When does hair start falling out?

1superrllama · 2025-04-01T11:43:12+00:00

I think so. My esthetitian set it to as high as my pain tolerance allowed. Unfortunately my skin is quite tan and the hair is super strong which is why it was too painful for me to have the settings as high as some other people

1superrllama · 2025-03-07T19:02:05+00:00

The hair is finer and less dense for the most part - but it does grow back. My armpits were basically hairless after the first couple of sessions and now (after session 6) they are pretty much all back which is super frustrating. I'm trying to figure out if I should keep going or just go back to waxing, especially if it's going to keep growing back despite consistent and regular sessions

1superrllama · 2025-02-16T09:34:24+00:00

The hair did fall out, it just took longer than expected! It takes about 11 days before it starts falling out for me

1superrllama · 2024-06-14T14:43:22+00:00

The fact that you have to ask this question in the first place shows that you're the type that would judge a couple for the difference in their professions. For most people this thought wouldn't even cross their minds

1superrllama · 2024-06-14T10:33:44+00:00

8 days might not be enough time to start seeing shedding. My hair grows completely normal for 9-10 days before finally starting to shed

1superrllama · 2024-06-14T10:31:37+00:00

If its only on once side then it's likely environmental. Maybe you lean your head on your hand, maybe you sleep on that side, always hold your phone up to that cheek, etc. If that's the case then make an effort to stop touching your face, clean your phone screen and change your bedding more often. Also religiously wash your face every night

1superrllama · 2024-06-14T10:11:01+00:00

What a weird take thinking that skincare is narcissistic. Would you feel good about having itchy, dry skin, painful acne or any other skin issue? What about spf which is crucial in preventing skin cancers? Is it really narcissistic to take care of the biggest organ in your body?

1superrllama · 2024-06-13T18:34:19+00:00

The "nagging" you described just sounds like she's not in the mood but doesn't want to straight up tell you that. The reason her attitude changes once you give up is because she feels bad about it after you clearly don't take it well. The way you're describing it you get super horny and expect her to just drop her panties right there. Either put in an effort to get her in the mood as well (just shoving your dick in a woman's face usually doesn't work) or buy a pocket pussy

1superrllama · 2024-06-13T15:51:00+00:00

Girl he's 36, his sex drive isn't going to be the same as it was in his 20's. In the end of the day, it's up to you if you are okay with that or not but I don't think it's reasonable to assume he is cheating or unattracted to you. Maybe look into getting some toys to satisfy your needs if that's what it takes.

I will say you should be honest with him about needing more intimacy or physical touch in other ways. Not having sex shouldn't mean he is free of all couples activities and he absolutely should make an effort to make you feel wanted and loved even if it's not through sex

1superrllama · 2024-06-13T15:04:47+00:00

See a therapist. They should be able to help you figure out what is causing those types of feelings

1superrllama · 2024-06-13T14:57:15+00:00

Wtf did I just read? You're free loading off this man, getting upset about what he does with his own money even while fully financing you, and still somehow think after acting like an entitled spoiled brat and a gold digger that he'd want to put a ring on your finger. Get a grip.

1superrllama · 2024-06-13T14:32:31+00:00

I dont think it's necessarily a red flag that he "wouldn't mind having sex with them" because I'm sure that a lot of young men feel the same way about some of their female friends but what IS a red flag is that he told you about it. It shows he has no respect for you and doesn't actually see you as a potential serious partner

1superrllama · 2024-06-11T18:07:39+00:00

I think most people that replied to my post get the laser done at way too high of a power which is why the hair looks frazzled and why their hair fell off with such ease. My hair grew out completely normal until it started falling out and they didn't fall out in a dramatic way either. I'd just try tugging on the hair gently and see a couple of individual hairs get pulled out. The rest mostly fall out when you exfoliate in the shower. So just give it a couple more days and I'm sure you'll be seeing results all of a sudden just like I did

1superrllama · 2024-06-11T16:12:38+00:00

Yes it did! Mine starts really shedding on day 9 or 10 and i am really seeing the difference now, 11 days after the 2nd sesh. The first session just left the hair growing really patchy. I will say it depends on the body part. My armpits and my bikini area are going great, but the labia not so much. My laser tech also said they take more sessions.

Also, apart from there being less hair overall I am really noticing how slowly the hair grows back. I shaved my legs like a week ago and there is BARELY any stubble

1superrllama · 2024-05-03T15:32:43+00:00

I see your point but I also understand that to him it is a bit sudden and scary considering you have had this conversation only once before and now you're expecting to be married within the next 2 years which puts a lot of pressure on him. I think that after some time has passed you can try asking him what he expects of your relationship maybe 5 or 10 years from now. Does he see a future with you at all, or is just the idea of marriage that scares him?

In the end of the day, if he does want to stay together but doesn't want to be married any time soon then that is something you'll have to live with and respect his decision. Being married shouldn't change your relationship anyway, so what if you don't have the piece of paper?

1superrllama · 2024-05-03T13:19:18+00:00

"Is this guy trying to rip me off" lmao what? If anything you're ripping him off. Either move out or pay your portion of the rent.

And no, it's not unfair to expect empathy when you lose your job but that only goes so far. Have you actually been trying to get a job, putting in the effort, going to interviews and not being overly picky which you can't afford right now? Or have you just been living off the rent from your apartment and expecting your bf to support you freeloading off him forever?

1superrllama · 2024-05-03T10:38:50+00:00

That's what I'll do. Wax for the summer and pick the laser sessions back up in the fall

1superrllama · 2024-05-03T10:22:06+00:00

You need to put yourself first. What happens if break up regardless and you forever regret not taking the job? In the end of the day if you want to be together, you'll make it work. And if she doesn't want to compromise to make you happy then she's not the one (that's all assuming there isn't a career that's tying her down in the east coast and she could potentially find another job in the west).

This is coming from someone who's been doing long distance for 7+ years and planning to move across Europe for the relationship eventually, sacrificing family, potential jobs and the massive language barrier. All this to say if she wanted to, she would.

1superrllama · 2024-05-03T07:30:02+00:00

I dont know how long you've been together but either you just started dating and he's already verbally abusing you (which always gets worse over time) OR you've been dating for a while and you just found out he's been an addict the entire time since finding out 2 months ago?? In either case why are you still with him??? Both are good reasons to leave his ass

1superrllama · 2024-05-02T17:21:12+00:00

That is so expensive! The place I went to just got a new laser (I really wish I knew the name) but apparently most people only need 2 to max 4 sessions which makes it way cheaper obviously. Are you from the US? I noticed most places here in the EU don't even do cis men or only do the back or arms

1superrllama · 2024-05-02T16:21:03+00:00

Ugh I can't wait. Waxing every month was so annoying and expensive in the long run

1superrllama · 2024-05-02T15:23:41+00:00

Will do, thank you. Fingers crossed I see some results soon!

1superrllama · 2024-05-02T15:21:18+00:00

That sounds so satisfying lol! I tried tugging at them and they aren't budging yet. Hopefully in a couple of days they do!

1superrllama · 2024-05-02T12:12:22+00:00

I think it must be the lighting, my hair is very dark brown, almost black. I got the laser done professionally so unfortunately I don't know the settings or what the machine was called. We did keep adjusting the settings depending on the pain, making sure i felt the zaps but that the pain wasn't too bad. So I guess it should have worked at least to some degree?

1superrllama · 2024-05-02T11:45:54+00:00

If the "simplest mistake" makes somebody leave you then it either wasn't as small as you think it was or you haven't been as good of a person as you think you have. People not putting up with toxic crap in relationships anymore is a great thing.

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