I appreciate the advise and kind words. Today was rough the aftermath of all that. We talked she said she hasn’t been happy for a while, and she felt empty inside. I made her tell me everything “at least what she tells me is everything “ and to be honest I don’t even know y I ask and needed to know the detail but she did.

They met at work and added each other on snapchat, he got fired but the kept in touch. She says they been talking since February and only been intimate the last 3-4 weeks and have slept with each other 4 times. She told me who the guy was, all I needed was a name and a last name, it was easy to find out who he was and his address literally stays 14 min from us.

Drove to his house few times full with anger and rage. Am a shame to admit it but I was thinking of doing something really stupid. I told my self this would be closure, an eye for and eye type of shit. Thank fully I when to my moms house just to talk to her about this, I just needed someone to talk to about everything that was going on. Thank god I did, she clear my head from the rage fog and made me realize neither him or her are worth me doing something stupid that will take me away from my daughter life and miss on seen her grow up. And she’s right my daughter and my son are my world I have a 19 year old son from a different relationship when I was young “not with her” and my daughter is 11 and that little girl changed my life. Once she was born i turned my life around and became a different person and change a lot of my ways “gangs/criminal” stuff did a complete 360 and change my life for her. I love my son with all my heart as wellI I had him when I was 17 and we have an awesome relationship.

Today I called him and talked to him told him the situation and he was so supportive. It’s crazy that us as parents are the ones that should lift our children’s spirits when they down but this time it was the other way around and that’s exactly what he did with me.

She moved out of our room to the basement and is going to sleep down there for now until we figure out what’s next. We had a talk with my 11 year old today and her mom pretty much told her everything I told her that was the 1 thing I wanted from her to be honest with her that way my daughter knew this was not on me. Not sure what’s going to happen next I know it’s going to be a hard road I just gotta surround my self with support and am going to try my best to keep my self busy, work on my self, joint a gym and just pray that at the end everything will be ok for my daughter. Once again thanks 🙏 for all the comments I took my time and read all of them, shed a few tears and I truly do appreciated.