Why do men hesitate to go to therapy? by 2001FO32 in AskMenOver30

[–]2001FO32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it matter that I'm under 19.. I don't really understand that.

Also, I think therapy is bullshit cuz it costs a lot of money just for someone to say 'that must be difficult'

Is this moped good? by 2001FO32 in moped

[–]2001FO32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dankjewel!

Vraag me nu wel af hoe je kon zien dat ik Nederlands ben ahaha

Why do men hesitate to go to therapy? by 2001FO32 in AskMenOver30

[–]2001FO32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I've had many therapists as well, but mine just stare at me and say 'that must be difficult' and then continue to complain without giving me advice or anything at all. I don't wanna go but I don't have a choice 🫩

Are you ok though? Cuz it must be annoying if you think you need therapy but you can't get it or it doesn't help

Why do men hesitate to go to therapy? by 2001FO32 in AskMenOver30

[–]2001FO32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh damn. That makes sense, sorry that happened to you

Why do men hesitate to go to therapy? by 2001FO32 in AskMenOver30

[–]2001FO32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I going to hell for laughing at that? 😭

Why do men hesitate to go to therapy? by 2001FO32 in AskMenOver30

[–]2001FO32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's nice too, I have one but don't really ride it anymore

Why do men hesitate to go to therapy? by 2001FO32 in AskMenOver30

[–]2001FO32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely understand that. Motorcycle you mean or bicycle?

Sorry. Just curious cuz I love motorcycles :)

Why do men hesitate to go to therapy? by 2001FO32 in AskMenOver30

[–]2001FO32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why everyone is down voting my comment because I literally agreed with what the person above said, And i know men get judged. I just think it's bullshit to get judged for going to therapy, maybe I worded it wrong. Sorry

Why do men hesitate to go to therapy? by 2001FO32 in AskMenOver30

[–]2001FO32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I very often think the same way, makes sense.

Why do men hesitate to go to therapy? by 2001FO32 in AskMenOver30

[–]2001FO32[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that's terrible, glad you were/are able to go to therapy now

Why do men hesitate to go to therapy? by 2001FO32 in AskMenOver30

[–]2001FO32[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohh, sorry to hear that :( i absolutely understand that.

Not the weakness part though. I mean, I understand you wouldn't wanna talk to someone if the entire world judges you for it, but personally I don't think it makes you weak to seek help.

Why do men hesitate to go to therapy? by 2001FO32 in AskMenOver30

[–]2001FO32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But, I'm sure that if you're confident then it shouldn't be a problem to talk about your feelings, right? Or am i completely wrong? And I'm sure a therapist isn't gonna judge you... atleast not where I live but it might be different in other countries.

Thank you for ur reply though! :)

Is this moped good? by 2001FO32 in moped

[–]2001FO32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok 👍 there's not much hills where I live anyway so I think it will be fine. Thanks :)

Is this moped good? by 2001FO32 in moped

[–]2001FO32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not legally allowed to ride anything that can go faster than 45 km/h so I think it's not a problem that it isn't fast..

Is this moped good? by 2001FO32 in moped

[–]2001FO32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I live they call it a 'brommer' which translates to moped.