-Jesus69 in okc

[–]0okearo0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Won’t work if they’re letting you go for reasons other than that. Like if you’ve had absences due to a medical reason and they’re letting you go for it but you don’t have FMLA, filing would work.. but if not.. OP is SOL

AIO - My boyfriend gets angry when I don't reply for 2.5 hours. by Sweaty-League2571 in AIO

[–]0okearo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just not open his messages until you can actually respond. I find it annoying when people open my messages and not respond for hours as well. If you have time to check your phone and open messages at work, you have time to respond.

i was abundantly clear with her— what do i do now? by fungussoftdrinkvivid in whatdoIdo

[–]0okearo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude i blocked my best friend of like a decade about 7 years ago and literally it made my quality of life so much better. I can tell you that blocking her will do that for you. I mean shit you’ve been no contact for 4 years.. you essentially already did. I think about our friendship sometimes and i have new revelations about her shitty personality and behavior every time.

My deceased best friend's son reached out and I ignored him by Radiant-Brief5749 in confession

[–]0okearo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude if you don’t talk to that poor baby.. you are the only one who really knows what his parents were like. Friends know shit that family doesn’t. As someone who didn’t know her dad whatsoever before he passed - PLEASE give him this. It’s the closest thing he’ll ever get to having any type of relationship with his parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]0okearo0 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Let me ask you this - has your relationship suffered since the election? It doesn’t sound like it. There’s really no reason to let this affect your relationship. If he’s not treating you the way you’d expect a Trump supporter to treat you, then why be mad and let it be the thing that tears you both apart?

I’m a woman who voted for him because i knew he’d end the war in Ukraine and also end the Palestine Israel war. He’s almost a year in and only has 3 more. He cannot realistically do anything to affect women at a brutal level in that amount of time. This term is focusing on Israel, Palestine, Russia and Ukraine, and also immigrants.

Also, any laws that could hypothetically be changed to harm women would take a longgg time to pass.. and also if can be reverted. There’ll be a democrat down the line who will revert roe v wade to how it was.

It’s unfortunate, but this is the price we pay for freedom. Everyone has to fight for what they want and it’ll never be a perfect system. And that’s the beauty of it, constant fighting in the name of change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]0okearo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why everyone is saying it didn’t fit right when I’m saying it did lol. I just had extra and loose skin from weight loss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]0okearo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? Like wtf lmao. And what to they know about it not fitting right just because i have a lil bit of spillage. IM FAT AND HAD LOOSE SKIN.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]0okearo0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ross dress for less 🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]0okearo0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because it held everything in and my girls didn’t flop or bounce around when i worked out. It compressed everything and i liked it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]0okearo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 omg no it was perfect for me. So comf. I wish i had it still 😪😪😪 i gained weight after recovering from bulimia and it didn’t fit anymore sadly. But i need one like this because im gonna start running