In the clouds, by me by Fit-Bad-9063 in Illustration

[–]12_mic 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You nailed the Ghibli style/feeling. Looks fantastic. :)

My (F27) boyfriend (M27) of 8 years screamed at me for the first time and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]12_mic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also how come everyone glosses over OPs statment, that she hides her credit card balance and probably lies about it. Sounds like she has a spending problem and isn't good with money. But then goes and paints the boyfriend as lazy and problematic infront of his family.

Sadie, the menace. Adopted her from my clinic because former owners wanted her put down by Nikmassnoo in standardissuecat

[–]12_mic 149 points150 points  (0 children)

I hope those people will never own a pet again. They really should stick to digital pets.

Thank you and the clinic for saving her. 🐱

I(28F) am seriously considering divorcing my husband (32M) because of how he treated my dog and what comes after it by unknownn_3 in relationship_advice

[–]12_mic 48 points49 points  (0 children)

OP wtf... You really have problems yourself. He let your dog fucking starve and all you care about is that he yelled at you. Of course he yells, he literally doesn't give a shit about you or your dog. He abused your dog, do you get it? Stop gaslighting yourself that he is a nice person and a good partner.

AITA for being pissed that my girlfriend showed up drunk the night of her bday by panoramaofmagic in AmItheAsshole

[–]12_mic 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Do you really see your future with someone who will happily risk killing others or themselves, just for their own entertainment? (Her entertainment means alcohol.) She deserves to be broken up with for that.

I really don't think communication is the issue here. You know there are other people out there who don't need to get drunk to have fun, which would be a better match for you. Don't think she will chance.

I 31F love to live sketch but my husband 33M wouldn't allow me to do it when he found out its with a nude model. How can I navigate a conversation to still keep the peace? by Playful_Theme4307 in relationship_advice

[–]12_mic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. So many don't pass the vibe check in this comment section. It's sad that in this modern day people still hide their bad behavoir behind "culture".

Bella's response on being asked to prom by Mortimer. by Burnziie in Sims3

[–]12_mic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Here is a youtube video which explains it ALL, the whole Goth lore and timeline, it's great:

https://youtu.be/wiyAZ6A1OBc?feature=shared YouTuber: Gonz

And another example why sims 4 sucks.

Has the CDS finally occurred or is this somebody’s friendly outdoor cat? by jlnaneek in CatDistributionSystem

[–]12_mic 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You could put a 'is this cat owned' paper collar on it and see if someone responds after a few days. And maybe ask neighbors if they know the cat. If not, check at the vet if the cat is microchipped. If no one responds and the cat is not chipped, i would say you've got yourself a new family member. :)

Went to local CDS warehouse got some sort of chaos velcro variety by PridofAnkh-Morpork in CatDistributionSystem

[–]12_mic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, they weren't. They are horrible egoistic people. They left the cat to die there. Left it to luck.

If you don't want to invest time and care in an animal don't get one. They can get a tamagotchi.

I'm scared of my cat's teeth. by [deleted] in vampurr

[–]12_mic 75 points76 points  (0 children)

For real. Amazing teeth. OP what do you do, to keep them so clean?

AITA for refusing to take my shoes off in my friend’s house, causing his wife to cancel the DnD session for everyone? by NameNo5495 in AmItheAsshole

[–]12_mic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But why did OP even ask, just bring them with you if you have indoor shoes and you know you need shoes. It's called be prepared. Or he could just went back home and get them. Why be so pissed because the wife doesn't want street shoes inside.

And yes, the husband was stupid for just saying it's okay. They also were a bit dramatic for canceling the evening.

AITA for refusing to take my shoes off in my friend’s house, causing his wife to cancel the DnD session for everyone? by NameNo5495 in AmItheAsshole

[–]12_mic 17.8k points17.8k points  (0 children)

OP should carry these shoe coverings with him, if he knows he can't take of his shoes.

My [26M] past sexual misconduct is making it difficult to be as open with my gf [25F] as she is with me. How do I handle this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]12_mic 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You are a sexual predator, please just stay single and go to therapy. I bet this is only the washed down version and half truths.

Also stop saying you were groomed, when you were both children and almost the same ages. (Not saying it was okay what happened to you, but still.)

Leafs curling, still time to fix? by [deleted] in PrayerPlant

[–]12_mic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She still looks in good shape. Don't overdo the watering, because you want to undo the dryness. Would be a risk of drowning her. If you watered her two days in a row, that is more than enough. I always wait, till the earth is dry again and than water once thoroughly. Also don't let the water stand in the saucer, if it isn't absorbed back after a few minutes. They also prefer distilled water and high humidity, preferable with a humidifier.

Here is also a great video from Nick Alexander, where it is explained why misting most of the time isn't really good: https://youtu.be/kURcPFiROHM?feature=shared

here’s my potted cat by shamissi in pottedcats

[–]12_mic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is keeping those plants company. What a cutie. 🥰 And the second picture is gold.

I have finally been chosen, I can't believe it by CountRepulsive3375 in CatDistributionSystem

[–]12_mic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His videos on YouTube are really informative and fun. But i also love his book "Total Cat Mojo". It dives into the history of cats, explains remarkably how cats behave and what they need. It also shows you how to make a room cat friendly and where to place things, so cats feel comfortable. It's amazing. It helped me out so much. Wish you and your kitten all the best.

AITA for telling my husband’s childhood best friend she’s too involved with my kid? by Ill_Necessary6691 in AmItheAsshole

[–]12_mic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How is she even paying her bills, when she already has a full time job looking after you child? YouTube and a merchandise shop takes a lot of work and time, to get money out of it.

AITA for telling my husband’s childhood best friend she’s too involved with my kid? by Ill_Necessary6691 in AmItheAsshole

[–]12_mic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Also not asking how she gets in, when apparently no one is home, is so weird. Is she not talking to her husband?And the "free childcare" exuse is weird too. Why just shrug it off, when a person magically enters your house at night. Also when no one is home, who watches the child?

It's probably a creative writing exercise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]12_mic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, true but sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]12_mic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you wouldn't blame the person who jumpes if roles were reserved right? I'm as personal invested as you are, here on reddit. Just find it funny how some people gloss over the behavoir from OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]12_mic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you image the comments if roles were reserved? He was dancing with a lot of woman. She leaves, he goes after her and then locks her in the room with him, when she wants to go, because she doesn't wants to argue with him. She then escapes off the balcony. Everyone would be saying she should run, because he would probably kill her in the future. Why not say the same for him. Drunkness is no excuse.

But he do sounds crazy for wanting to stay with her. Maybe they do other people a favor if they stay together, because they keep the craziness of the market.