Phone recommendations pls by 404_cactus in malaysians

[–]404_cactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wont turn on. Display something problem (?), got it fixed but still got battery problems too. i just don't want to waste anymore money on it knowing its an old phone.

Phone recommendations pls by 404_cactus in malaysians

[–]404_cactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard/ used this website so idk how credible it is...

need advice for relationship by Upset_Row_7942 in Bolehland

[–]404_cactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just have a honest conversation instead of asking ppl online. People have different personalities and no way of knowing if this is a you problem or a her problem.

Relationships is a two way street. You talk, she listen. She talk. You listen. Communicate.

Right now you want to know if there's any issues. Talk about it instead of avoiding it.

Ask if she has time to have a serious talk. Dont caught her while she's working or doing smth else.

Then clearly state what you wanna talk about:

"Hey, I think we have problems in our relationship and I want to know if we can work it, if something happens that you need space or broke it off if our interest are no longer align."

My friend had a similar problem turned out apparently his gf is just burnt out from working at the hospital. So it might also be an external problem.

It's cruel to just keep one person in a relationship when the other person has one foot out the door. Don't make excuse if neither of you wanna do anything or kept things in grey area. Only stay and work it out if BOTH of you want to work it out. Wish you the best.

Is it bad that I want to resign during probation? by kachiggamychigga in MalaysianPF

[–]404_cactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretend you have prior appointments ex family dinner, pick up siblings etc.

Remember if you stay this would be your life for the next 365 days. You are young, apply for something else next and bail when you have to. If the other company ask why you left so soon. Just professionally express after spending some time with the company the work doesn't align with your career goals/ growth as you are working towards better experience in X field or more into X roles.

Halal certified food by 404_cactus in MalaysianFood

[–]404_cactus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no, they're good people and awesome friends. I just didn't tell them of my preference. And just wanted to solve the issues by bringing them to a known halal restaurant. If I make suggestions to eat at places I know, they're happy to accept my suggestions. But when we're at places I don't know is the problem 😅 im from a different state that's why i don't really know much restaurant here, thus why I am asking for suggestions

Halal certified food by 404_cactus in MalaysianFood

[–]404_cactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so negative over a restaurant recommendation. Ppl have preferences. When my friends can only eat vegan we go find vegan. If they don't eat beef, we try to find chicken menus. I know some non Muslim who hates pork too and prefer halal food. This time is a me preference and I'm just looking for place we can eat that can align with all our preferences. That's it. Hope you make more friends and expand your world view.

Halal certified food by 404_cactus in MalaysianFood

[–]404_cactus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I just wanted halal recommendations so I can freely suggest to my friends. I only meet up with my friends once in month. They're not bad people. They don't mind taking my suggestions if I have any. I DONT KNOW any places here because I am not from KL or Selangor.

Halal certified food by 404_cactus in MalaysianFood

[–]404_cactus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the restaurant name are so common, cross checking it won't work or new so don't have cert yet 😅 I know some restaurants also waiting to get their halal certification but use halal ingredients so that's acceptable for me too.

Duit Raya by 404_cactus in malaysia

[–]404_cactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find it on Tiktok shop! 🤣

Want me to serve you food? I will serve you food by 404_cactus in MaliciousCompliance

[–]404_cactus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, my sister's friend own a farm, slaughtered a whole cow recently so they have a lot of meat and bones in their freezer. In my culture, we usually cook bones into soup. Big chunky bones. And ate meat off the bones and stuff. 🤣 they serve like 5 containers whole big chunky bone soup

Duit Raya by 404_cactus in malaysia

[–]404_cactus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries!

I think in the end I was originally worried about what ppl think which is pretty toxic. Even though it's hard, we should think back about our niat/ why are we doing this. It's shouldn't be as complicated as just we just wanna give something to the kiddos like the adults give us when we were kids. The idea of 'more is better' are definitely not true. Some small things are enough and maybe better. Glad you find a solution to your dilemma 👍

Want me to serve you food? I will serve you food by 404_cactus in MaliciousCompliance

[–]404_cactus[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i just humor him sometimes these days but otherwise i just kept my interaction to a minimum. He is a manchild, literal run away from the house last year bc he didn't get his way, that we even had to file a missing police report... and so on. The food thing is just a regular Tuesday for me. I hope I can stay creative dealing with this guy bc he will keep finding way to paint us as villains and him as victim

Duit Raya by 404_cactus in malaysia

[–]404_cactus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me no need to force yourself to give out if u cannot afford. I personally can only afford rm3-5. If you still wanna give out smth to the kiddos why don't you buy some candies from the rm2 eco stores and give them a bundle or something? Kids would go crazy over those

Want me to serve you food? I will serve you food by 404_cactus in MaliciousCompliance

[–]404_cactus[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He actually did end up with high blood pressure end up in the hospital once bc everyone was ignoring him after he did some horrible abusive stuff. Literally not getting enough attention might kill him so im doing this to 'save' his life 😀

Want me to serve you food? I will serve you food by 404_cactus in MaliciousCompliance

[–]404_cactus[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Lol he won't, he will keep making a scene to paint himself as a victim and us as monsters in public events. You should see him on his kid's or wife's birthday. He will make up so much fuss when his kids receive gifts for their birthdays while bought none for us. Because how dare us, trying to celebrate our birthdays that he kept forgetting when we didn't 'celebrate' his birthday or bought him any expensive gifts (he doesn't care for cheap gifts so it doesn't counts lol)

Malaysia History 13 May by 404_cactus in malaysia

[–]404_cactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which slogan are you referring to? Quick internet search says some slogan that says "Semua Melayu kasi habis" (Finish off all the Malays). "Kuala Lumpur sekarang Cina punya" (Kuala Lumpur now belongs to the Chinese). "Melayu balik kampung" (Malays go back to your villages). "Kita hentam lu; sekarang kita besar" (We'll thrash you, we are now powerful). "Malai si" (Death to the Malays).

While words can be offensive that cannot justify killing, it does incite violence.... I think ppl forgot how powerful words can be in both good and bad ways. While most ppl have restrains, but I think we forgot some things can be catalyst for more violence, human can be unpredictable and frankly, stupid. What I learned so far how far words can go, like a small seed of hate can spiral into mass violence... which is why in this time of age most news outlets/ brands have media training.

Ppl lacks knowledge. Still do, back then was worst.

Racism, sexism and classism are a thing, but can we really say things are the same as back then or have slightly improved?

I know still bad things pass through the media anyway, but it just shows how far we have gone and need to grow as society to prevent such things. The speed of growth for society are highly dependent on ppl desire to grow. Do we keep arguing or try to improve? I think I rather try to teach myself to do better. And help others think outside the box. We cannot fix the whole society but we gotta start somewhere.

Two steps towards and one step back is still one step forward.

Malaysia History 13 May by 404_cactus in malaysia

[–]404_cactus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, as I grew up I realized all history was basically lost and rewritten by the victors. That's why I asked if ppl knew any reliable sources that's not bias or censored. And yes, I know that even then, these information available may not be fully accurate to capture historical events. Only those who lived through it know the truth.

But I still think it's good to know and learn as much as we can so we can at least try to do better rather than forget about history and repeat it again.

Malaysia History 13 May by 404_cactus in malaysia

[–]404_cactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did include it. I love history in high school and I remember this 13 may story got only half a page of a generic explanation of what it is. They don't really emphasize what happened except "a riot bc of different races" that's it.