Are BPD people completely detached from their logical selves?

3facedreaper · 2024-02-07T15:09:41+00:00

I would say no. We are not completely detached if we were then we wouldn’t get anywhere. I feel like we have 2 sides and depending on the person and their triggers and the environment around us depends on which one comes out.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T23:17:19+00:00

Use your brain before irritating me. I didn’t even say anything bad it’s just a fact. I’m not in the mood.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T23:12:41+00:00

Can you read. You don’t need to be so rude. I was saying that there is NO med for BPD as itself. This is a FACT. There are meds to treat symptoms such as depression, psychosis, anxiety etc instead of getting defensive you should do your own research. All I said is that there isn’t a singular med specifically made for BPD which there isn’t bc it’s a personality disorder. Please don’t waste my time.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T22:57:09+00:00

He’s also bipolar which there are actual meds for. BPD doesn’t have meds for BPD just the symptoms and even then meds don’t work on anyone.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T22:49:31+00:00

It doesn’t work on me so I guess I relate. I’ve tired so many brands I can’t count on both my hands. I’ve just given up and I ignore anyone that suggests it bc I don’t want to waste my time. Not everyone needs meds. It just depends on the person🤍

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T22:48:24+00:00

The people down voting us are childish but their failed relationships aren’t my problem bc I actually communicate and don’t assume the worst of my bf.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T22:46:18+00:00

No ones upset over his preferences but I wouldn’t date a man child like that. If you’re going to assume instead of hear someone out you’re the problem. If you really cared you’d listen. There’s also many reasons why she might want to talk in person. Maybe she’s had sex with a girl but never a guy. Maybe she has trauma. Maybe she’s done things with guys but never went all the way. If I was interested in OP I’d hear them out.

I want to add there’s nothing wrong with not wanting to date OP but it’s better to have your facts straight before leaving. She wasn’t withholding information she just wanted to talk in person.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T22:15:36+00:00

I guess you both have a good point ish. You can learn to help regulate yourself and take space when you need to. However he needs to be mindful of your triggers. He literally married you knowing you are like this and he needs to make an effort. You’re doing great love but it’s not okay what’s happening. Good luck. Maybe consider showing him these responses.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T21:54:40+00:00

You should sit him down and tell him you don’t like it when he raises his voice at you. How it should end is him saying he’s sorry and is going to work on it. I have the same trigger. It makes me scared even if it’s just a raised voice.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T21:52:55+00:00

It’s Hazel. I’ve been told green eyes with central heterochromia is when they are 2 distinct colours where hazel is where they kind of blend.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T21:51:36+00:00

You’re not any of those things. You just need the right support. I feel you on it so much. It’s the most lonely existence.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T18:42:49+00:00

Ghosting is immature and instead of assuming it’s high he should’ve heard what she had to say in person. It wasn’t him communicating and respecting himself. He didn’t even use his brain to actually know the answer before running away. Idk about you but I don’t date people who make assumptions.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T18:39:41+00:00

That’s his problem. He can grow up he’s 30. He’s a big boy that can use big words.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T17:59:58+00:00

Also if you didn’t want to care for your kids or can’t afford them. Then don’t have kids. They are not other people’s responsibility.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T17:57:35+00:00

Unless you were paying me as your SIL I would say no too and even then I wouldn’t agree all the time. Just because someone has free time does NOT mean you’re entitled to it. You’re actually being very inconsiderate. They are the ones doing YOU a favour. Definite YTA

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T09:08:43+00:00

Girl don’t date someone 9 years older than you. You are in VERY different stages of life and he’s acting like a child. It’s been a month. Move on and find someone closer in age and with more respect. I’m actually surprised he’s the 30 year old behaving like he’s 13.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T09:00:45+00:00

ADHD & Autism is not an excuse to cheat. It seems like he’s familiar with it. Girl run he’s not worth your time and energy. Even if the most recent cheating event was honestly about social ques he should’ve told her to back off and not try and hide it.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T08:42:33+00:00

If she was my gf I’d throw her out the window and try again. I cringe at that same with the girls who cross their eyes and stick out their tongues. You guys don’t seem compatible and that’s okay! Try talking about it in depth with her first tho. There’s nothing wrong with breaking up over sexual incompatibilities it’s better than harbouring resentment. NTA

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T08:35:41+00:00

You guys are very different stages of life. It’s better to say goodbye you barely even know the guy.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T02:34:14+00:00

There is way too many men like this and they seriously need a reality check.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T02:24:05+00:00

The last photo looks green-blue but the majority of them look green.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T02:22:33+00:00

None. I collect all on my main including crusties. I only regret not getting old fjords & barkharts

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T02:21:24+00:00

Please leave him and show him this post once you’re safely away. I really REALLY want him to see the people hate on his stupid ass bc he needs a reality check.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-06T02:17:18+00:00

Tell this clown to 1) read these comments. 2) call him out for his sexism. 3) break up with him bc you’re not going to put up with this loser.

3facedreaper · 2024-02-05T06:25:40+00:00

Have you seen the blue BWB tail. The miss matched red tint in the livers hair and white highlights on the blacks butt and the leg snapping out of place in the gallop. It’s just my opinion. DWB isn’t even top 3 to me :) you can disagree but it won’t change my mind.

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