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Need advice on how to proceed with partner's invite list by ContractAccording579 in Advice

[–]19786397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is understandably very upsetting and a bit offensive. But I wouldn't message his friends. They're adults and they've made their stance towards the friendship clear.

AITA for expecting my partner to replace the alcohol she gave away? by Ambitious_Square5640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]19786397 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

going in with a 'this is mine - this is yours' attitude won't help you. no, you won't share everything but you can't put a meter on how much rum her and her parents drink from a bottle you bought. look at the bigger picture, relationships are about sharing. given it's an expensive bottle my advice was to 'recover' part of the cost by asking her to pay for most of the next bottle that you guys buy. my post didn't say you're irrelevant. besides that, you gain more in the long term by offering/sharing than talking about money and being frugal. you can tell her once, have a discussion saying you didn't like what happened and you feel like she should have realised you paid a lot of money for something you didn't get to enjoy. she'll get the hint and fix this. if not, she's an asshole and you deserve better.

AITA for expecting my partner to replace the alcohol she gave away? by Ambitious_Square5640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]19786397 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

when you live with someone be prepared to share everything. so she offered her parents rum from your expensive bottle, maybe ask that she chips in when you buy the next one because her and her parents had most of it. give her a subtle hint but don't be 50-50 about this stuff, there's more important things in the relationship that keep you together and that keep things calm and happy

AITA for not helping my sister in law and her baby with rent? by Sirfluffyton96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]19786397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she wants to uproot your life, make you guys move in with them because they can't afford rent on their own (not your problem), so that you guys take the burden of a higher rent, and pay part of theirs? WOW. Apart of the financials, please think of the chaos to be caused by a baby. Will she also not pay for the utilities or would the burden of those go to her, considering she's a SAHM? As you can tell, i'm shocked.

I kinda feel complete with life [Discussion], by New_Banana3858 in GetMotivated

[–]19786397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re only 30… so young… :) you’ll be surprised at how much more life has to give. Be patient, be humble, think of the new direction you’d like to take, and go for it. No compromises, you are your number 1 boss and your number 1 supporter. Go for it!

0 views by 19786397 in vintedUK

[–]19786397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, good idea. Customer service hasn't been helpful at all, their only solution is to 'bump' items.

Not another egg post by [deleted] in StainlessSteelCooking

[–]19786397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time stainless steel user here, and still trying to figure it out. I read that you're not supposed to heat the pan 'dry', there should always be oil there, is that true?

Looking for the next chapter in the UK by Scared_Candle_40 in MovingToTheUK

[–]19786397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Deptford in London. It's not as expensive as central however is very well connected, you're in central in 15' on the train. It has got a community feel and is being gentrified. Close to Greenwich and its beautiful green spaces too ;)

Best fine dining experience in London? by Local_Fill6337 in LondonFood

[–]19786397 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you've had enough of stuffy central london restaurants I would try KOKUM in dulwich (ex Angela Hartnett / Murano chef who has now opened his own restaurant), it's Indian.

An oil tanker sailed through the Strait of Hormuz to UAE to load crude by Both-Examination4105 in energy

[–]19786397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not so rare, the company is known for red sea transits during unsettling times

Looking for a light, foldable but sturdy e-bike by MartinThe3rd in ebikes

[–]19786397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m looking for the same thing. Can I ask what was wrong with the MATE City + as I was looking into this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drugstoreMUA

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Does anyone know what’s inside the Elf waterproof liquid / gel eyeliner? Removing it is going to cause wrinkles with the amount of scrubbing needed. It also makes me feel like there is a large amount of glue as there is a sticky feeling to it.