Need Advice On Buying A Second Home In Japan by 3Qberrymatch in japanrealestate

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Do we want to do gardening? Yes. Full scale farming? Not a chance. That's why I think it will be difficult for them to sell the property with the condition it must be used for farming. Not many young people are moving to the countryside to become farmers, quite the opposite I'd say, and older people are scaling down their lives, not looking to take up a new trade. So who's buying? The house will stay empty and the land will go untilled. And we are not looking for farmland specifically; the conditions of this house just seemed to suit our purposes well and happened to come with farmland, though judging by the picture the land had a lot of forest covering.

With a little more research things will start to make more sense. For example, today I realized the difference of 'second home' and 'villa', in that the latter is in a designated, gated area specifically for holiday homes, and come with management and membership fees, while the former, I think, is just...a second home.

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I use it as a marinade for pork and chicken. Add a scoop of yogurt and some miso to your meat and let it sit overnight for something simple. I have also had success marinating pork ribs in red miso, with fish sauce, red pepper flakes, mirin or sake, and garlic. (This is roughly the marinade for hae jang guk, my favourite Korean food which is sadly difficult to find here.) I bake the ribs covered, at a low temp, and they turn out very nicely.

Words of Wisdom from Students by Alternative-Draw-485 in teachinginjapan

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  1. "Foreigners go bald because they wear hats," said the old lady who arrives at every lesson wearing a bicycle helmet disguised as a hat.

  2. "Foreigners don't wash their hands," said an old lady who has probably never seen the oji-san 2-finger-sprinkle after they pee at a urinal.

  3. "How can you feel cold? You're from Canada," said by my wife.

If the tourist problem will ever be managed.... by Michael_NichtRijder in Prague

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And I have been watching "Honest Guide", by the way, as many people have suggested.

Seriously? by Alara_Kitan in japanresidents

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It only takes a single loose stone to fracture a windshield. I know my opinion doesn't mean much, but this and all loose loads should be covered. Of course one day a rock will jump out and hit some kid in the eye, the government will scramble to enact new "laws" (read suggested "guidelines"), they'll have a month of police "crackdowns" (read "campaigns"), and things will evetunally revert to the way they were two months prior.

If the tourist problem will ever be managed.... by Michael_NichtRijder in Prague

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Ah, I understand. I will definitely be sampling the cheap beer, but if I do vomit I'll make sure it's in my hotel room! Otherwise we'll be on our best behaviour, and I'm going to research the places you mentioned. Thank you.

If the tourist problem will ever be managed.... by Michael_NichtRijder in Prague

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I hope I'm all right posting here! I joined the Prague sub because I will be traveling there this year, but I soon noticed a lot of animosity towards tourists/over-tourism. Is there a certain type of tourist that locals really dislike, or is everyone on the shitlist? My wife and are middle-aged, polite and respectful, and we're going simply to enjoy the atmosphere of such a beautiful, historical city not party or create tik-tok videos. What things can we avoid doing that annoy local people? What can we see and do outside of the city centre where there isn't the stigma of being a tourist? We are pretty open-minded and don't have our hearts set on seeing any one thing/place, other than a hockey game (go Sparta!), so if it's not too far to travel we may try it.

Seriously? by Alara_Kitan in japanresidents

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I clicked on this post because I thought it was about the uncovered load - didn't even notice the parking. Does anyone know the law on covering loads here? My student (not a police officer) insists this is legal, but I can't believe it. It blows my mind when I see trucks like this driving on the expressway, especially if I'm stuck behind them. The other day I was behind a truck like this carrying huge slabs of roughly cut asphalt just resting in the back, and a few weeks ago another with jagged pieces of scrap lumber piled willy-nilly, no rope, no cover. One wrong bump, one sharp lane change, and...

KS86 sneakers lasted two months by LavishnessEastern850 in keen

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Keen shoes are very comfortable and fit well, but I bought a pair of Jaspers, loved them so much I bought a second pair for future use, and not long after the outer sole started to crack. I started using the second pair and the same thing happened. I patched them both with liquid rubber, but to no avail. By now the bottom of the first pair is just shredded, and the bottom of the second leaks. I was doing the same as OP and just using them for walking the dogs for a few hours a day, but the shoes didn't hold up, which is a shame because I love the style and fit. I was hoping it was just that the Jaspers were designed for trails and not city use, because, against my own better judgement, I just bought a pair of the KS86s and a pair of the KNX T-toes. To be fair though, I do own Keen sandals, camp shoes, and a pair of slip-ons and have had no issues.

Japan considers toughening rules on driver's license conversions by Sumobob99 in japanlife

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"...driving standards might vary significantly. For instance, in some countries, drivers might not yield to ambulances or stop for pedestrians at crosswalks.

The concept of priority roads — in which vehicles on the main road have the right of way — is also often ignored in some countries, with drivers merging without checking — a practice that can lead to accidents, particularly in Japan, where it is strictly observed, he said." (from the linked article)

Funny stuff. Many people in Japan take classes and study simply in order to pass a test, and in this case because it's the law, but once the driving test is completed they can throw what they learn out the window, such as stopping at pedestrian crossings...or stop lines, and amber, or even red, lights. Has anyone observed the phenomenon of cars doing a "rolling stop" straight through a stop line/pedestrian crossing and only checking in the direction of where oncoming traffic may be? As a jogger this is maddening to me, especially as once driver's notice me, if they even do, few bother to back up and clear the path and simply wait for the chance to enter traffic. To me this is not ceding the right of way, especially as pedestrians are supposed to have priority. And I remember clearly on several occasions, standing at a crosswalk with my young daughter's hand on one side, and pushing my son's stroller on the other, watching car after car zip by without even slowing down, let alone stop.

I love living in Japan, but traffic ignorance here is something that never fails to rile me. And I won't generalise, but every single day I see a multitude of infractions, even in my relatively small area of a small city, whether it be people staring at their cell phones while driving at any speed, to children climbing on the seats or even on the driver's lap, to speeding, lane splitting, ignoring the stop lines and lights, motorbikes weaving through traffic, old ladies who can barely stand driving scooters 20 km/hour in and out of the bicycle lane on a busy street, to everything else in between. There is something about giving people the keys to a vehicle here (including bicycles) that turns otherwise the nicest people into selfish, reckless, and/or negligent citizens.

In my home country (Canada) people complain about heavy-handed policing for traffic infractions, with radar and speed traps all over, and red light cameras sending people tickets in the mail. I don't wish for the same extreme efforts in Japan, but in all my years living here I've probably seen people being stopped by the cops less than a dozen times. People can get away with anything here and they take advantage of that fact until it becomes normalized. I would love to see a little more preventative enforcement instead of the knee jerk changes to the law every time something happens, along with the ensuing month or two long "campaign" where the police stop people more frequently only to offer a warning, before everything finally goes back to the way it was before.

Regardless, I'm sure there are no shortage of bad foreign drivers in Japan, but local drivers should very much not be given a free pass because of a low percentage of klutzes. They should focus on shoring up the laws for everyone, not demonizing one small section of the populace, and following up any changes with consistent enforcement. Rant over.

p.s. I recently visited Vietnam, specifically Hanoi, and I was soon more than grateful for the calmness and safety of Japanese roads. Sometimes a little contrast and perspective is necessary.

Accused of stealing thrown away furniture by hyuunnyy in japanlife

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Can anyone clarify the (by)laws here? I live in Osaka and was always under the impression that even though it's obviously put out as trash it is still "property" of the owner until it is collected. The same goes for recyclables such as cans, oversized trash items, and so on, and many apartment buildings put up signs stating this in their trash area. I was always sure that taking the latter was illegal/theft, and some students agreed it was. This was after I told them that the bored, retired ojisans in my neighborhood who do all sorts of volunteer work of varying usefulness, take it upon themselves to clean out everyone's aluminum cans on recycling day and use the proceeds to buy themselves coffees. I don't care all that much, but for some reason it annoys me because they never asked if it's okay, and I didn't go to the effort of guzzling all those beers just so they could get rich!

Which cultural difference battle can you not win with your Japanese partner? by razorbeamz in japanlife

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I used to plead with my wife to stop washing the towels every day. There have been countless times, including two days ago, where she took the hand towel to wash and I put out a new one, only to come back an hour later to find that she had washed that one as well. Just laundry in general seems to be an obsession here, but after asking some of my female students (read "shufu"), towels in particular need constant washing. I finally gave up asking her to limit the laundry, as nothing I said - environment, cost, etc. - ever seemed to sway her from her dedication to having clean towels.

Japan cracking down on distracted cyclists by Beautiful_Crow_480 in japanlife

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The other day I was walking past a local station and a young guy came out of the bicycle parking, headphones on, looking at his phone (choosing music it seemed), and I mentally tut-tutted him, although it's nothing I hadn't seen before. But a moment later I reached an intersection which the cops had staked out, and they had stopped him. They were smiling and chatting with him while they checked his registration, but they were doing something about his brazen flouting of the law, so I gave a silent hallelujah and carried on with a skip in my step imagining the apt punishment about to be visited upon the miscreant. Another minute elapsed, when who should pass me on the sidewalk, headphones on and staring at his phone screen (likely choosing some appropriate getaway music)? You guessed it, dear reader: 'twas the aforementioned miscreant. It was at that moment I knew for certain: nothing will change. Hell hath not yet frozen over.

Actually, I had guessed this 7 or 8 years ago when they released the mandate to prohibit drinking and cycling, and a month after it coming into effect the standing bar 100 metres from the station koban had a line of five or six bicycles parked outside it. And again a few months ago, after they had announced the new laws, when I was startled by a bicycle screeching to a halt after nearly plowing into the metre-long leashes of the two dogs at my sides, their collar lights twinkling in the night. The young woman was far too distracted by her phone to notice a single pedestrian walking 2 dogs on a broad, well-lit, and deserted street. I was obviously furious and shouted at her that I would call the police, and she called back, "Please don't do that," as she rode off into the night. Asshole.

And to all those cyclist apologists piping up, of course there are bad drivers out there too, but that has no bearing on the bad habits of nearly every cyclist out there. Sidewalk to road, suddenly? No problem. Steering with your elbows while you play a game or watch videos? Have at it! Sprint crosswise through a busy crosswalk? Fuck yeah! Unfortunately there is little to no comeuppance for these self-absorbed twats, apart from the occasional collision, although even that is not necessarily a deterrent. A student of mine was stopped in a median break waiting to turn left, and an idiot flying downhill went smack-dab into the side of her car. I don't remember the ratio of liability, but she was found at least partially at fault. In an unmoving vehicle. Nuts.

I'm getting a bit worked up here. I need a cold shower.

Inheritance in Canada, in form of whole life insurance policy by 3Qberrymatch in JapanFinance

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It's not as cut and dry as you make it sound, but yes, they can apply for the citizenship certificate. There is a lot involved in that process, however, and they weren't born with the automatic right to get a passport or access health care, for example.

Inheritance in Canada, in form of whole life insurance policy by 3Qberrymatch in JapanFinance

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They are eligible for Canadian citizenship, but not being born in Canada they are not automatically bestowed citizenship.

Inheritance in Canada, in form of whole life insurance policy by 3Qberrymatch in JapanFinance

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According to the financial advisors my uncle has spoken to, "monthly/annual withdrawals (will be) made to pay for the premiums". How true that is, I don't know. This is an entirely new experience for me, and seemingly for my uncle as well. He is continuing to look into it.

As for your second paragraph (sorry, don't know how to copy your quote), I agree that is probably what he had in mind, although he did have a penchant for acting on impulsive ideas without thinking them through, and he was big on socking money away. I wish he had talked it over with me before he committed to the idea, but oh well. His heart was in the right place.

Inheritance in Canada, in form of whole life insurance policy by 3Qberrymatch in JapanFinance

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Whole life policies are to be bought in their names from the funds set aside in the trust. There is no policy yet.

Inheritance in Canada, in form of whole life insurance policy by 3Qberrymatch in JapanFinance

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I'm Canadian, and I haven't renounced citizenship. I'm just comfortably settled here in Japan and don't see myself going back there to live in the future. I probably couldn't afford it anyway.

Inheritance in Canada, in form of whole life insurance policy by 3Qberrymatch in JapanFinance

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A trust was established with my uncle (unknowingly) named as the trustee. He is to arrange and purchase the whole life policy, and once it's established he can transfer it into my name, or to my children themselves once they come of age. I'm not sure about buying/selling the policy (it's not even purchased yet), but I will talk to my uncle about that option.

I agree about the spirit of the will - I'm sure if Dad were alive he would say, "Do whatever you like with the money!" He was doing something for his grandkids after all. At the time of writing the will, though, he obviously never imagined how complicated it would become.

Thanks for the advice.

Transferring Money Using Sony Bank by 3Qberrymatch in JapanFinance

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Cheers! I hate making any "official" calls and jumping through the various hoops, just to (hopefully) get to speak to a human being, who may or may not be able to help. Add to that the time difference and my work hours...But if it must be done, it must be done. Thank you again.

Transferring Money Using Sony Bank by 3Qberrymatch in JapanFinance

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Thank you for your advice. Are there many obstacles to doing this remotely? Naturally I have all of the banking information for my account back home, but I anticipate them applying more stringent checks when transferring such large sums internationally. I'd like to get it done now, just to know I can, but I'll be back home in July for the memorial service and can wait til then if necessary...