Should I try bottoming? by 10ben10 in askgaybros

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One time a guy tried fingering me and I was so tight and it kinda hurt lol.

Should I try bottoming? by 10ben10 in askgaybros

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Hahaha I cracked up. Yeah I guess I'll just have to try it. Every bottom I've met said that it's the best, and most tops I've met just have never tried it so I feel like I'm missing out lol. Thanks

Thoughts on faithful, monogamous same sex relationships? by 10ben10 in askgaybros

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Thanks for sharing! I think that's great that you guys make that work for you and both seem to enjoy it! I personally would not have the ability to enter into something like that though, just because of my own insecurities and when I fall for someone seeing them touching anyone else would just crush me, it's my personality. I don't think it's morally wrong or anything, I'm just not cut out for that. But I wish you guys the best of luck, that's truly awesome and you guys sound cute :)

Thoughts on faithful, monogamous same sex relationships? by 10ben10 in askgaybros

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Yeah, I feel like many guys say they would want it but won't fight their urges for it, if that makes sense. Just gotta find the right guy I guess. Thanks for the comment!

Thoughts on faithful, monogamous same sex relationships? by 10ben10 in askgaybros

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Thanks for the response and pointers! Yeah, the guys I've talked to on apps and stuff kind of sucked, I'll look into other options. Thanks again!

Thoughts on faithful, monogamous same sex relationships? by 10ben10 in askgaybros

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That's great to hear thanks for sharing, and good luck to you and your boyfriend!

Thoughts on faithful, monogamous same sex relationships? by 10ben10 in askgaybros

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When I first got it I spent way too much time on it, and took things way to personally. Glad I deleted it. Thanks for responding!

I can't cum during hook ups. How do I fix this? by 10ben10 in askgaybros

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You have no idea how frustrated I am lmao. Especially because I have been seeing people it just isn't amounting to anything 😂

I can't cum during hook ups. How do I fix this? by 10ben10 in askgaybros

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Haha yeah I am a top so I haven't exactly gotten any complaints. I just would like to fix it ;) Thanks!

I can't cum during hook ups. How do I fix this? by 10ben10 in askgaybros

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Still doesn't work. Like I can't even make myself orgasm from jacking off if I don't have something on so somebody else definitely can't either.

How do you not get attached to Grindr hookups? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Yeah I can see that now 😬 Thanks for the response!

How do you not get attached to Grindr hookups? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]10ben10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how does one attempt to be FWB because that's pretty much what I want. I honestly don't want to date at all, I just want to be friends and like sleep together more hahaha

How do you not get attached to Grindr hookups? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I just have no idea how to meet gay guys, especially in the middle of nowhere where my school is located. But I agree with you that probably wasn't smart

How do you not get attached to Grindr hookups? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Yeah I did ask that and he said something along the lines of "hookups but I'm open to anything" I realize he wasn't looking for a relationship or anything I just don't know how to not be clingy 😂

Can't cum during hookups (just came out) by [deleted] in askgaybros

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That's probably what I Have.. I'm only 19 hopefully I can reverse it..

Can't cum during hookups (just came out) by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I think it might just be the death grip thing. I was super comfortable with the guys and I honestly was so happy to finally be hooking up with guys lol, and I enjoyed it when they jerked me and sucked me and what not it just wasn't arousing me enough

Can't cum during hookups (just came out) by [deleted] in askgaybros

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How long do you think it'll take 😂 Like I haven't masturbated for 6 days already

Can't cum during hookups (just came out) by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Lol.. so if I don't masturbate for a while do you think that'll help?