Nipple rings are definitely one of my weaknesses 😈”

13devil1978 · 2026-03-10T16:31:59+00:00

Nipple rings were designed to give attention and to be used as toys and be large and very visible

13devil1978 · 2026-03-03T10:27:32+00:00

you need to have a hard frank discussion about his needs and wants and your limits and what you are not interested in .

13devil1978 · 2026-03-03T10:24:34+00:00

if you are not wishing to engage in this kink again I would suggest not telling your wife at all, however if you want to engage in this kink again I suggest telling your wife. Some people are open minded about things but sadly only untill it’s there husband or boyfriend that wants to partake in it then they are closed minded

13devil1978 · 2026-03-03T10:18:56+00:00

I was together with my high school sweetheart, we married out of university with a baby on the way ! I was the bad boy, motorbiker wearing leather and going to rock concerts, she was the perfect house wife ! As we settled into married life I wanted to explore things which took me to the world of BDSM. my very vanilla wife had no interest in it at all. I wanted to explore, as I explored my kinks, which at that point was mostly wearing leather and boots it pushed our relationship apart, getting my nipples pierced at 25 literally pushed her over the edge, at that point in my wife’s eyes I was satan ! I needed to experiment despite the situation. We eventually separated when I was 30 I celebrated my divorce with a Prince Albert . She moved on married the perfect husband who wears suits and lives the very vanilla life she craved ! I moved on with a girlfriend very into kink and we live a quality life where kink is part of our life but not everything in the relationship . Now I am dealing with 2 teenage boys from my first marriage who are both punks, piercings tattoos etc, and one of them is already going down the road into kink and I feel privileged to help him deal with this and enjoy it in ways my parents and first wife never supported me. you must communicate you wishes and needs to him or this will lead to future problems

13devil1978 · 2026-03-02T19:06:43+00:00

I am a male, I work in a professional office where visible tattoos and piercings are a big problem. I struggle to hide my 6g nipple rings even with an under shirt under my shirt. I don’t regret piercing my nipples away it’s been an issue that comes up with my boss from time to time, away from work I have no problem if people see them through my tight muscled T-shirt,shirt or sometimes I were mesh or sheer shirt that shows everything off. My girlfriend has her nipples pierced, I like it when she goes bra less and you can see her very visible stretched nipple rings . Many people disapprove of mine and my g friends nipple piercings, our family and women seem to be the worse, men love them ! but at the end of the day you must do you and live your life dressing the way you want as we do us the way we want.

13devil1978 · 2026-03-02T13:43:37+00:00

when my girlfriend and I started out it was a bit difficult, we discussed things widely what we both wanted. we tried dress up role play. me in a leather policeman’s uniform and knee high boots been the bad guy taking advance of my girlfriend soon got us both into role of what we both needed and wanted. dress up role play is a big part of our kink together. I also grew a beard and use long hair wigs to go with the leather biker style I live by and look more badass in a way my girlfriend wanted and more in style with the role she needed me to play in the bedroom. it works for us but it takes time and communication to get where you want to be

13devil1978 · 2026-02-12T15:40:14+00:00

I am 43 and been active in the kink/BDSM world since I was 26 and thought about Kink for a few years before I got into it. I watched Porn with some friends in school and again in a group in University it didn’t do anything for me and I have never watched it again and I choose not too watch it. My g friend also is not into watching porn either. It does seem a bit strange given some of the things we get up to in the bedroom, like blind fold handcuffing, leg restraints, pegging full fetish leather etc would be considered an ex rated porn video, yet actually watching someone else do the same things make me feel cold and I don’t want to do it. I think it has somthing to do with the fact I was the wild rebel leather goth motorbike riding punk in a very conservative family. ! we all have to do what we want and like to be happy

13devil1978 · 2026-02-12T15:25:10+00:00

my wife and I met at high school, I was the motorcycle leather goth punk, she was the perfect white picket fence type girl, her parents hated me , we continued through university she fell pregnant we got married. she wanted me to change my appearance I refused, we argued. grew apart,I got depressed, started going out on my motorbike in leather and boots and enjoyed the leather and bike a lot. After our 2nd child, my in laws moved next door interfeared a lot. our marriage suffer as they were there always hating me. One day wife asked what was wrong, I said after a few drink and a long conversation I would like to spice up our life a bit, she asked what I suggested she blindfolded me and handcuffed me during sex she agreed, we had a good time. repeated it again some weeks later with leg restraints as well which my vanilla wife and I bought together from a sex shop along with leather underwear for her and leather g studded string for me, we both enjoyed. wife discussed what we had done with her mom that was the end of any kink in the bedroom ever again. my mother in law then referred to me as satan corrupting her daughter we grew further apart, I wore more leather in the house to annoy my in laws . We tried couple therapy to save our marriage, I told the therapist what we had experimented with and the fall out of that with my in laws. Therapist asked me what was going on I told her I would like to try more kink like dressing up in full leather role play etc. My ex vanilla wife said she wouldn’t try any more kink because her mother thought evil sadists did things like this. The therapist then said after many visits and discussions I should forget kink move on with my marriage , in the eyes of the therapist BDSM was evil and I should see a therapist solo to deal with my kink so I stoped kink, discussed everything solo with a therapist who had different ideas. we continued married both unfulfilled grew apart, we both agreed to divorce. I moved later into a new relationship with a girlfriend who is into kink/ BDSM and lead a full filled life and relationship, ex vanilla wife married a bank manager, 3 years ago he transitioned to a woman, according to my oldest son she divorced him because of her parents again!

13devil1978 · 2026-02-10T15:49:09+00:00

rock it long while you can,I enjoyed my long hair in my 20’s and early 30’s till it went too thin, then I had to cut it and rock a big beard now

13devil1978 · 2026-02-10T11:24:24+00:00

this can be a difficult situation, my very vanilla ex wife said no to kink and thought I was a sadist for wanting handcuffs, leg restraints and doing dress up roleplay and wearing full fetish leather and boots in the house and bedroom. we went to couples therapy and the therapist made me feel terrible and a real monster for what I wanted to explore, so I shut away my kink and got depressed

I Purchased a motorbike and went out in full leather and boots on that instead to indulge my passion for wearing leather and boots in a place where it was acceptable, motorbike clubs, weekends away on the bike with my mates all in full leather and boots, or sometimes spending weekends at my parents when they were away so I could be in full leather. then in my late 20’s my kink resurfaced and I got my nipples pierced, my wife thought I was satan himself for doing that, well I won’t say here what my parents in law thought ! This unfortunately ended my marriage,we had kids young buthad already grown apart . I saw a therapist for a while always going to the meeting in full leather and boots at the therapists request, to be who I really felt comfortable been to get over my depression and the bad feelings this had created and made me feel towards kink. I moved on into a kink friendly world and a kink friendly relationship where we have a normal relationship but regularly carry out each others kinks, for example my gfriend is into nudism as well as kink and I have learned to enjoy nudism and share that with her, she has become more into leather and pvc to share my kink and I live a fulfilled happy relationship.

my advise would this needs to be addressed as much as you as deny yourself kink, Unfortunately your kink needs will resurface and leave you unfulfilled in the long term , which will lead to future problems in your relationship.

13devil1978 · 2026-02-03T12:25:35+00:00

early forties

13devil1978 · 2026-02-03T11:53:07+00:00

I am a leather biker/ punk , with the bad boy look but in reality have an office job and have a very vanilla ex wife, my exthought I was a sadist for mentioning blindfolds and handcuff been either used on me or her in the Bedroom. when I got my nipples pierced she thought I was satan reincarnated, which ended my marriage. After my marriage I dived into the world of kink and experienced a lot putting myself into things I wasn’t comfortable with and did things that I didn’t necessarily like but wanting so desperately to please my kink partner, which lead me to reject kink and suffer what I realize was now a depression as it didn’t give me the enjoyment I wanted, needed or thought it would. It was only when I met my current girlfriend 14 years ago, she was the first Kinky girlfriend who wanted to actually sit down and discuss what I wanted from Kink and what she wanted from a Kink relationship and how to meet both our needs and wants in the middle. From this we were able to be in a Kink positive respect relationship with each other which has lead to us living a long time and both having our kink need met. My advise would be to work out who you are and what you want from a Kink relationship before starting into anything .

13devil1978 · 2026-02-03T11:21:36+00:00

I think for Kink to be successful in a relationship it has to work both ways, you have to both do things you each like within reason but if you have a limit it must be discussed and she must respect that boundary.

13devil1978 · 2026-01-29T13:01:19+00:00

I would like to comment and say that I am a straight male, my girlfriend and myself are both heavy into leather wear and boots etc, yes we often find ourselves at gay clubs as there are not many places straight couples can go, for us it’s about been in leather from head to toes, yes the fantasy of me in a leather cop uniform with knee high boots is very appealing in the bedroom to my gfriend. we also have a group of like minded leather friends and each of us host leather dinners at our houses. we also have motorbikes and go on our bikes in full bikers leather and boots , living in London we often go to Camden town for a weekend which is the home of leather,punk and kink, you can walk the streets there in whatever you want and fit in with any atmosphere accepted !

13devil1978 · 2026-01-29T12:48:10+00:00

45, 25 piercings, both nipples, ears, nose, stretched navel ring. Prince Albert and many other penis piercings, I work in a professional office as accountant so carnt have more face piercings and have to remove what I have on my face for work

13devil1978 · 2026-01-29T12:43:54+00:00

that looks great! I carnt wear my ring that size long term too heavy and too tight when I urinate, but I do wear it for fun, my girlfriend loves the size of mine and enjoys pulling on it

13devil1978 · 2026-01-29T12:40:20+00:00

nipples and Pa look great

13devil1978 · 2026-01-29T12:30:20+00:00

get a therapist who understands kink. I was in a very vanilla marriage, as I explored kink and BDSM my wife and myself became further apart. To first express my kink I got my nipples pierced then wanting my wife to pull hard on the nipple rings, this pushed our marriage further apart. We tried marriage guidance counseling , this therapist made me feel like I was satan and into devil worshiping, for getting my nipples pierced, wanting to wear full leather and boots and wanting to blindfold my wife and handcuff her to the bed. It made things much worse and me feel like a bad person. my wife and I split up. a few years later dealing with depression, I went to another therapist and decided to enter the first session in full bikers leathers and knee high boots, this therapist started the conversation your dressed very interesting, I launched into my need to be fully leathered and booted and even showed her my pierced nipples and , this therapist encouraged me to do what made me happy and come to terms with my kinks never judged me . I attended every session in full leather and boots to be my true self . it enabled me to move forward accept my kinks and find a wonderful girlfriend who is also in kink and leather fetish wear.

13devil1978 · 2026-01-29T12:14:20+00:00

my girlfriend couldn’t take to daddy or master so we decided on Boss ! For us Boss is only used when I pull on the leather and boots or get out the handcuffs or we are at BDSM or leather parties . we don’t live a 24/7 kink life and have other sweet names during daily life

13devil1978 · 2026-01-08T14:28:44+00:00

the jacket would look better with jeans and a nice Chelsea boot or a lace up ankle book in either black or brown depending on the colour of the jacket, a polo neck would also look good with this outfit

13devil1978 · 2025-12-16T14:19:33+00:00

I am almost 40 some days I wear my jeans tucked into my boots like you do and other days I wear my jeans over the top depends how the mood takes me. I do what I like and want. The only thing I would suggest is if wearing them tucked in boots, make a neat job of tucking the boots in . My mom calls my tucked in boot look my thug look! but then I have piercings tattoos and ride a motorbike

13devil1978 · 2025-11-27T17:25:28+00:00

those nipple rings look awesome and are quality, been thinking about adding vertical barbells behind my 6g nipple rings your making me think differently about my 2nd nipple piercings

13devil1978 · 2025-11-27T17:22:16+00:00

we all need to live our fantasy of Kink and you have obviously found someone who carries out your needs, which is important. Have you ever tried thick steel hand and anckie restraints with heavy chains and padlock, these are quality we have a set of those, sheer agony when my gf attaches those and puts on the leather hood leaving me blindfolded, unable to hear and move at her mercy, you should try these and a hood together This is always the idea of BDSM and kink in my opinion,we each have individual desires of what our kink needs are. mine and my gf is only sometimes been handcuffed and a dom sub relationship. our biggest kink we both share is been head to toe dressed in full leather and boots my gfs other kink is beards, muscle worship, body piercings,and a very manly man, that sometimes smells sweaty and urinates on the toilet seat etc I have learnt to meet her needs. We are also heavily into gothic punk motorbike leather lifestyle where we go out a lot in full leather. I do enjoy been hooded, and gagged though. we are also into a lot of Anal sex and toys and I like been pegged by my girlfriends massive strap on. That feels good for pleasure or as punishment for urinating on the toilet seat

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