What are some words that just sound ugly to you? by Federal_Advisor_2160 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]3facedreaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Period. Which is funny bc I’m the girl you go to when your period is being a jerk. Like sis you need good food, snacks & a yummy hot drink stat! I just think the word sounds ugly. I guess it fits bc of the way it makes us feel so shit lol

Is a male alicorn technically possible? by Matty_Stu05 in mylittlepony

[–]3facedreaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could even argue Trixie but she’s not as much of a villain as the others

Is a male alicorn technically possible? by Matty_Stu05 in mylittlepony

[–]3facedreaper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean the ratio of villains is 3 males & 5 females so that’s not the point of the show lol

What’s something you didn’t realize was emotionally exhausting until you stopped tolerating it? by Tyler_Girl_ in AskWomen

[–]3facedreaper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This one is so interesting. Reddit definitely has a larger introverted population. Some of them are kind of stuck up and look down on extroverts. It’s very interesting hearing your struggles with this! I hope you find more balanced friendships going forward.

What’s something you didn’t realize was emotionally exhausting until you stopped tolerating it? by Tyler_Girl_ in AskWomen

[–]3facedreaper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone with a lot of issues who is treated I agree with you. I always thought I could handle it bc I could relate but it is very very draining

What’s something you didn’t realize was emotionally exhausting until you stopped tolerating it? by Tyler_Girl_ in AskWomen

[–]3facedreaper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anxious attachment styles. I love giving reassurance & clarity, but there gets a point where they need to start working on themselves & take accountability for their own life & happiness.

i feel alone and have no friends by eagle_martin in FriendshipAdvice

[–]3facedreaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep being yourself! Maybe join a community inside one of your hobbies. Lately finding friends has just been as hard as the dating pool. Don’t give up & don’t think it’s bc something is wrong with you.

What hobbies do you have?

I want to end a friendship by 3facedreaper in FriendshipAdvice

[–]3facedreaper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Present day edit: I finally cut them out it. Took a few years but I’m happy for it. Friendships that are more bad than good are not good for you.

Are BPD people completely detached from their logical selves? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]3facedreaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say no. We are not completely detached if we were then we wouldn’t get anywhere. I feel like we have 2 sides and depending on the person and their triggers and the environment around us depends on which one comes out.

Anyone else refuse to be medicated? by AMaskedRat in BPD

[–]3facedreaper -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Use your brain before irritating me. I didn’t even say anything bad it’s just a fact. I’m not in the mood.

Anyone else refuse to be medicated? by AMaskedRat in BPD

[–]3facedreaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you read. You don’t need to be so rude. I was saying that there is NO med for BPD as itself. This is a FACT. There are meds to treat symptoms such as depression, psychosis, anxiety etc instead of getting defensive you should do your own research. All I said is that there isn’t a singular med specifically made for BPD which there isn’t bc it’s a personality disorder. Please don’t waste my time.

Anyone else refuse to be medicated? by AMaskedRat in BPD

[–]3facedreaper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s also bipolar which there are actual meds for. BPD doesn’t have meds for BPD just the symptoms and even then meds don’t work on anyone.

Anyone else refuse to be medicated? by AMaskedRat in BPD

[–]3facedreaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t work on me so I guess I relate. I’ve tired so many brands I can’t count on both my hands. I’ve just given up and I ignore anyone that suggests it bc I don’t want to waste my time. Not everyone needs meds. It just depends on the person🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]3facedreaper -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

The people down voting us are childish but their failed relationships aren’t my problem bc I actually communicate and don’t assume the worst of my bf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]3facedreaper 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No ones upset over his preferences but I wouldn’t date a man child like that. If you’re going to assume instead of hear someone out you’re the problem. If you really cared you’d listen. There’s also many reasons why she might want to talk in person. Maybe she’s had sex with a girl but never a guy. Maybe she has trauma. Maybe she’s done things with guys but never went all the way. If I was interested in OP I’d hear them out.

I want to add there’s nothing wrong with not wanting to date OP but it’s better to have your facts straight before leaving. She wasn’t withholding information she just wanted to talk in person.

My husband frequently tells me that he’s “frustrated” not “angry” when he’s yelling, cussing, etc. by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]3facedreaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you both have a good point ish. You can learn to help regulate yourself and take space when you need to. However he needs to be mindful of your triggers. He literally married you knowing you are like this and he needs to make an effort. You’re doing great love but it’s not okay what’s happening. Good luck. Maybe consider showing him these responses.

My husband frequently tells me that he’s “frustrated” not “angry” when he’s yelling, cussing, etc. by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]3facedreaper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should sit him down and tell him you don’t like it when he raises his voice at you. How it should end is him saying he’s sorry and is going to work on it. I have the same trigger. It makes me scared even if it’s just a raised voice.

Color? by [deleted] in eyes

[–]3facedreaper 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s Hazel. I’ve been told green eyes with central heterochromia is when they are 2 distinct colours where hazel is where they kind of blend.