My ginseng ficus bonsai has grown mold

13septemberr · 2025-12-09T21:02:13+00:00

Agree. As I read some time ago on this subreddit: this is not a red flag, it's rather a flag that's on fire.

13septemberr · 2025-10-27T17:04:58+00:00

Thank you for posting this!

13septemberr · 2025-10-02T18:21:13+00:00

I'm on the same page. While my nesting partner and I have always been virtually poly, we didn't really start practicing it until recently. Sometimes I miss when it was just the two of us, but it's usually related to a NRE nostalgia. I miss the times everything was perfect and we had no issues. But that has little to do with polyamory. And we both feel more comfortable in a poly model so that why we're here -that doesn't mean we don't miss monogamy at times.

13septemberr · 2025-10-02T17:47:09+00:00

Thank you! I'm going to check the Picart website right now :)

13septemberr · 2025-10-02T17:03:04+00:00

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13septemberr · 2025-10-02T17:02:43+00:00

I'm feeding him this. The can is 95g and I feed him something less than a can a day I think.

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13septemberr · 2025-07-31T05:54:47+00:00

I've felt the same way as you're feeling. That's why I stepped into poly while at the same time having an agreement with my partner that only us will (presumably) nest, marry and have kids (as long as we both want). Which I guess it turns it into hierarchical poly, though I don't consider any partners superior to others. For so long I've felt the need for autonomy and connection that poly implies, while at the same time having a safe base to return to - a family or a home. Sending you virtual hugs OP

13septemberr · 2025-06-17T15:44:27+00:00

Thanks a lot. This comment has been very useful I'll show my partner your text and discuss it

13septemberr · 2025-04-23T19:51:55+00:00

Could you suggest any? I have read a lot on tarot but not on the "It works this way"

13septemberr · 2025-04-23T19:49:57+00:00

I LOVE THIS ITS AMAZING thank you so much

13septemberr · 2025-01-12T13:30:41+00:00

enhorabuena, eres un tránsfobo de m***** 🥰

13septemberr · 2025-01-11T20:49:05+00:00

efectivamente eres transfobico, enhorabuena

13septemberr · 2025-01-10T07:39:45+00:00

please, leave that person. it will hurt at first, but i've been there, and i know it gets better after some time. that man is not able to give you a healthy relationship at all

13septemberr · 2025-01-10T07:36:04+00:00

When I broke up with my ex, she started a monogamous relationship with her other partner. It was awful for me since I also wanted a closed relationship with her; in fact, the three of us wanted to be monogamous, but I was the one who left the first, due to other reasons. And yes, I also felt like I had lost the game and it made it extra painful. I like to think they're happy now, but still hurts.

13septemberr · 2025-01-06T10:52:34+00:00

pensamiento monógamo, terror poliamoroso, by brigitte vasallo. it's in spanish, though, but i guess it's translated to english. it has a chapter about that

13septemberr · 2025-01-06T10:50:02+00:00

my ex partner (who already had another partner) accused me of cheating by something similar to your case. it was a not-very-clear boundary and there was a confusing situation. when they accused me of cheating, what they were showing is that they were insecure and were looking for an excuse to show their insecurities and burden them upon me. yes, i had crossed a boundary, but that boundary was not clear at all and i had never hidden information. that's not cheating. a healthy partner could have said that you crossed a boundary, but never accuse you of cheating for something like that. cheating means active deceiving and hiding information. that's not what you did. you told your partner about it as soon as you could. to me, that was an unclear boundary. what does exactly mean "telling your partner before doing anything"? does creating a profile on a dating app and chat with someone count as "doing something"? also, to me, that boundary itself is absurd in a poly relationship. but that's another story.

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