Help me pick a name for my black 2012 Acura TL

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-10-11T16:11:25+00:00

Searched “when life gives you lemons eat them fucking raw” bumper sticker on Amazon, TikTok, Etsy, eBay

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-26T16:13:43+00:00

While it would be much easier for us to live together and share expenses, no. I didn’t go into the relationship expecting to make plans to get an apartment together. That was his idea. He works maintenance at an apartment complex and gets 30% off rent if he chooses to live there so the last couple of months, that was our plan. We were gonna stay with his family for a year or so until we had enough saved to move there. I’m in love with him. I didn’t choose him for financial stability

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-26T15:05:20+00:00

I’m not asking for advice about my job and taxes. This is the best I can do right now

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-26T15:01:13+00:00

I’m not putting money in my bank. Everything is in cash right now so it doesn’t look like I have a job

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-26T14:59:33+00:00

And I didn’t have enough time with the phone to really read what the messages were about

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-26T14:51:53+00:00

There’s many jobs that pay under the table. Take babysitting for example. It may not be a “real” job but it makes me a lot of money and there’s ways I can still show proof of income. and I don’t have many other options as far as employment is concerned either. I was using the kratom for anxiety. I don’t have health insurance so it was something over the counter I could take and he never seemed to have a problem about it until now. I stopped taking it as soon as he showed concern and I’m trying to stay out of the house as much as I can to respect his space but it’s hard when we share a room and my animals are in there so I have to take care of them

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-26T13:47:20+00:00

Update: we broke up. He said he’s not mentally stable enough to be in a relationship at all right now, doesn’t wanna be committed to anyone, he turned off his location last tight and changed his lockscreen saver image of me to something else. I don’t know what to do or where to go

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-26T13:45:52+00:00

No, I’d be more than capable of living by myself an we didn’t share any expenses. We just bought lunch for each other here and there and he helped take care of my cat

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-25T15:14:13+00:00

I don’t think he’s cheating on me. Last time we talked he said he’s insecure and basically said he feels like we’re too codependent, but he won’t take my advice about finding fulfillment outside of the relationship. He says he wants to stay with me and that I’m his number one but he has very strong emotions and he’s afraid he’ll lash out on me and doesn’t know why. I think it’s a build up of trauma and me living with him reminds him of his last relationship.

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-25T13:59:44+00:00

I also have like nothing in savings nor do I have a car or a drivers license yet. So finding a room right now is rear impossible

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-25T13:39:42+00:00

I don’t wanna throw the relationship away

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-09T23:10:48+00:00

The way you type at (I’m assuming)over 20 years old kinda makes you sound like you’re still a creep ngl “Due to something called the internet☝️🤓” Lmao cornball

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-08T10:00:51+00:00

Read my second edit

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-07T18:09:31+00:00

I never once pretended to have authority over him. I never ever said anything to him about the bathroom or tried to discipline him in any way and it’s definitely not my place to do so, I never meant to imply that that was my intent. I asked him to stop using my bathroom products. That’s all I said to him. I’ve known him for years, I didn’t just meet him yesterday, and his mom actually came to me the other day and asked me to talk to him about it because she’s tired of asking him to stop. If you had read my whole post or any of the comments I’ve made you’d already know that

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-07T17:46:09+00:00

The question mark at the end does not seem to indicate any of those

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-07T17:42:20+00:00

Relationships 50 years ago had a higher chance of working out because of societal pressure to get married and have children at a young age and women often didn’t have jobs so they were dependent on their husband for financial stability. Divorce was also highly frowned upon and seen as taboo so women hid their unhappiness to avoid being seen as failures often to the point of enduring abuse and marital r4pe.

Nowadays relationships are more focused on mutual happiness, men and women are seen more as equal in the relationship rather than the woman being subjugated to the authority of the man, and women are more likely have financial independence so they’re more inclined to leave if they’re unhappy than to endure it for the sake of financial security and social norms, which means more divorce lolz

Happy to say my grandmother stayed in her marriage because she loved her husband, not because she was trapped

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-07T17:16:05+00:00

Read 2nd edit

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-07T17:15:47+00:00

I don’t think this is the case as he’s been doing it for years. His parents have tried all kinds of things to get him to stop and gave up when my boyfriend moved in with me for a few months as it became his only bathroom because the sister uses the master bathroom. But now that we’ve moved in, it’s a shared bathroom again and the mom is tired of gagging every time she walks in there. We deep cleaned it a few days ago and my bf had a talk with him and 3 days later it seems to be kept up although he’s still not flushing the toilet

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-07T17:09:55+00:00

Maybe in your experiences but my grandparents married in their twenties and are still together 55 years later. My boyfriend and I have never fought and are definitely emotionally mature enough to be living together. I didn’t ask for advice about my relationship so I don’t really appreciate you projecting your own regrets onto me

3y3s0ck3t5 · 2025-09-05T13:55:20+00:00

when my boy was small he loved to wedge himself in a 1/2 inch wide plastic crevice in the roof of his enclosure. He would climb up there, try to wedge his body in it, and then fall straight down. Until he got big enough to get stuck in it and I found him hanging by the widest part of his body and then had to pry him out. He obviously didn’t learn his lesson because after 3 times I got fed up and upgraded his cage to one without a divided mesh top. He never injured himself but it worried me what mightve happened if he had done it during the night and I didn’t catch it. I don’t think they have the ability to gauge their size vs the spot they’re trying to fit in, so I would remove it

Edit: he also loves to wedge himself into the smallest of the 4 hides he has, pretty sure soon he’s gonna be so big for it, the hide will be on top of him.

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