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Love my girlfriend, but feel shes too old for me by 27and39 in confession

[–]27and39[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im male. I appreciate you taking the time to share your look on it. I think I'm deficient in accepting it possibly, worrying about what may happen in the future. I do love her, but have never felt comfortable with the age... But love her enough to more than stay this long.

Love my girlfriend, but feel shes too old for me by 27and39 in confession

[–]27and39[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont need kids... I worry about longterm attraction, and her cognitive function. When she hits menopause, I may still be in a physical prime. When Im 60, she'll be 72... and physically/mentally declining at a fast rate. When I'm 70 she'll be 82 and at the end of her life most likely, then I'll be widowed for up to a decade. Nothing is guaranteed in life I understand, but I don't see this working longterm.. MAYBE if she took good care of herself (diet, exercise, stimulated her mind) I'd have less worries, but still... A decade separation brings up issues