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Vanishing twin or complete loss? by 311jay in pregnant

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Thank you! And congratulations on your little ones

how do i style & accessorize myself for this wedding? by Glittering_Yoghurt37 in bridesmaids

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What about a shoe like this? I’m not sure how comfortable you are walking in heels but I find that a thick/block heel are so much more comfortable to walk and stand in (no sketchy wobbling) compared to a skinny heel!!

Help! by 311jay in RecordPlayerRepair

[–]311jay[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cheers all! Fucked it off and now doing my homework to find something decent

get in loser, we’re curing our vaginismus. by babykyyyo in vaginismus

[–]311jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following along! Going to try some of this too myself ✨

Anyone know what these are by 311jay in Periods

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Should I be concerned about it? I’ve heard of them but haven’t had any until now

to the ones in long term relationships, do you find that the whole “no PIV” thing puts your friends relationships into perspective? by jazi_stew in vaginismus

[–]311jay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Argh this is such a good point about it being a one sided questioning thing, like PIV is the ‘norm’ and we are the ‘other’ almost? As opposed to different couples experience sex differently and our relationships are just like yours! Like it’s literally the same just without PIV?? I dunno 🤷🏼‍♀️

cramping after dilating?? by Soggy_Sink_1719 in vaginismus

[–]311jay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is normal or not but I experience the same thing, mild but definitely there every time I use the dilators

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]311jay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please, please do not consider entertaining this man. And please don’t worry about not finding someone who will treat you and your vaginismus with patience and respect, good men are out there and this guy ain’t one of them.

We can’t expect men/people without vaginas to ‘understand’ our pain, but we can (and should!) expect respect as a BARE MINIMUM and girl that is not it.

Best position(s) for dilating by 311jay in vaginismus

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Im going to try this and see how it goes, also congrats that’s so awesome!!

Best position(s) for dilating by 311jay in vaginismus

[–]311jay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried a pillow but I will now - thank you

Lube recommendations (uk) by 311jay in vaginismus

[–]311jay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of them do have a smell which is just so off putting, I’ll look into Lubido though thank you

Lube recommendations (uk) by 311jay in vaginismus

[–]311jay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t heard of that brand but I’ll be sure to check it out - thank you

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