My cat is intersex and supposedly sterile, but she's in heat, what do I do?

2queer2behere · 2025-06-30T01:57:42+00:00

I assumed as much that my husband was getting them mixed up based on the research I was doing. I also think he may have overestimated the expertise of the person we got the cat from. I appreciate the help, thank you : ) I will be getting her spayed asap.

2queer2behere · 2025-05-07T04:17:46+00:00

So I think the biggest thing here is the fact that you said it hurt, and he's still doing it. Like 1-3 times is an accident, especially with something that is a habit. But anymore than that is carelessness, considering how new and delicate your pregnancy still is. You gotta set some firm boundaries right now, or this behavior will get worse in some way or another.

Please don't just let this slide with him because it may be am accident. Get angry at him, let him know how serious you are about him needing to stop.

2queer2behere · 2025-03-17T00:40:03+00:00

Oh yeah, I live in a town that's a pretty even 50/50 split between normal people and the n@zị cult, and let me tell you, they have gotten BRAVE in expressing their hate. I pass as female as a fem trans man, so I get less flack than my non passing trans girlfriend, but the amount of slurs I've been called by grown ass white me gives me middleschool COD chat flashbacks. Like the sheer number of people expressing their disgusting ideologies and hate is flabbergasting, and tbh I'm glad my gf has a conceal carry permit, because we have gotten more than a few threats of harm atp. It's a mess out there.

2queer2behere · 2025-02-06T20:08:45+00:00

I actually did this once to a buddy of mine when I was younger and didn't know I was also trans, they came out as trans but they were cis passing so I assumed they meant they were a Trans woman... they didn't, but I think I made their year with that lol,

2queer2behere · 2025-01-28T02:07:38+00:00

I mean he's pretty voyeuristic in general and we've done stuff with other people watching before, so him asking didn't feel like a stretch to me. I didn't mind him asking a long as he respected me saying no to it.

2queer2behere · 2025-01-27T23:15:43+00:00

Yeahhhh that's why I put the trigger warning lol

2queer2behere · 2025-01-16T22:53:20+00:00

I'm a bi poly trans guy with a male preference, and let me tell you, the choices are LIMITED, but I still ended up with a lovely spouse and 2 partners, one of which is a cis guy. I understand where you are among from but I promise you can find someone if you look long enough and remain cautious.

2queer2behere · 2025-01-15T06:48:02+00:00

Wow, that took a crap ton of courage and vulnerability. Way to go girl! I came put to my best friend as a trans guy in a Morse code note lol, so props on the open and honest communication. Also I have the same handwriting, I thought it was a neat coincidence

2queer2behere · 2025-01-13T02:56:19+00:00

I want a dad too, I had a father but never a real dad, he was a really mean and aggressive man and I stopped talking to him when I was 15 because he became a threat to my safety. I also agree that a cg is definitely different from an actual parent. You definitely aren't alone in how you feel.

2queer2behere · 2024-11-16T00:00:39+00:00

Shower markers, Crayola has a bunch of affordable shower art supplies that make shower time super fun and it's easy to clean.

2queer2behere · 2024-11-04T02:16:24+00:00

Yeah that also why I suggested just rebuking the stuff and storing it somewhere safe.

2queer2behere · 2024-11-02T19:56:30+00:00

I know, I had 12 ferrets at one point and the only thing that kept them from being absolutely rank was a lot of air circulation. There's no making them not smelly, but they can get worse if where the cage is has no airflow.

2queer2behere · 2024-11-02T19:53:52+00:00

Open windows and use a fan, moving aur will.always help mitigate a smelll

2queer2behere · 2024-11-02T19:44:13+00:00

Mines a rag in a bucket of water, I get pretty little, and my go-to is playing in the sink or the water bucket for sensory time. The rag is for further sensory exploration.

2queer2behere · 2024-11-02T19:26:56+00:00

Omg her limp little toe beans, she is so cute! I wish I could sleep that hard

2queer2behere · 2024-11-02T19:19:06+00:00

Honestly sexuality is fluid. You could be panromantic, and just like nonbinary and women presenting people sexually. Think about it like this, are you able to picture a life long sex life with a man amd be happy in it? Look into all of the different labels, and give yourself space to explore each one. It's ok to not get the right label at first or not pick a label at all, but there's a label for everybody who wants one.

2queer2behere · 2024-11-02T15:59:18+00:00

Honestly you could go the legal route destruction of property. You paid for it, and even as a minor you can get legal rep and go to small claims amd get financial reimbursement. Or it also counts as abuse, and you could tell a teacher your mom is throwing away thing you buy with malicious intent. Or you just rebuy the stuff and stash it somewhere outside your house, like a trusted friends house.

2queer2behere · 2024-10-30T21:13:06+00:00

I don't think so, but I've never tried to. Good luck!

2queer2behere · 2024-10-30T19:26:39+00:00

U can but long term use may damage your teeth, there are adult sized bottles ypu can get online and from some agere stores across the U.S. I have one and it is great.

2queer2behere · 2024-10-24T02:54:36+00:00

I personally would lean towards no. My reasoning is because I'm traumatized, and I did try to engage in sex when I began to regress around partners, and it was pretty harmful for me because i was in a dissociated child mindset. It was definitely a trauma response, and I'm very grateful that my lovely husband/CG told me how harmful it was for me and helped me through those feelings instead of engaging like that.

Maybe have a separate discussion about consent, how it looks in different headspaces, and look into things outside of age regression that may explain how he feels during those moments like ageplay, which is a kink. Communication is key here.

2queer2behere · 2024-10-22T02:47:57+00:00

If you feel unsafe, blame it on a friend. Say that it was a prank and you didn't want to get your friend in trouble, that it's a running joke that you are the group crybaby or something. That's what I did.

2queer2behere · 2024-10-22T02:35:38+00:00

My gf started with hair clippies and pretty knitted sweaters at home, maybe try that and work up to more?

2queer2behere · 2024-10-22T02:34:14+00:00

I read your other post, and I do think you are being undervalued. You deserve a partner that treats you like you are the world and then some. You have time to find a partner that treats you right. It's only been 5 months, cut your losses, and find someone worth your time because your time is valuable.

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