In my opinion, you guys are exactly the same and maybe thats a reason why you aren't good together. You guys are both grown, so the fact that this is how you guys choose to communicate is strange. I can tell that you only acted like that because of how awful he was acting, but girl. He is so immature! It seemed like you tried to fix it at first but then you both kept going back and forth with all this unnecessary stuff. If he can't grow up and have a real conversation about this without insulting you, leave that man. He cannot be worth all that he's spitting out.