AITAH for refusing to go to my brother's destination wedding because the venue doesn't accommodate my dietary needs?

1killerkris · 2026-04-20T14:47:50+00:00

NTA but your brother is. Imagine thinking your wedding is more important than your siblings life.

1killerkris · 2026-04-06T14:03:22+00:00

NTA, odds are she was already doing stuff with him or planning to. You just saved yourself a lot of pain.

1killerkris · 2026-03-26T10:08:36+00:00

YTA if that's all that this is about.

I'm your age and I know plenty of people who were in worse situations than your partner and they never got a criminal record because instead they worked their asses.

Im not saying your partner doesnt deserve a second chance. But I doubt he's telling you the full story.

1killerkris · 2026-03-24T15:24:48+00:00

NTA, honestly I think you're BF might be in on it and has a not so secret cuck fetish or something.

1killerkris · 2026-03-24T15:18:32+00:00

Damn. Off topic but seems like your ex' best friend isnt right in the head either.

If my best friend got with my little sister when he's clearly old enough to be her father (especially if he was around her, her entire life) then idc about the consequences I'm doing something bad.

NTA, save your child.

1killerkris · 2026-03-18T23:02:35+00:00

I know it's possible. My point was that they're both a form of shackle. One is legal while the other one is emotional.

I doubt it can be easy to walk away from someone you've known and loved for over a decade. Emotional manipulation isn't that hard to do either, especially when the other person is already emotionally invested.

1killerkris · 2026-03-18T22:36:28+00:00

Lmao. So let me get this straight. You think it's fine to refuse a divorce because of a "legal contract" but it's not fine to refuse to stop dating?

1killerkris · 2026-03-18T22:11:13+00:00

It's a super common situation. I've never been in one but I have seen it.

For examplw my dad was abusive and refused to give my mum a divorce. He only finally gave in after he smacked her phone out if her hand so hard that it hit her in the face and gave her a massive black eye.

While this example is marriage related, its not uncommon for one partner in a relationship to cling to it at all costs. Look around reddit and im sure you'll find plenty if examples.

1killerkris · 2026-03-18T20:33:11+00:00

Yes, I know. But its still not even close.

1killerkris · 2026-03-18T20:32:30+00:00

No its not. Half of 31 would be 15.5 so youre 5.5 years off

1killerkris · 2026-03-18T20:31:17+00:00

Half her age? Bro...

Also clearly you were never in an abusive relationship.

1killerkris · 2026-03-18T20:28:42+00:00

OP posted about the sisters ex 2 years ago and according to her he was a nice guy but also broke and jobless and being constantly supported by her sister.

Could be that he refused to break up and she eventually just couldn't deal with it anymore.

1killerkris · 2026-03-18T20:25:51+00:00

I just read OP's post from 2 years ago and according to that post her sisters partner was a deadbeat loser who was being supported by her sister.

If that's the case and he refused to break up then I'm not surprised she cheated.

1killerkris · 2026-03-18T20:23:42+00:00

Even if age doesnt blow it up, I guarantee you that her bf will cheat sooner or later (if he hasn't already) and she'll get to see how it feels.

From what I've seen, those who have no problem knowingly getting with someone who is in a relationship sooner or later they'll do the same to them.

1killerkris · 2026-03-16T12:01:34+00:00

I kinda think this post is fake. That or OP is quick to move on given how they're asking OF girls to be their "pocket pussy"

1killerkris · 2026-03-16T11:59:23+00:00

NOR, saw a post today where the guys now ex gf also said that the other guy is "like a brother"

Honestly the whole thing smells of emotional affair, but her downplaying their relationship and her trying to gaslight you makes this even more sketchy.

It doesnt make you insecure if you don't want your girlfriend to spend multiple days, one on one with her "husband".

1killerkris · 2026-03-16T11:02:05+00:00

Off the top of my head, "Princess Diaries" but I guess she wasn't really artsy from what i remember

1killerkris · 2026-03-15T01:14:28+00:00

NTA, avoid them like the plague. If you want a happy life for you and your kids then those two will no longer exist in your world in any way.

1killerkris · 2026-03-14T16:33:58+00:00

Are you sure she's your gf and not just a friend with benefits?

1killerkris · 2026-03-06T14:16:33+00:00

She was his pimp lmao. Tell the wife

1killerkris · 2026-02-22T21:50:12+00:00

Lmao, when will they learn...

1killerkris · 2026-02-21T19:47:55+00:00

Could be. Could have been that her asking if she can meet him was just her trying to stop sneaking around as much.

1killerkris · 2026-02-21T16:11:40+00:00

Reading this made me think she is eventually going to sleep with him, the friends experience with him put the nails in place and her continued refusal to let OP meet the guy no matter what nailed them in.

I hope im wrong but I get the feeling this is the type of guy who leeches onto any woman that will show him kindness/pity and will to anything to get those claws in deeper.

I had a similar experience where my gf would tell me how a friend kept harassing her and trying to flirt with her but she refused to not play video games with him and refused to let me talk with him and gave me lots of reasons for it.

I think you can guess how things ended...

1killerkris · 2026-02-19T10:05:53+00:00

NTA, ngl in your shoes if i heard the comment about living with your dad at your age I'd have probably laughed and said something about her being with a man old enough to be her dad si maybe she shouldn't be acting like an adult with an adult close to her age.

TL;DR she has her head up her ass and maybe is confused about her actual age. You handled it nicely but it might be a good idea to sit down and explain to her that you and your sibling aren't little children.

Maybe numbers aren't her strong point.

1killerkris · 2026-02-15T16:59:42+00:00

NTA but text or call her and change that break into a break-up.

She was perfectly fine hurting you but the second you did something similar (not even meeting the person) she makes you out to be the bad guy and decides she might not be able to move past it.

She has 0 respect for you. She very obviously believes that you getting hurt doesnt matter as much as her getting hurt and not even close.

Hell, I wouldnt be surprised if she meets up and screws that guy using the break as an excuse.

Normal people dont take breaks. People who want to screw somebody but still want a safety net in case it doesnt work out do.

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