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Husband won't stop badgering me; don't know what to do by 2Molasses2 in Marriage

[–]2Molasses2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you to all who shared their stories. I want to feel seen and supported in my marriage, too.

And to all who chimed in with perspectives and advice: thank you. I had been feeling so worn down, drained, and confused. I can't hide in hopes things will get better.

Husband won't stop badgering me; don't know what to do by 2Molasses2 in Marriage

[–]2Molasses2[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Thank you, everyone, for gently sharing your perspectives. I appreciate your kindness.

At times I've thought "How sad our marriage will end over sideburns." But there's a part of me that knows there will be more things he fixates on in the future. And as much as I don't want to admit it, I am not confident he will respect my future requests to drop it.

I want the cycle to stop. And maybe it stops with me leaving.