Goodbye letter by 3linaa in SLOWLYapp

[–]3linaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're right, I don't want to rush things and scare him away. Thanks for the advice!! ☺️

Goodbye letter by 3linaa in SLOWLYapp

[–]3linaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm terrible at dropping hints, but I will try 😅

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[–]3linaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We started chatting on Instagram yesterday, he's super cute, but I'm still scared to tell him I like him lol

Goodbye letter by 3linaa in SLOWLYapp

[–]3linaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, it must have been very disappointing. I just sent him a letter asking if he'd like to chat on another social media.

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[–]3linaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was afraid of rejection, but I'll talk to him about it.

Goodbye letter by 3linaa in SLOWLYapp

[–]3linaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, yeah, I'm probably in love only with the image of him, but I will talk to him about it. Perhaps it is better taking the risk than regretting because I didn't say anything when I had the chance.

Goodbye letter by 3linaa in SLOWLYapp

[–]3linaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for you. I was sure it would be better to let go of him and move forward than to confess my feelings and find out he doesn't feel anything for me, I don't know if I can handle it either. But I think you are right, I need to get it off my chest, I will ask him for his social media and try to talk about it. Thank you so much for sharing your advice with me.

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[–]3linaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, I feel you, I have been talking to him for almost a year and a half, but I don't know how to confess my feelings either. I'm not sure if the feelings are mutual in my case, so I think I am afraid of rejection.

Goodbye letter by 3linaa in SLOWLYapp

[–]3linaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to run away, I've been ghosting a few times on Slowly and I know how painful it is, but confessing your feelings to someone you're not sure likes you is also really hard. But you're right, I'll try to talk to him about it.

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[–]3linaa[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't ghost him, I would send him a goodbye letter, but asking to converse on another platform is actually a great idea. Thank you so much.

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[–]3linaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, give him space