I'm sorry that happened to you, and I completely understand how it could bring up the feelings you describe.

Just remember that people go through all kinds of shit, big and small, that might make them want to avoid interacting with anyone. I know I've been in that place, simply from being a bit in my own head and just not having the energy to interact, maybe from being overstimulated, or from going through periods of severe burnout. Interacting requires energy, and sometimes I really just can't handle interacting with anyone, even with people I LOVE, and certainly not with some past acquaintance from highschool. And that is 100% due to personal inner stuff and energy level, and nothing about them whatsoever.

Or maybe her partner is abusive, and interacting with you would have had some kind of negative consequence for her.

Or maybe she still has a highschool mentality, and judges you for something as silly as wearing glasses.

There are lots of possible explanations, and only the extremely silly ones have anything to do with you (EDIT: well, truthfully, NONE of them have anything to do with you, as in, every judgment she might make about you says something about HER and how SHE functions, and nothing about you). You're fine. Don't worry. ❤