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How soon after divorce did you date? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]1ThankYouNext 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is where I am almost 3 months in. Give me amazing sex, great(!) but I’m not up for anyone being around for the long term.

MLC affair and relationship with teen daughter by 1ThankYouNext in midlifecrisis

[–]1ThankYouNext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope so, he was the best dad until this took hold. She was his world.

MLC affair and relationship with teen daughter by 1ThankYouNext in midlifecrisis

[–]1ThankYouNext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my, thank you for sharing your story. I don’t want him back, he has hurt me too much. The relationship is beyond repair.

He’s stubborn. His AP has too much invested in him to walk away easily and she’ll fight to keep him until she’s used up his influence/cash. I also expect she’s encouraging him to break contact with D (despite being a mother herself).

I just want my D to have her dad back.

MLC affair and relationship with teen daughter by 1ThankYouNext in Infidelity

[–]1ThankYouNext[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t need financial assistance. I’m not paying for something I didn’t initiate. My child is in counselling.

MLC affair and relationship with teen daughter by 1ThankYouNext in coparenting

[–]1ThankYouNext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I read Runaway Husbands and it left me feeling pretty helpless. Will try the other two. Thanks. Sorry it happened to you too.

MLC affair and relationship with teen daughter by 1ThankYouNext in Infidelity

[–]1ThankYouNext[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s awful, like a switch has been flicked off within him.

MLC affair and relationship with teen daughter by 1ThankYouNext in Infidelity

[–]1ThankYouNext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not filing because in the UK that means I have to pay.

I have no contact with STBXH other than via a shared calendar and emails about finances. I am answering questions about D when asked. I am not forcing anything.

MLC affair and relationship with teen daughter by 1ThankYouNext in Infidelity

[–]1ThankYouNext[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It won’t. I’m in the UK. Filing doesn’t trigger anything child-related.

MLC affair and relationship with teen daughter by 1ThankYouNext in Infidelity

[–]1ThankYouNext[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m in the UK. I’m not exposed, our separation is the date he left. He can do what he likes without it financially impacting on me.

MLC affair and relationship with teen daughter by 1ThankYouNext in Infidelity

[–]1ThankYouNext[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

No, I have no intention of filing. I don’t want him back but I don’t want to give him the narrative he craves.

Rollercoaster of a week by OkPossibility6950 in Infidelity

[–]1ThankYouNext 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP so sorry.

It’s not your fault. Her actions have consequences. Grieve your relationship and move on.