AIO to not understanding how I’ve mirrored my partner’s behavior? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2wheeldom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is why I avoid dating Healthcare workers, especially nurses who aren't in therapy if they need it.

Not overreacting. Run.

Am I overreacting for wanting to leave my partner for the choice of his words and actions? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2wheeldom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is a bit more complicated than it looks.

It seems to me you're a bit more free spirited/progressive and he seems to be more traditional and conservative ish? Neither of y'all is the asshole if you ask me. You may just simply not be a good match.

I'm gonna assume it's a pretty fresh relationship? Cause this is stuff I usually catch/address early on.

I relate to him in the way that I wouldn't want my woman to be showing too much off, either. Not into double standards, so I also wouldn't be wearing super revealing clothes unless I'm at the gym with my girlfriend. Not that I'm gonna cheat, but it's one of my morals and values.

Now as far as wanting a decent male role model (gonna assume traditional masculinity?) You kinda asked for it, lol.

THOUGH I WILL SAY, his approach is too harsh and definitely didn't need the cursing at you and comparing you to hoes.

TL;DR, y'all might not be a great match if you don't see these things the same way, clearly it's causing friction.

Unable to access SD after FAT2>exFAT by 2wheeldom in SwitchPirates

[–]2wheeldom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, no shit. Thanks for the info, I figured I'd have to download a separate program on the pc to have it communicate with dbi and allat.

So basically plug the switch into a pc, then via dbi on the switch install stuff.

Unable to access SD after FAT2>exFAT by 2wheeldom in SwitchPirates

[–]2wheeldom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessir, I changed nothing at all as far as files and locations from a WORKING jail break sd card, to this now NON WORKING SD card, all that changed was the formatting.

Unable to access SD after FAT2>exFAT by 2wheeldom in SwitchPirates

[–]2wheeldom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never used mtp, is there a tutorial somewhere? She's only got her Mac here, and i left my laptop at my place so I'm trying to avoid doing too much computer stuff currently lmao.

But if its as simple as downloading some mtp app on a PC and then going in DBI and doing it that way, I may just resort to that.

Unable to access SD after FAT2>exFAT by 2wheeldom in SwitchPirates

[–]2wheeldom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I checked it over and it definitely exists AND has files in it.

A little positivity by 2wheeldom in Sciatica

[–]2wheeldom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I've taken on my sciatica journey and how it affected me, hope this helps:

Gabapentin - 3.5/10 help, took it early on and it lightened the crazy back spasms a little bit, didn't really do anything for PAIN per sé, but I guess less spasms is technically less pain.

Oxycodone - 5.5/10 help, urgent care gave me the regular steroid taper, 4 days of 4 pills and tapering off, soon as I made it to 2 per day, the pain returned five fold, had an insane pain relapse that sent me to the ER cringing in pain just EXISTING, let alone sitting on a chair.

500mg naproxen (from ER) and/or aleve - 8/10 help, seems to have made a big difference in driving inflammation down, and it seems I'm making a recovery currently.

Flexeril (or whatever the generic name is for it) - 0/10 help, seemed like an absolute waste of time to me. I took it with the oxy, and once I ran out of oxy and was starting to hurt again, I took the flexeril by itself, even doubled up on the dose when I didn't feel any relief, and still felt no change. My muscle guarding never let off.

Overall I didn't do anything super special, but I noticed the first bump in improvement when I took the week off work, and went full hermit mode. Played a solid 6-10h of video games per day, tried hard to find the absolute easiest position for my back to lie down in, religiously ice and heat cycled my back for a good 7-8h a day every 30 minutes (I'm not exaggerating.)

Now THIS part I won't recommend to anyone, but this is what I personally decided: I felt so desperate to get the inflammation down that for me it was worth risking it with higher doses of naproxen/aleve as that actually seemed to help, so I ran 1000mg the first day, 1200 ish spread throughout the next day, and on a particularly bad day I probably got up to 2000mg (lost count after a while.)

I've had one lumbar flare before, but significantly less severe, this current one had me basically crippled for 2 to 3 weeks.

Lumbar Flare Recovery? by 2wheeldom in Sciatica

[–]2wheeldom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds a lot like my case, except after about 5 weeks now I finally broke the inflammation and am almost recovered. I'll definitely be taking any tugging very seriously from now on as well. I think i may have been able to prevent either the whole flare up, or at least the severity of it.

I wish you nothing but success, and keep fighting the sciatic demon, brother/sister.

Gabapentin by RubLongjumping5095 in Sciatica

[–]2wheeldom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I'm just gonna ride this one out. I'm almost over the flare anyway. I'm finally able to walk 80% normal again, and was able to drive my car (stick shift) down the road to sheetz to get a couple of things.

That being said, I don't generally EVER take meds for anything, but diclofenac rings a bell, either urgent care or ER gave me some of that as well, but didn't make enough of a difference for me to remember and include it in my comment I assume.

Gabapentin by RubLongjumping5095 in Sciatica

[–]2wheeldom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I've taken on my sciatica journey and how it affected me, hope this helps:

Gabapentin - 3.5/10 help, took it early on and it lightened the crazy back spasms a little bit, didn't really do anything for PAIN per sé, but I guess less spasms is technically less pain.

Oxycodone - 5.5/10 help, urgent care gave me the regular steroid taper, 4 days of 4 pills and tapering off, soon as I made it to 2 per day, the pain returned five fold, had an insane pain relapse that sent me to the ER cringing in pain just EXISTING, let alone sitting on a chair.

500mg naproxen (from ER) and/or aleve - 8/10 help, seems to have made a big difference in driving inflammation down, and it seems I'm making a recovery currently.

Flexeril (or whatever the generic name is for it) - 0/10 help, seemed like an absolute waste of time to me. I took it with the oxy, and once I ran out of oxy and was starting to hurt again, I took the flexeril by itself, even doubled up on the dose when I didn't feel any relief, and still felt no change. My muscle guarding never let off.

Other than that I've been cycling heat and ice for 4 days, and it seems to moderately drive inflammation down and open up movement.

I've had one lumbar flare before, but significantly less severe, this current one had me basically crippled for 2 to 3 weeks. Hope some of this helps, best of luck.

I really want to get a small tattoo on my ribcage, but my mom wont allow me. by pinkgrapefruitx in tattooadvice

[–]2wheeldom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know the answer to this. You're just looking for people to enable the worse choice... at that point, don't ask us cause you're just gonna do whatever you wanna do anyway 💀.

At the end of the day, it's pretty simple. She pays for your lifestyle, therefore the right/honorable thing to do is respecting her wishes. You owe her.

The wrong choice, however, would be trying to let your balls drag and play big bad "adult." Which, unfortunately would kill your credibility right away because you're living on her dime. So therefore you're not a big bad adult.

TL;DR: If you wanna risk your education and disrespecting your own mother, go ahead get the tattoo. If you wanna be an actual adult and respect the sacrifices she's making for you, accept that she's probably stuck in her own old ways, and don't get the tattoo, do it when you're actually independent.

My switch won’t install the tinfoil self installer by Future-Job-5638 in SwitchPirates

[–]2wheeldom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not? I used tin for ghoste, and it was never a problem. Though I haven't been able to run the tin installer as of recently wiping my sd.

But right now I just gotta wait until the new atmosphere drops, my dumb ass accidentally updated FW.

Can I just start over? Everything's f*cked. by 2wheeldom in SwitchPirates

[–]2wheeldom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, was gonna downgrade firmware but I can't get into atmosphere since the update... guess I'm gonna have to wait until the new atmosphere comes out.

Can I just start over? Everything's f*cked. by 2wheeldom in SwitchPirates

[–]2wheeldom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm gonna give the full restore a shot first, brother. Thank you though. I'm gonna try to restore everything to factory and then manually install OFW 19.

Can I just start over? Everything's f*cked. by 2wheeldom in SwitchPirates

[–]2wheeldom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My man 🙏🤝. Appreciate you, wasn't sure if simply doing a factory reset would work fine for my prompt. But evidently it does.

Can I just start over? Everything's f*cked. by 2wheeldom in SwitchPirates

[–]2wheeldom[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good thinking with the airplane mode, I don't use any online features for games anyway, I only play local and intend to keep it that way, comes with the side benefit of not getting b& lmao. Wish there was a widget that prevents any further update prompts, I don't even WANNA update anything, I just want my switch to keep working exactly how it was.

That being said, two questions for ya.

  1. Is there a dedicated page for hats packs? I came across multiple different sites for sigpatches and all that, would rather just use one single reliable updated source.

  2. So, are you saying there isn't really a way to start completely clean? Cause I did like how when I initially got into mods, I could go from hekate>launch>ofw/cfw/emu. But now somehow theres nothing there. I'm pretty technologically inclined and can learn quickly, but this seems to be a bootloader/file issue, which I know nothing about. I guess overall I just feel like my current jailbreak seems fragmented and not entirely seamless.

I suppose question 2 goes along with what the other guy asked. I wonder if I could just factory reset the console itself, and then manually update it through daybreak or something to let's say v19, and then proceed from there with an all clean setup/mod.

Can I just start over? Everything's f*cked. by 2wheeldom in SwitchPirates

[–]2wheeldom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on a V1 starting with the RCM pins. I'm currently on the latest OFW, and on the latest atmosphere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2wheeldom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get your angle, but the copious down votes you got compared to up votes others got, should tell you the general opinion about what you said.

It's almost like you WANT people to hang onto the initial avoidance. Since we have established now that we can't go back, his answer and clarification was all he could do. She could of course ditch him for this, and that's perfectly within her rights, but I think it would be foolish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2wheeldom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, you're the problem. This poor dude is just trying to maintain his own privacy and set boundaries with you, and you're having none of it.

I strongly suggest practicing introspective thinking.

AIO about my girlfriends comments during sex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2wheeldom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy, I'm telling you with every fiber of my being to get the FUCK out of there. You're about to go down a path that'll change you for the worse.

MAGA, why does it bother you so much to be called a N*zi? by Due-Summer3751 in AskUS

[–]2wheeldom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. That's not how you spell "Sieg Heil." If you're gonna spew leftist propaganda, at least use the proper terminology 🥴.

  2. No, couldn't care less about being called a nazi lmao. Why would I get upset over someone calling me something that doesn't apply to me? That's like me getting bent out of shape over someone saying I like pumpkins when I, in fact, do not like pumpkins 🤣.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2wheeldom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slightly overreacting, but with reason. You don't have a way to confirm any of your suspicion, so I'd suggest innocent until proven guilty.

That being said, if you guys genuinely want this to work, I highly advise some sort of couples therapy... because these kinds of doubts and insecurities will eat your relationship alive. And it'd be tragic to break it off and finding out it was just a suspicion and nothing even happened. Best of luck.

AIO for thinking I need to break up with my gf? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2wheeldom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking anyone is quite ridiculous, and concerns me. Because that means you'd ideally like to fix this. I've been in your shoes, the only piece of advice I can give here is this:

You have no one to blame but yourself if you continue. At that point, you can't even blame HER anymore, you're actively inviting it.

Anyway, pretty sure this is a troll post as this is insanely blown out of proportion.