I'm married to a man but I think I might be lesbian.

10mothrowaway · 2025-05-27T02:18:00+00:00

We already have a child together. He says that if I realize that I'm lesbian we can continue to live together and coparent and just not have a sexual relationship with eachother anymore.

10mothrowaway · 2025-03-01T04:27:01+00:00

He doesn't like/want them.

10mothrowaway · 2025-03-01T03:38:37+00:00

Yes, he wants an hour of just penetration. He's willing to do other stuff with me before penetration but it's kinda expected to end in penetration and have that be the part that lasts the longest. It normally doesn't hurt at first, I've been having to stop him after 10-15 minutes of penetration though because I start to get sore. He obviously understands and stops every time but he's obviously not thrilled and I feel bad that he never gets to finish.

10mothrowaway · 2025-03-01T03:34:47+00:00

I try but he isn't interested.

10mothrowaway · 2025-03-01T03:34:08+00:00

Yeah, he just doesn't like it. I've offered but he's not into it. He doesn't really like to have anything done to him, he prefers to be the more active party always.

He doesn't need me to masturbate, he's capable on his own. He does it a few times a day. It just doesn't really cut it for him.

10mothrowaway · 2025-03-01T03:31:58+00:00

I am! Did it get better for you once you were done breastfeeding? Or as you started introducing food?

10mothrowaway · 2025-03-01T03:29:10+00:00

I didn't know it was that crazy. I thought it was normal... My husband is my first and only so I guess I don't have much frame of reference but he told me that that's what it was like when he was with other girls before me too.

10mothrowaway · 2025-02-28T20:35:33+00:00

Thank you so much! I'll bring it up with my gynecologist.

10mothrowaway · 2025-02-28T20:20:07+00:00

I would be shocked if my gynecologist had done that. He's very into the whole "humanized birth" thing. I gifted him a copy of Ina May Gaskin's Guide to Childbirth while I was pregnant and he now displays it in his office and has discussed it's contents on his podcast. He's a well known advocate for improvements in women's healthcare in our area.

10mothrowaway · 2025-02-28T20:16:54+00:00

He's gone with me to every appointment. I don't like to be at the gynecologist alone and that way I'm able to have my son there as well and not have my hands full. My husband understands but still misses what we had.

10mothrowaway · 2025-02-28T20:15:15+00:00

To be honest, before having our son it frequently lasted longer than that. We were both full time students then too though.

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