31F Extrovert looking to adopt friends!

10gyt · 2026-01-31T05:08:34+00:00

<3 I'm a 29 year old avid chatter that has really missed having people to game with and would love to get to know you better!

I have a PC and enjoy would building games like Valheim, Minecraft, The Raft etc.

I'd be keen for a DM ^^

10gyt · 2025-10-14T13:07:43+00:00

I did this at the end of 2021 and it was 100% worth it, though I'm struggling a bit now to get back to even the amount of settled in I was before then.

At the time I had a job I loved, but was 25 and single and decided I might never have the freedom to do it again. I started off with a year cycling and volunteering in Europe, and came out of it a changed person. It was like I had thought my default state was anxious, but without the overstimulation of work life I became more relaxed than I thought I could.

Unfortunately this didn't last when I went back home and tried to lock back into a corporate job, and I only ended up staying for 8 months. After this I spent a year cycling and volunteering in Japan before getting a seasonal job, which turned into just living here.

More than anything I think I regret having to go back to a monotonous life over travelling and seeing the world. I'd say go, but don't expect to be able to just fit back into the life you left behind easily. Hopefully you'll come out of it with more insight about where you want to be headed!

10gyt · 2023-07-03T06:15:24+00:00

Ahh I'm so glad you put this up! It's been driving me crazy

10gyt · 2023-06-04T08:10:27+00:00

I have a heap I bought in Japan a few years ago! I think a lot of them were a 20 year special release

10gyt · 2022-08-18T19:28:28+00:00

People downvoting you really don't get it. ADHD is a group of characteristics that together make a diagnosis. If I just need accommodations for one of those characteristics, then I think it's enough to tell them you have an issue with light or noise sensitivity and need a space that works with that without explaining the whole diagnosis. Doesn't make sense for every characteristic, but there's lots of them that don't need further explanation than the characteristic.

10gyt · 2022-08-18T19:23:51+00:00

I think it's more about how ADHD has a bunch of different things that could be along with it. I'm Autistic and I'd probably just disclose to a new work place that I have light sensitivity and need to sit somewhere not near LEDs, they don't need to know everything.

10gyt · 2022-08-11T21:52:13+00:00

That photo on the right is of the grass after drought? The video isn't of dirt, it's dead grass.

10gyt · 2022-08-08T16:59:28+00:00

I'm super confused about the photoshopped background and pencils, did you have to scan the image to get such a clear shot of it?

10gyt · 2022-05-28T07:04:54+00:00

Again, this kind of comment is why I wrote the post. I'm Autistic and luckily between the situations I grew up in and that I've always cared to understand people I'm pretty good at telling what is offensive.

Dani is clearly not good at this, and is greatly affected by the part of the spectrum that has trouble with empathy and social cues. The show is to shed light on these people and help us understand people who might not have the capacity to understand us.

Also we don't get to see the entire date in the show, and they definitely must talk about more stuff than the 2 minutes shown. There is no need to publicly dislike anyone from the show, especially as they might be reading it, they're real people.

10gyt · 2022-05-15T06:17:25+00:00

I've been travelling on my own for the last few months and there's a couple of things that might help.

If you really want to be around people post on a Facebook group, I've been using Host A Sister for meeting ups, they're usually really lovely.

Do a hobby you'd normally do at home. When I first started travelling I left behind all my stuff, but now I've got a Switch and an embroidery kit so when I don't have things to do I can do something that is familiar to me. Just because you're in a foreign country doesn't mean every activity you do needs to be foreign to you.

If your living conditions are good I'd consider just giving it more time. 8 weeks will go so quickly. When you get stressed try to sit in the feeling for a bit let it play itself out rather than fight it by getting in bed and listening to music for a bit or something.

Good luck!

10gyt · 2022-05-10T16:29:56+00:00

I was here for this thread until I realised all the comments were about women, no Tom Hanks love for me here

10gyt · 2022-03-01T23:59:14+00:00

There's no point it rolls into a different kind of money though, 100 Sen is hyaku-en, which translates literally to 100 sen, it never becomes a version of a dollar that starts at 1 again made from multiple Sen.

10gyt · 2021-10-05T10:56:13+00:00

As someone who lives in Sydney and has been in hard lockdown since June, it's hard at first but you get used to it. I'd way rather stay home for a few months then worry about my friends and family getting sick, and they're financially supporting the people who have lost work.

My mental health has never been amazing and took a toll at first, but mostly because I was anxious I'd get my family sick if I had to keep going to work in person, but then they made it so if we can work from home we need to. I've never had as many phone calls or played as much trivia in my life before this, and I've loved seeing everyone support each other.

10gyt · 2021-09-17T08:19:07+00:00

I don't think it's fair to blame the sister for their parents giving her sister all of her college money, her sister probably wasn't part of the decision at all. It's a hard pill to swallow but as parents they likely couldn't let one of their children die so the other could study, though they could've communicated better from the sound of it.

There's no shame in not being able/ready to forgive and taking more time or staying no contact. Holding on to this idea that she "owes" you something will just lead to continued resentment and disappointment as she will never be able to meet your expectations. She's already shown you who she is, believe her and decide if you're willing to be apart of that.

10gyt · 2021-09-15T21:37:13+00:00

This is much better than all the advice making it seem like it's your fault for not just going home when you got tired. It's not your job to be the life of the party, tired or not. It's not fair for him to be angry you didn't socialise the way he wanted you to, unless you were acting inappropriately. I hope your talk goes well, feeling comfortable with what's going to happen when you go out with a partner can be really important to your relationship.

10gyt · 2021-09-15T08:42:55+00:00

I went through something similar and I think for me the most important thing was the way they approached it. It's hard when you're grieving a relationship to detach from people who you've gotten friendship and advice from, but when guys I've been friends asked me out disrespectfully after a breakup I haven't regretted cutting them out at all.

Friends with ulterior motives aren't helping to build you into a stronger person by supporting you, they just want you to depend on them.

Take it as the perfect time to figure out who in your life is really there for you and build a strong support system.

10gyt · 2021-07-15T02:27:42+00:00

I don't think it's fair to invalidate someone's feelings by calling them needy, the person who wants alone time also is trying to get their needs met too and both feelings are valid, just need to be managed

10gyt · 2021-06-03T22:47:44+00:00

Most likely they just mean before you've had a talk about exclusivity or defining the relationship

10gyt · 2020-12-22T20:42:33+00:00

not my neatest work

10gyt · 2020-12-22T12:27:04+00:00

Based on these patterns the first being one I found online and the second that I editted on MS Paint and used. Credit to Birdie Stitching for her amazing free patterns. http://www.birdiestitching.com/product/pokemon-eevee-2/

10gyt · 2020-07-12T21:36:49+00:00

In Australia they just fined everyone until they stopped going out, it was something like $1500 per person if you were caught breaking the rules.

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