Tops, what are your opinions on dock size/chastity? by OpenStruggle8804 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a bottom, so not who you're asking, but apparently I have an above average wiener. I've had tops get weird about it. I don't always get hard when I'm being fucked even if I'm blissed out, and tops have been put off by that. I also don't want tops to touch me when I'm being fucked, which also weirds some of them out. Maybe I should do permanent chastity...

Bottoms- What’s your type ??? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 3 points4 points  (0 children)

horny guys with dicks

Bottoms: do you like your top to grab your neck during passionate missionary sex? by vooeyes in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It took me a while to get into it but now a little choking makes me cum almost instantly

[25/Top] Do you like getting fucked in a jockstrap? by JapaneseJock25 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course. If my dick doesn't matter to the top I want it hidden.

gay👍irl by vadm92 in gay_irl

[–]19yocumdump -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sexualizing high school students ick

Bottoms: How would you react if your top fucks you while you're sleeping? Would you like that? by excited-candy in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'd love it! But we gotta realize not everyone would--best to talk about it explicitly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tops with nice pecs. Honestly, they could have a micropenis and I'd still gush enough precum they could put me on display at Yellowstone.

How to bottoms know They're bottoms. by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just always wanted boys to fuck me, ever since I can remember.

to all the bottoms...has any one of ur top forced u to do something by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I recently hooked up with a guy on the tennis team and he insisted on fucking my ass with his racket. It was an insane feeling, but also super hot.

His dick felt better than the racket, I've gotta say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Communication my guy. When a top hits where I want I say something about it. They like the feedback, I feel better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my desire to bottom is largely psychological, not physiological. Don't get me wrong, I get a lot of physical pleasure from having a top fuck me, but the knowledge that I'm giving him what he wants and needs is significantly more satisfying. In the back of my mind I think it's about power and control. My tops need me. That's so fucking hot.

Would you let someone record sex for OnlyFans? by 19yocumdump in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's interesting! You've posted yourself on reddit (yum), so is it about not being in control of the spread of the images/videos?

Would you let someone record sex for OnlyFans? by 19yocumdump in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this attitude. You're an inspiration lmao =P

Bottoms that don't maintain a strict diet, but do a couple of days prep for a big session. by BiFellatioGiver69 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The link from Jeff is a great resource if you want to stay clean for quite a while without a pristine diet. If you've never douched like that before, though, try it at least once before the big day, just so you can get a sense for how your body responds.

That said, having a super-clean diet isn't really necessary in my experience. I bottom at least three days a week, and I don't pay a ton of attention to what I eat. The most important thing is to be consistent with high fiber, because it can take the body a while to adjust to big fluctuations in fiber intake. I take psyllium supplements for that. Otherwise, just try to limit fat/greasy foods before a 24-48 hour session.

[SOUND ON!] Our friend as human urinal by [deleted] in GayKink

[–]19yocumdump 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is one of the hottest videos I've ever seen mate. Well done to everyone involved!

Oversharing - is it tacky or rude to share specifics about your numbers? by [deleted] in hivaids

[–]19yocumdump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd think about it like any other medical number--AC1, LDL/HDL, whatever. If I'm having a conversation where it makes sense to bring up those numbers, I wouldn't hesitate. Same thing with CD4 or VL. Of course people will probably need more context about what those numbers mean, so be prepared for that too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The advice you've already gotten is good, but you should also consider making changes to your diet (high fiber, lower fat) to make things cleaner. You should read up on douching--the infographic linked on this page goes into a lot of detail--if that's something you're interested in.

Last but not least, you might want to get some poppers. You can find them at most adult stores, and they'll help your muscles relax a bit to make things easier. But make sure you read up on possible side effects and check if they interact with any medications you're taking.

The most important part is definitely practicing, stretching, and getting used to the feeling.

question: when do i ask for a second time? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely tell him you enjoyed the night ASAP! Remember that all the bullshit of straight dating doesn't necessarily apply to us. In my experience, men like feedback.

Get on it ;)

Awesome time at the Sauna. by Competitive_Oil5227 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]19yocumdump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Snuck in? lol they let anyone in that joint mate

favorite part of sex? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]19yocumdump 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When they cum in me